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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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First time on this forum… be kind please people! 
Mia here (F).
Need some advice. I have a specific fantasy I want to try, but it could sound a bit… weird? Offensive? Something like that.
I don’t want to be the weirdo that is talked about on these forums!
So… do I just literally lay it on a plate and ask anyone who messages/winks?
Do you build up to asking?
Help a girl out here people…
Mia x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel free to pm to discuss, get an opinion on the matter at hand.. personally I find that putting it in your bio or being straight up works best, no time wasted that way... |
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I put it as a sort of 'oh btw I still want to try...' in my profile, and have had many many willing offers, I'm sure you'll get the same!
Mine is quite, uhm, niche too and I was worried people would think I was a freak. Turns out it's not as rare a fantasy as I thought it would be! I still haven't done it as it's very much about trust, and atm there's only maybe two guys I trust to do it, but it's aligning free time etc. Soon I hope!
Good luck to you lovely, I'm sure you'll get offers flooding in! |
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I've found when discussing my kinks and tastes that it's often worth building up so if you have a fantasy where you dress up and take on the persona of an animal (A furry is the kink) then bringing up role play and collar and leash is a softer intro.
It's also possible to post anonymously on various websites and see what the feedback is, but I can confidently say your idea of weird is probably not even a blip on many peoples radar |
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Sometimes you will find that those you get to know and talk to may be happy to try your kinks and fetish desires out with you as many are also experimental and finding things out for themselves too.
Often it's the suggestion of stuff that opens their eyes to it. |
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Ww just take the open route. Happy discuss what we would like to do with whoever asks in a social meeting but dont put pressure on anyone to play along. If they happen, they happen, if not, no shortage of other fun to be had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just say what you want.
Some people are offended at everything,I'm guessing they're not the people you are looking for anyway.
Good luck with your search
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All I’d say is that one persons “weird” as you put it is another’s vanilla. So don’t be concerned about what others think or say. Assuming your fantasy is fully above board the revel in it. You might be surprised about how many others would revel with you lol |
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