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over a year ago
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We have had kissing as a no or yes !!!
But recently i have had a guy that wants lots of cuddles before and after. now i know most say that kissing is personal, but i think a close cuddle is personal, for me and that's for Pork only !!
What do you say.... Is it or isn't it right to have cuddle or not !!...  |
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over a year ago
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I would never cuddle up to meet.
I love cuddles but with family and friends and Master. Once a guy has finished he leave's.
Guess it is different for those that do longer meets.
Cali |
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over a year ago
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some i meet cuddling is very important to her.
not just before but more so after.
she's a lovely woman and it makes me feel good to hold her.
so everyones a winner. |
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I think its more acceptable with singles meeting. For couples its intimate and I think its something the couple should indulge in together.
If we play with a couple then cuddles afterwards should be between the individual couple, not between the swapping partners. If swinging is a sexy pastime, then surely afterwards you'd want to snuggle up and feel cherished by your own partner.
I would not be happy if another woman cuddled up to my OH afterwards. A kiss and a quick hug to show appreciation then yes, but not cuddling up in a more intimate manner.
I would be offended if my OH sat cuddling someone else afterwards and similarly I'd think it unusual why the female would want to rather than her own partner.
I also would not sit there cuddling another guy after a threesome and leave my own partner sitting there. Similarly I'd be offended if the 2 guys sat cuddling with me watching on alone.
Intimacy afterwards should be with your own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never cuddle up to meet.
I love cuddles but with family and friends and Master. Once a guy has finished he leave's.
Guess it is different for those that do longer meets.
Cali "
I prefer longer meets but I don't like cuddling. It's too intimate/ personal. To me, sex is sex. But a cuddle infers something deeper. Some kind of relationship.
I don't hug my mates either. It gives me the heebie geebies. *shudder*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have had kissing as a no or yes !!!
But recently i have had a guy that wants lots of cuddles before and after. now i know most say that kissing is personal, but i think a close cuddle is personal, for me and that's for Pork only !!
What do you say.... Is it or isn't it right to have cuddle or not !!... "
Oh no I like a cuddle after, not an intimate one like me and my OH would do, I normally insist on a quick group hug lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think its more acceptable with singles meeting. For couples its intimate and I think its something the couple should indulge in together.
If we play with a couple then cuddles afterwards should be between the individual couple, not between the swapping partners. If swinging is a sexy pastime, then surely afterwards you'd want to snuggle up and feel cherished by your own partner.
I would not be happy if another woman cuddled up to my OH afterwards. A kiss and a quick hug to show appreciation then yes, but not cuddling up in a more intimate manner.
I would be offended if my OH sat cuddling someone else afterwards and similarly I'd think it unusual why the female would want to rather than her own partner.
I also would not sit there cuddling another guy after a threesome and leave my own partner sitting there. Similarly I'd be offended if the 2 guys sat cuddling with me watching on alone.
Intimacy afterwards should be with your own "
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"Oh no I like a cuddle after, not an intimate one like me and my OH would do, I normally insist on a quick group hug lol"
Being serious for a moment, where do you draw the line between the two.....?
Not tried the group hug thing - must gie it a try on Saturday! Lol
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"Oh no I like a cuddle after, not an intimate one like me and my OH would do, I normally insist on a quick group hug lol
Being serious for a moment, where do you draw the line between the two.....?
Not tried the group hug thing - must gie it a try on Saturday! Lol
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Oh quite easily, as the poster above and what you have up, an intimate cuddle is for me and M only.
The cuddles and cheekiness I was referring to, that I insist on, is only in mmf situation.
I am in the middle of two guys, and say come on then, group hug, pull then both in and M and the other bloke give each other a manly pat on the back lol
It is not prolonged or intimate, just for fun and as others have said can also lead on to further fun.
So yes I agree, it is a close intimate thing but can also be just a cheeky hug after 
So yes give it a try! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have had kissing as a no or yes !!!
But recently i have had a guy that wants lots of cuddles before and after. now i know most say that kissing is personal, but i think a close cuddle is personal, for me and that's for Pork only !!
What do you say.... Is it or isn't it right to have cuddle or not !!...
Oh no I like a cuddle after, not an intimate one like me and my OH would do, I normally insist on a quick group hug lol"
Noways im the total same cant beat a group hug after sex !!! |
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We all have different levels of perceived intimacy.
A passing hug or a cuddle is cool, something longer would freak me out with someone who was (effectively) a stranger.
With meets I have met more than once I am more than happy to lie with them pre and post shag, but wouldn't be comfy with full on cuddles and spooning.
As for that ScarletStar character, don't believe a word she says, just buy her cake and coffee and she'll do ANYTHING !  |
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Can't beat a bit of cuddling hugging and petting. I class that as the human thing to do while sharing, courtesy if you will...
Others mileage may vary, but it's cool by us
Wolf
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I used to be a right cold fish, but im getting used to having a little cuddle. Once i would turn to stone rather than have a cuddle, im not saying deep intimate cuddles but kind of a little nice cuddle after you have both just had a really good time, kind of an appreciative cuddle if that makes sense |
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"I think its more acceptable with singles meeting. For couples its intimate and I think its something the couple should indulge in together.
If we play with a couple then cuddles afterwards should be between the individual couple, not between the swapping partners. If swinging is a sexy pastime, then surely afterwards you'd want to snuggle up and feel cherished by your own partner.
I would not be happy if another woman cuddled up to my OH afterwards. A kiss and a quick hug to show appreciation then yes, but not cuddling up in a more intimate manner.
I would be offended if my OH sat cuddling someone else afterwards and similarly I'd think it unusual why the female would want to rather than her own partner.
I also would not sit there cuddling another guy after a threesome and leave my own partner sitting there. Similarly I'd be offended if the 2 guys sat cuddling with me watching on alone.
Intimacy afterwards should be with your own "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm in agreement with a lot of you, cuddles are a little intimate. If its a quick meet then zip up, kiss of appreciation then leave, however, if its overnight one on one then yeah cuddles. We know we all love them and we all know they lead to round 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all have different levels of perceived intimacy.
A passing hug or a cuddle is cool, something longer would freak me out with someone who was (effectively) a stranger.
With meets I have met more than once I am more than happy to lie with them pre and post shag, but wouldn't be comfy with full on cuddles and spooning.
As for that ScarletStar character, don't believe a word she says, just buy her cake and coffee and she'll do ANYTHING ! "
Pfftttt I would've done it for just a coffee!!
But thanks for filling my boot.... |
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if the guys a repeater ofcourse! Spooning always leads to forking 
