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over a year ago
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Hi everyone,
My other half and I have been members a while,looking for a full swap with another couple....BUT its his birthday soon and I know he would adore me and another woman as a little treat!! I need advice on how to organise this as a surprise for him...do I set up a new profile asking for another godess to join us? Or just adjust our current one? Just don't want him to see any messages....want to keep it all a delicious secret! |
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"Hi everyone,
My other half and I have been members a while,looking for a full swap with another couple....BUT its his birthday soon and I know he would adore me and another woman as a little treat!! I need advice on how to organise this as a surprise for him...do I set up a new profile asking for another godess to join us? Or just adjust our current one? Just don't want him to see any messages....want to keep it all a delicious secret!"
Having been doing this a while, I'm not saying it wont happen or impossible but the odds might not be in your favour here. You're asking another woman to be a "surprise" when that's not what many single ladies are on here for. A lot of ladies wont be comfy in that situation and their here for their own fun and safety. They don't want to be a "surprise".
You're more than entitled to put up a single profile looking for another lady and explain the situation but you might find in that scenario most just want to meet a lady not a couple. I know my wife wouldn't want to meet a couple on her single profile if she's looking for a lady is all I'm saying.
It's a different situation if it's someone you've met previously and feel at ease with but with strangers, I'm not sure how many will take you up on the offer.
Perhaps instead consider taking him to a club instead. There are plenty of single ladies who attend those who would be happy to join a couple as it's under their own terms.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone,
My other half and I have been members a while,looking for a full swap with another couple....BUT its his birthday soon and I know he would adore me and another woman as a little treat!! I need advice on how to organise this as a surprise for him...do I set up a new profile asking for another godess to join us? Or just adjust our current one? Just don't want him to see any messages....want to keep it all a delicious secret!
Having been doing this a while, I'm not saying it wont happen or impossible but the odds might not be in your favour here. You're asking another woman to be a "surprise" when that's not what many single ladies are on here for. A lot of ladies wont be comfy in that situation and their here for their own fun and safety. They don't want to be a "surprise".
You're more than entitled to put up a single profile looking for another lady and explain the situation but you might find in that scenario most just want to meet a lady not a couple. I know my wife wouldn't want to meet a couple on her single profile if she's looking for a lady is all I'm saying.
It's a different situation if it's someone you've met previously and feel at ease with but with strangers, I'm not sure how many will take you up on the offer.
Perhaps instead consider taking him to a club instead. There are plenty of single ladies who attend those who would be happy to join a couple as it's under their own terms.
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