I will go shopping tomorrow morning to Swansea and Asda wearing stockings and a butplug. What you think about it?
Should I also go to a lingerie shop to buy panties, asking for help and telling the seller that is for me and must match with black stockings and green diamond butplug?  |
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Honestly, telling the shop assistant that it has to match a butt plug is unfair on them. It’s creepy as fuck in my opinion. They haven’t asked to be part of this. |
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"Should not force your fantasies on others, this is so wrong, 
No force..
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Going up to a complete strangersnd using them for your fantasies without there permission is forcing them to take part, as a shop worker you are not giving them the chance to say no . The new has been full of self entitled man like you who think it's OK to do what you like to people and never admit it wrong,  |
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"I will go shopping tomorrow morning to Swansea and Asda wearing stockings and a butplug. What you think about it?
Should I also go to a lingerie shop to buy panties, asking for help and telling the seller that is for me and must match with black stockings and green diamond butplug? "
You should be free to be yourself. Go in stockings if it makes you feel good. Display proudly if you want. Wear a butt plug, but keep that information to yourself. I don't see any harm in buying the items of underwear that you want to wear or feel good in. That should not be controversial in the slightest. However it's unfair to sexualise things to unexpected people. For example in a shop asking about sizes, colours, types they have etc fine. The only caveat on that is maybe sex shops such as Ann Summers where there maybe more scope to ask about products in sexualised terms. Note to talk openly about the sexual application of the products but do not impose your sexual desires on to them. For example does this product have holes for my nipples, is a perfectly fine questions to ask in the context of such a store. Be polite, be respectful and engage with them about the products. Naturally a lot also depends on the staff member you talk to. I've had some very interesting conversations in such stores but you let them take the lead on what they are comfortable with if they want to be more personal in terms of the conversation.
Hope you have a lovely shopping trip. Just be mindful of other people's right to feel safe and comfortable at work. And if you do this well respecting other people and still get a frill from it that's great. No problem as long as you do no harm.
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