I would say it's more intimate..
A kiss is a sign of affection for some people, where as a fuck is just a fuck.
It varies for everyone, so we try not to judge.
We used to have a no kissing rule, now we don't. But we get that everyones will have different limits that need to be respected. |
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"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips. "
Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me. |
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Kissing is the starting point no matter what.
I adore kissing , a woman lips are so incredible.
Just posted on another thread about my oral fixation. Lol |
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"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips.
Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me."
Sounds a bit judgemental to me.
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"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.  "
What?
I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.
Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.
Either meet or don't. |
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"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.
What?
I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.
Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.
Either meet or don't. "
Hey, you're shooting the messenger, when they specifically told you not to. That's like pinching and punching after they said "no returns"! |
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"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.
What?
I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.
Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.
Either meet or don't.
Hey, you're shooting the messenger, when they specifically told you not to. That's like pinching and punching after they said "no returns"!"
I counted to 10 really quickly to give them a head start. |
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"I have turned down meets if there is a no kissing rule, for me it’s a crucial part of sex. "
When have you found this out? Zero experience of it, but I'd presume that if someone doesn't want to kiss, they'll very likely say it in their profile? |
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"I have turned down meets if there is a no kissing rule, for me it’s a crucial part of sex.
When have you found this out? Zero experience of it, but I'd presume that if someone doesn't want to kiss, they'll very likely say it in their profile? "
We do. |
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"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips.
Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me."
Yeah, a lot of people think that. |
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"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips.
Feels to me like it's a way of masking insecurities in their swinging exploits. But hey, I'm only me.
Yeah, a lot of people think that. "
TBH your comments on the subject do always stick in my mind, in a good way. |
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"Is this more intimate than oral or penetrative sex. I know ladies who will perform oral to completion but won't allow a kiss on the lips. "
it's not that I wont allow it but I prefer not to kiss random Men on meets. I dont find it adds anything to it for me and to be fair feels awkward a lot of the time and I am happier without it.
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"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.
What?
I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.
Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.
Either meet or don't. "
The kissing boundary does worry some people. Not sure why but it does. |
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I’d say so - especially if you’re a good kisser.
Blowing my own trumpet but I’m an exceptional kisser that’ll most likely leave you remembering it more than anything else.
Kissing throughout also helps intensify the connection leading to more enjoyment all round  |
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over a year ago
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"Sex without kissing is almost unimaginable. It would be like a big void. "
My first threesome was with a couple who stimulated no kissing. They wanted me as a toy haha.
Did nearly put my off felt so weird but I didn't know better from meeting couples |
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at swinging parties or meets with seasoned male swingers ive found there's barely kissing or pussy eating...guys don't want to kiss if a lady has just sucked a different dick or lick her pussy if several dicks have dipped it..reducing direct STI risk |
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"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.
What?
I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.
Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.
Either meet or don't.
The kissing boundary does worry some people. Not sure why but it does."
it seems to be the unaccepted preference.. they can understand no anal, no oral , no full sex etc but no kissing seems to be the thing people feel its okay to be really judgey about |
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"Sex without kissing is almost unimaginable. It would be like a big void. "
What a load of rubbish. My partner does not kiss but our sex is fantastic. If you knew all about the bacteria in your mouth you would probably think twice about kissing. Ask any dentist |
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"Sex without kissing is almost unimaginable. It would be like a big void.
What a load of rubbish. My partner does not kiss but our sex is fantastic. If you knew all about the bacteria in your mouth you would probably think twice about kissing. Ask any dentist "
Truly disgusting, I agree.
But then again, imagine the sheer amount of bacteria transmitted during sex! Surely you wash your hands after every touch! No oral too. |
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I regularly lick my partners arse hole and she licks mine I think a bit of mouth bacteria isn’t going go to harm us, and wow I feel sorry for you in ways I have never experienced on fab I can understand not kissing strangers due to the intimacy blah blah blah but to not kiss your own partner |
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Everyone to their own I guess. Does not stop us loving each other any less etc. She makes up for it in my opinion in other ways which still rock my boat and satisfy me. We are all different. |
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"kissing can be a doomed relationship for many women fall in love too easily men can have sex without love PS dont shoot the messenger thanks have a good one.
What?
I think I've taken crazy pills, kissing neither dooms a healthy relationship, nor suggests the non kisses have issues.
Crickey had no idea that people were so bothered by others boundaries.
Either meet or don't.
The kissing boundary does worry some people. Not sure why but it does. it seems to be the unaccepted preference.. they can understand no anal, no oral , no full sex etc but no kissing seems to be the thing people feel its okay to be really judgey about "
Yep. I don't understand the need for a feeling of intimacy with someone you don't love or have a really close relationship with but I'd never judge a person's ability to great sex on that |
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"Thought it would be a bit strange not kissing on a meet!What happens to start things off just bend over and brace yourself 
Foreplay is a thing. oh yea that old chestnut "
Foreplay can be very erotic and sensual. On par with kissing if you know what you are doing and how to turn the women on. A big part on lovemaking in my opinion. |
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