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Passionate, intimate and playful meets
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By *lex3 OP Man
over a year ago
mansfield |
Hey, so I've not been on the forums or been very active in the swinging work recently but I was having a bit of a shower though and thinking back on my past adventures.
So, from most of my experiences both as a couple and singly there has always been a bit of a disconnect (for the most part) with the more passionate, intimate and 'romantic' types of sex and the swinging world.
As someone who really prefers this kind of mental stimulation it can be hard to fully relax and enjoy sex.
While i'm sure these kind of meets and desires do exist, I have often found swinging to be more focused on the aesthetic, almost porn-style sex.
While this can be super fun for things like exploring fantasies, it has often felt a little cold at times.
I put this down to a few things, mainly because people aren't looking for anything serious, or in the case of a couple could be reluctant to seem 'to into the person' or maybe there's just not that connection there, but still enjoy the physical pleasures of sex, and I'm sure the list goes on and on.
So, where does that leave your thoughts on the subject? Just to be clear, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with this style of play.
I'm just curious, how important is this for you, or do you even think it's possible to achieve this kind of intimacy with effectively a stranger, can it even exist without emotional attachment to each other? |
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Even though I'm happily married I do like there to be some intamacy and passion. I always get to know people and build that connection so when we meet we really want each other. I want to feel like that person is there for me not just the sex. I love the eye contact and kissing.
Hubby knows this is how I like it and fully understands my need for this. Neither of us are into 'fuck and go' or sex without any kind of connection.
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I think I might have a different understanding of intimacy than other people. For casual meets I'm happy for a friendly, superficial connection. I don't need or want cuddles afterwards or long embraces goodbye etc.
The people we've met have actually actively avoided that too, especially the single men |
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