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Respectful gentleman on Fab
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"Fuck off! "
Just kidding.
No idea.
Most I've chatted to seem decent, but it's the way they message the women on here that really shows their true colours.
A lot of them I've seen leave plenty to be desired. |
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" I was told respectful gentleman are a rarity here on Fab
what say you?"
Having seen many messages guys send to women, I would say this is strongly based on fact.
So few of us respectful Gentlemen left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Three main types for me
1) Genuinely respectful
2) Down right rude
3) Respectful until things don't go their way, they then join group 2."
Yes, I agree with this. |
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I would like to respectfully point out that my respect levels are extremely high and any communication with a person will be treated with the greatest respect to those participants within said conversation. Respect to all  |
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"Nearly all the men we have contact with are respectful. It's extremely rare that they aren't.
This is my experience too. "
We have got our filters sky high though and being older makes a difference I think. People in general are less inclined to be rude to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think its restricted to men. Ive seen some awful comments from men and women on here. However Most of the people seem to be very nice and some are literally fabulous  |
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Respect goes a long way to me. I always try my best to be respectful to everyone and have spoken to many people of all genders. Most have been respectful but a small number of people spoil it for me with rude attitude, or they will only meet me if I can provide drugs etc etc, which i detest, and I've personally experienced racism on here from some people just because someone had a bad experience with someone else and all of a sudden "we're all the same".  |
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Majority of men are very respectful on here and in clubs. You get one or two bad experiences in both areas, but that can also be with Women, Couples and other Trans people as well.
So for me good decent people outweigh the opposite in general  |
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Based solely on forum comments from guys claiming to be gentlemen, a lot of them are of the opinion that the term gentleman only applies when speaking to a woman.
A sneering attitude towards other men while being respectful gentlemen to women is something completely different to what they think it is. |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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Manners maketh the man. There are idiots on here just like in the real world and there is also the other end of the spectrum too - thankfully.
Manners cost nothing and Karma in a bitch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to treat others the way I’d like to be treated, if that makes me a gentleman, so be it. But it’s also true that respect is earned, which is also why I take a polite no thank you, in the way it’s meant, as I know we aren’t everyone else’s cup of tea, it’s what makes life fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most are respectful on fab ive found ..its just that there are so many so even respectful guys miss out due to the sheer numbers
This"
Nail and head spring to mind. I have been on here for nearly 5 years and have always been respectful in my dealings with others. However I would say I’m beginning to be alarmed by the language used and behaviour by some couples and single women of late. I appreciate some guys can be a pain but to tar everyone with the same brush is totally unfair. |
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It cuts all ways I believe
I received a really rude offensive message about how I shouldn't be on here, a time waster and being fat - were the key points Mr Charming raised
It really deflated me
But then I am guilty of the if you message me write.... in the title
No way to win I guess |
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