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When did you realise you are kinky?
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when did you findout you are kinky and have a penchant for BDSM?
In my case, when I was at uni, I worked in a pizza place to make ends meet. The lady boss and i soon had a thing and she used to ask me to spank her and pull her hair while intimate.
at the beginning, I was surprised but gradually I started to enjoy it. The rest is History.
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"when i was 25ish.. just out of an horrific marriage, and finding out who i really am and what i like, with nothing holding me back. turns out i'd be surpressed for far too long 
that's all you're getting.. i don't want a forum ban for revealing details    Px "
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4yrs old was the first inclination that was different. Would wrap myself up in my sister's rubber bed sheet...found fetish magazines when I was 16. Spent most of my wages on rubber and bdsm magazines . Found fetish events and clubs at 26. Never looked back...  |
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"when did you findout you are kinky and have a penchant for BDSM?
In my case, when I was at uni, I worked in a pizza place to make ends meet. The lady boss and i soon had a thing and she used to ask me to spank her and pull her hair while intimate.
at the beginning, I was surprised but gradually I started to enjoy it. The rest is History.
Do share please!"
When I was 19 and a one night stand asked me to tie up and fuck her _mongst other things. We saw each other for a while on and off after that. It was a bit of a revelation that real life smart independent women can choose to do things for sexual pleasure that many would frown on and say only happen in men’s fantasies and it was ok to enjoy the journey with them. |
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"when did you findout you are kinky and have a penchant for BDSM?
In my case, when I was at uni, I worked in a pizza place to make ends meet. The lady boss and i soon had a thing and she used to ask me to spank her and pull her hair while intimate.
at the beginning, I was surprised but gradually I started to enjoy it. The rest is History.
Do share please!
When I was 19 and a one night stand asked me to tie up and fuck her _mongst other things. We saw each other for a while on and off after that. It was a bit of a revelation that real life smart independent women can choose to do things for sexual pleasure that many would frown on and say only happen in men’s fantasies and it was ok to enjoy the journey with them."
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I was 40 when I discovered BDSM was an actual thing. Before then I'd just thought I was exceptionally broadminded. It changed my life in that suddenly I understood who I was and why I did the things I did. It was a bit of an epiphany. |
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"I was 40 when I discovered BDSM was an actual thing. Before then I'd just thought I was exceptionally broadminded. It changed my life in that suddenly I understood who I was and why I did the things I did. It was a bit of an epiphany. "
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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago
Newcastle-under-Lyme |
When I split with my ex and had the freedom to explore. Got chatting with a bi femme sub online and decided to look into it and I’ve never looked back. I was late 50s. Had a thing about spanking etc when I was much younger but never thought anything about it. |
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I think I've always been aware of my tendancies, but never had a partner interested enough to explore with.
Separation from my wife gave me that opportunity. So quite late in life to finally access that side of my sexuality. |
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Too early to say in a moderated public forum, but after the awakening of my fledgling sexuality. I was at an after-party for a show I’d been in and I was desperately trying to chat up/dance with one particular girl.
All of a sudden this other girl, about a year older than me, appeared out of nowhere, apparently having taken a liking to me. She was, as the kids say, hench - broad shouldered and muscular. She physically picked me up and took me to a corner to...snuggle
Needless to say I was instant putty and ever more enjoyed submissive leanings. |
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(Mr) had a school friend (18) I used to mess about with. He had issues with his sexuality so he'd verbally humiliate me and piss on me.
For him, I think, he just couldn't handle playing with a guy... i nearly stopped it because of the not very healthy context...but it turned out I liked it too much.
Wouldn't do that now though...have learned that respect for youreslf and your partner is too important. (BDSM is about trust innit?) |
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"(Mr) had a school friend (18) I used to mess about with. He had issues with his sexuality so he'd verbally humiliate me and piss on me.
For him, I think, he just couldn't handle playing with a guy... i nearly stopped it because of the not very healthy context...but it turned out I liked it too much.
