I’m on tinder and I openly tell people I’m a swinger.
It’s mad how people think swingers are just sex addicted deprived people 
I’ve just been asked about it.
“ Are you into swinging and kinky shit ”
“ Haha theres no way to answer that without being blocked......but I’ll try.
Yes I’m a swinger, but not the media painted picture of a swinger. A swinger enjoys social meeting. That means a coffee, a club or whatever. But the media have tainted it to mean keys in a bowl everyone has sex with everyone, and it’s definitely not like that lol
And no, I’m not into all kinds of kinky shit “
“ So having your cake and eating it, having a partner but also dating others ”
How would you have addressed it? Normally, before covid, I’d have sent them to fab. But too many sex deprived horny males on here so she’d be scared off for life haha |
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I've met some guys off Tinder, mostly for a one off fuck. I do say on my profile I'm a married swinger. Normally it goes one of two ways, they assume I'm a whore they can just turn up a stuff with their mates, which gets them immediately blocked, or they understand and just meet me for a bit of fun.
I much prefer fab, expectations are easier to manage, people are more experienced, there's the verification system, etc. Xx |
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I connected with an ex-girlfriend on Tinder and now we hook up regularly and have amazing sex without any expectations of a relationship.
It was about 20 years since we last saw each other and now we're both into lots of varied sex and non-monogamy.
Apart from that, it was a waste of my time on there. |
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My tinder profile says that I'm ethically non monogamous or words to that effect. It has meant me receiving messages where guys think I don't have standards and will fuck anyone with a pulse. It's not always easy to explain it doesn't mean that especially as I'm not looking for ONS. I got bored and hid the profile in the end, it's a little easier on here. |
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"I've met some guys off Tinder, mostly for a one off fuck. I do say on my profile I'm a married swinger. Normally it goes one of two ways, they assume I'm a whore they can just turn up a stuff with their mates, which gets them immediately blocked, or they understand and just meet me for a bit of fun.
I much prefer fab, expectations are easier to manage, people are more experienced, there's the verification system, etc. Xx"
Tinder also has a verified system now. I’ve got a blue tick next to my name haha
Would have loved to match with you  |
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"My tinder profile says that I'm ethically non monogamous or words to that effect. It has meant me receiving messages where guys think I don't have standards and will fuck anyone with a pulse. It's not always easy to explain it doesn't mean that especially as I'm not looking for ONS. I got bored and hid the profile in the end, it's a little easier on here. "
Mine says the same, that I’m non monogamous. Unless it’s your thing, it’s hard to explain to others. I like to be honest in what I’m looking for on a dating app but it seems to attract guys thinking you’re an easy lay. X |
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