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Profiles that turn you off in a profile
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are all different which makes life more fun but when you see a profile what turns you off..
A couple of starters
No written profile
One line profiles
No pictures
Pictures taken 30 years ago
Cock shots
Pictures that look like an explosion in a butchers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Straight guy looking for men!! 
Straight guys verified by men as having the best sex ever.
Talk about confused. Someone should tell them they aren't "straight"  |
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Inconsistencies.
Claiming to be shy but with a gallery of gynaecological shots.
Dipping their toes in but have 13¾ meets in the first few weeks.
Not sure what they are looking for followed by a list of demands.
Asking for discretion while displaying pics of other people.
Anything basically that doesn't add up. |
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Instant no is blank profiles. Next is messy pictures or pics with guys lying on sofas or beds with the trousers round their ankles waning with funny pants on.
Pictures with kids toys in the background, or single guys with female bedsheets or toiletries.
Pics of dicks hovering above toilets.
Profiles that say they are smooth and expect the same.
Text chat profiles
420 friendly... Not for us.
Profiles with zero interests
Think that is enough!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Explicit close up pics of vagina, messy cum pics , toys and offcourse dirty house ours us off big time .
In profile description , if there are Loads of Nos including No Asians , straight block .
We personally don't like this line
" Lot of girlie fun for boys to watch"
" Mr available "
" Will somebody give company to my man"
Makes us laugh |
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Nothing left to the imagination or to discover at unwrapping.
Either no profile text/information or a solid block of text that's a challenge to decipher.
Poor 1st message or obvious cut and paste.
Basically those profiles with little effort put into them, we assume they'll be the same in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The actual profile name, amazes us how someone thinks a profile name like for example Fannysplitter69 is a good idea.
Zero effort in bio, or fill in later.
Pics only of the female half of a couple, although generally a good way to out the fakes.
Bio which reads like a list of demands and dont likes.
Apart from that we're easy to please |
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By *rSshMan
over a year ago
Poundbury |
‘Laid back’ then have a massive list of demands 
Aggressive profiles.
Fab is now a public entity (for goodness sake people).
Sydney University nonsense 
Remote controls next to a dick (the appendage, not the person...).
Untidy house. |
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- Little to no information whatsoever in their bio
- Overt fetishisation (i.e looking to be blacked, BBC, QoS etc.)
- Couple profiles of just the female only to find it’s the male half you’re talking to when you message)
- No pictures whatsoever
- Close ups of vaginal shots
- Exhaustive lists of what someone is NOT looking for
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These lists of "I am......" and then a string of
10% egotistical,
7% unicorn,
82% sexual guru
14% asbestos free
97% not likely to hook up with you
99% all about myself......"
Anything where they're linked to star sign or some cosmic mumbojumbo.
They're just a waste of space. I never pay them any attention and makes me pass on the profile for lack of originality. They're the kind of profiles that badly requote Marylyn Munroe too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messy backgrounds, nasty bitten down fingernails holding a cock, pictures of men doing other women from a single male account. I know you've had sex already but I don't need to see it, proof is not required |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- poor quality or limited pictures with no variety
- little or no profile text
- any of the BS disclaimers
- long list of contradictory and very specific demands
- unbalanced couple profiles - surely there’s two of you
Less concerned about over fetishising etc as that’s for people to explore their own interests. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Fill in later bios especially when they have been on for ages.
Pics of close up genitals and no other pics or worse no pictures at all.
Demanding profiles or boasting profiles or ones that out others down in order to big themselves up .
Ones saying how they are here because they are bored .
Ones that claim they are a gentleman or one of the decent nice guys yet send a message that prove the opposite.
Inconsistent profiles as well. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Pics that are 10 years old
Couples profiles with all pics of the lady and none of the man.
single male profiles where all you can see is different women and just his cock.
Ones where the Sydney University disclaimer is longer than the info they've written.
Married /attached without permission. |
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I hate lack of information, so the ‘fill in later’ will just get ignored.
Status update that are negative, so ‘this site full of stuck up ....etc’
Boring predictable pictures of their cock or vagina and nothing else.
Cum pictures.
Using profanity within the text. Or slur words like slut etc...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the message me only if your x tall of x age with an x body, quoting the 3rd line of shakespeares 5th play in spanish while playing the violin
i just want to say hello ffs  |
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We understand everyone has different ideas of what they find attractive, or what they perceive to be attractive to others.
So provided we don’t find the pictures offensive, or the bio rude or obviously not what we’re looking for we’re fine.
The biggest turn off is no Bio at all, or a one line comment about looking for fun.