Wouldn't do that now though...have learned that respect for youreslf and your partner is too
important. (BDSM is about trust innit?)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was studying A levels so like 17 ish and me and my boyfriend went on a camping trip with my friend and her boyfriend we all ahd a few drinks and I decided to instigate a foursum haha... That was followed by a wild couple of years before I settled down and had kids and a very vanilla relationship, when that ended a few years ago I decided to just go back to being a bit wild |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my late teens at uni, I bought my girlfriend a book of erotic short stories as one if her birthday presents. There were two bdsm stories and they helped me realise that maybe my thoughts wernt odd. Maybe I wasnt strange after all.....well not completely strange  |
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"I was studying A levels so like 17 ish and me and my boyfriend went on a camping trip with my friend and her boyfriend we all ahd a few drinks and I decided to instigate a foursum haha... That was followed by a wild couple of years before I settled down and had kids and a very vanilla relationship, when that ended a few years ago I decided to just go back to being a bit wild "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby here. When in one of my early relationships she bought a realistic big cock dildo. When it arrived in the post we were both amazed how realistic it looked and felt but also that it was fucking huge! I remember how turned on I was soon as I saw it. She put it away saying she was not sure and it was way too big. I purposely didn't ever mention it even though I couldn't stop getting turned on thinking about seeing her take it. Then one night, after long sex session, she got up from bed and fetched it. I was so turned on. It felt wild. We'd fucked but she wanted this big cock still. And I'd just kinda prepped her pussy for it. No internet then so didn't know about Hotwives or Cucks etc.. I suppose the only swinging dynamic was the keys in a bowl wife swapping parties. I didn't know why the idea of this big cock dildo going into my Mrs was turning me on so much. And for her to decide to use it, her choice, her power, and after I'd fucked her was incredible. She held it and laughed about its size and then told me to hold me hand out and she slapped it into my palm and said feel the weight of that! I could of fainted with excitement. She struggled at first and I didn't want it to hurt or not be a joy so I kinda said don't worry. Then she shocked me, stopped laughing and said no I fucking want it. She told me my cum inside her was lubing it for her. And I remember in perfect detail that she got really wet as she took it all and I sat watching, mouth dry, dick hard. I asked if she liked it as it made squelching sounds as she put it all in and out and she looked up at me and said in a strained voice, "It's Huge" . And it was the first time that I ever cum without touching my dick. I just spurted instantly watching her when she said that....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Define kinky, are we only talking about BDSM? Not my thing but i've always had a desire to put my tongue in an ass and eat pussy with cum in it. I've only found one person in my life who has been up for letting me do that, not easy to find those kind of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and the wife got together young she was 16 I was 17 we married at 18 and 19 had kids very young and felt we never really got to explore sexually the things you hear about when your a young teen we were both securely inexperienced aswell so we discussed some of the things we wanted to try and indulge each other fantasies we've been on here ever since xx |
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"Me and the wife got together young she was 16 I was 17 we married at 18 and 19 had kids very young and felt we never really got to explore sexually the things you hear about when your a young teen we were both securely inexperienced aswell so we discussed some of the things we wanted to try and indulge each other fantasies we've been on here ever since
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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago
Cardiff |
It was at school. A gang of girls used to home into the history room at lunch time when I was doing my home work and sort of humiliate me. I used to fantise being striped put over each of their knees and spanked |
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I was 21, I had got married young and had just left my husband who was violent. I didn’t want a relationship and met a older guy who became my best friend, fwb and eventually Dom. He helped me explore my sexuality and helped me gain confidence in myself again, he took me to both swingers and fetish clubs and really let me explore my way. |
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"I was 21, I had got married young and had just left my husband who was violent. I didn’t want a relationship and met a older guy who became my best friend, fwb and eventually Dom. He helped me explore my sexuality and helped me gain confidence in myself again, he took me to both swingers and fetish clubs and really let me explore my way. "
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By *ragon ArmMan
over a year ago
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I have been a Dom for the best part of 30 years
I have worked as a Dugeon master at clubs and hsve been the House Dom
And I have seen many weird and wonderful things In my time but many people are put off or scared of this side of my life so I have only eluded to it in my profile |
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I was introduced to the kinky lifestyle in my 30's, and haven't looked back since.
However, maybe I should have had an inkling I was kinky when I purchased my first pair of thigh boots at 17 years of age. |
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"I was introduced to the kinky lifestyle in my 30's, and haven't looked back since.
However, maybe I should have had an inkling I was kinky when I purchased my first pair of thigh boots at 17 years of age."
precocious? |
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