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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple  over a year ago

somewhere in moray

This is a genuine question as we are a bit confused by this.

So we are a bi couple as it states on our profile. There are also loads of single bi guys on here..as we all know. So why do we get messages from bi-curious men who want to experiment with us? Why do they not just go and experiment with the single lads? This question goes out to all the bi curious men on here that message couples saying they are curious and they really want to experiment.

I know the old age...because they just want to get in your knickers answer..but inreally would like to here from the guys themselves. And again..not being shit here..just really curious?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Forgive me if I've misunderstood but why can't they experiment with a couple just as well as a single man?

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

I think a man playing with a man for the first time might well feel more comfortable with a woman there too

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

if they are only bi curious then experimenting with a couple would be a good idea because if it turns out its not for him then perhaps they could just have a straight Mmf .

Why do you think they should only meet single males ?

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By *rya MyneWoman  over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe one on one with a man feels like a step too far if you're curious? It may feel more of a bi experience with a woman there??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For the most part, men do nothing for me but I would say I'm very curious for a certain type that I'd happly try.

I would 100% prefer that experience to be with a couple so I can see how he as an individual likes to be touched first to get rid of any jitters of the experience.

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple  over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Ah ok, miss communication here. I should have added that in our profile it states that we only invite bi men to play that have had experience. We are then told that these guys that message who have straight on their profile says they have read ours, so there is no chance of a mmf as it states we are not looking for single straight guys. I suppose I'm asking the question as per our profile.

It might be an idea to approach the subject with couples like us to make us aware that they have no experience and would like to try with a couple but then understand if it's not their thing then the meet ends and they accept that. I really don't want to upset or make this sound shit..I'm mearly trying to understand.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think a man playing with a man for the first time might well feel more comfortable with a woman there too "

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

People don't always read profiles....

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple  over a year ago

Birmingham

Profiles are typically malleable at some level. Your issue doesn't seem all that far from what you've written compared to most peoples complaints.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to have bi curious on my profile but then get bombarded by blokes wanting blow jobs. I could get that on gay swinger sites.

For me, the bi experience is the excitement of playing with both partners. Swapping and taking turns etc. Hope this makes sense.

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple  over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"I used to have bi curious on my profile but then get bombarded by blokes wanting blow jobs. I could get that on gay swinger sites.

For me, the bi experience is the excitement of playing with both partners. Swapping and taking turns etc. Hope this makes sense. "

Yeah thankyou for that...I think this must be coming across all wrong to some people...I'm just trying to get a better understand of how these guys think so we can maybe be a bit more sensitive. Don't get me wrong we have in the past said to a few guys that we would be happy for them to come over and have some fun with hubby one on one but with me there...and as soon as we say that...they disappear lol.

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