Sorry but if you can’t make an effort to write a paragraph about yourself then you’re probably not what we’re looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unicorn
cock pic against Sky Remote
gaping orifice
no face pic available for both partners
no bisexual males (why was hubby looking at my profile then?)
list of demands
script writers
comparing me to others
500 webcam verifications
demanding verifications
no social
profiles with slut, whore etc. in username or seeking same
pretty much everything else is an option
shall I continue?
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
I'm not opposed to peoples fetiches as i have certain ones myself so each to there own.
But definite turn offs are
Toilet cock pics.
Dirty fingers nails
Sky remote cock pics
420 friendly
Multiple cock pics from different angles nothing else.
Pics of multiple past conquests.
Cum shot pics.
Capital letters.
Messages from guys who live miles and miles away, they obviously didn't read my profile.
Fil in later.
There's so much more but I sound to moany so will stop at that. X
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"I'm not opposed to peoples fetiches as i have certain ones myself so each to there own.
But definite turn offs are
Toilet cock pics.
Dirty fingers nails
Sky remote cock pics
420 friendly
Multiple cock pics from different angles nothing else.
Pics of multiple past conquests.
Cum shot pics.
Capital letters.
Messages from guys who live miles and miles away, they obviously didn't read my profile.
Fil in later.
There's so much more but I sound to moany so will stop at that. X
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OMG!!!All of the above!!! Except for the cum shot pics. I like them.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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single women profiles that amazingly at the bottom have a line about only meeting with their xyz half .. after a long winded ass profile about how they like 1 on 1 meets
I generally just flag these profiles to admin as incorrectly tagged, some get changed to couple status after some dont . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photos showing many of the ‘conquests’ they’ve had.
420 friendly - no thanks
Complaining in general"
Ahhh man 420 just is an instant no, its a shame they dont have text descript filters so you can block words from even allowing the profile to show up in your searches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Photos showing many of the ‘conquests’ they’ve had.
420 friendly - no thanks
Complaining in general
Ahhh man 420 just is an instant no, its a shame they dont have text descript filters so you can block words from even allowing the profile to show up in your searches "
That would be awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the message me only if your x tall of x age with an x body, quoting the 3rd line of shakespeares 5th play in spanish while playing the violin
i just want to say hello ffs "
You forgot the unicycle |
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Things that put me off..
Crude pics of bits & bumholes
500 dicks pics from every angle
Men in any underwear other than nice fitting boxers
Messy background & 80s bedding
Toilet selfies
420 friendly or asking who's got the party bags at a weekend
Gangbang pics
Vile username & no bio
Why am I here again?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples where they insist they play together but only show her.
Closeup dick pics.
Closeup foof pics.
Conquest pics
Guys who say they don’t care what you look like.
Profiles that are rude about people they don’t find attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fill in later when been a member for over a year
Druggies
Silly demands - you must be X tall built like X
Demanding face pics on when they dont have any themselves
Sydney university shit ( does sydney even have a uni?)
Couples who want everyone to be 9 inch ( when the average size is 5.5)
Those who insist on "socials" ( just get on with the sex what folk come on a sex site for)
Demanding that you have your personel private area shaved , trimmed ect ( its your privates not for anyone to tell you how to keep them)
Married cheating scumbags
Fake profiles or toms touting for business. |
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"We are all different which makes life more fun but when you see a profile what turns you off..
A couple of starters
No written profile
One line profiles
No pictures
Pictures taken 30 years ago
Cock shots
Pictures that look like an explosion in a butchers"
Soooooo many reasons but 'pictures taken 30 years ago' made me chuckle... "I don't have anything up to date..."
Really? 2021, phones selfies... Pull the other one... |
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By *S2004Man
over a year ago
Bromsgrove |
"Some user names
Daddy play (each to their own but not for me)
Will fill in later (bio)
Males who are fucking women in their public pics
Public pics full of their cock
Some statuses."
Absolutely anyone with a single profile consisting of mainly pics of someone else (not just guys either) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As many above have said ~
-Messy backgrounds.
-Cock shots (there are some very artistic ways of snapping them).
-Dirty fingernails
-Manky feet
-Snapchat filters
-Pics of totally random people on 1 profile that obviously aren't them.
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Dirty rooms
Some user names
Dick pic after dick pic
Pics over the toilet
Couples only looking for females to meet that message us
Surprised we have so many friends on the scene as we’ve a big list of turn offs and could go on forever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Toilet in background
Messy room
Those who meet 99yr old! As no effort to change filter.
old photos
'Fill in later
Any with phone numbers / k ik address on profile
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