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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So although I find swingers clubs very empowering and gives you such a body confidence because no one's making you feel uncomfortable.
Being on here however makes you feel inadequate like your not good enough, I've tried starting conversations but I do understand there are alot of messages to go through. I'm just wondering who would meet or should I give up and sign off |
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"So although I find swingers clubs very empowering and gives you such a body confidence because no one's making you feel uncomfortable.
Being on here however makes you feel inadequate like your not good enough, I've tried starting conversations but I do understand there are alot of messages to go through. I'm just wondering who would meet or should I give up and sign off "
It's only just becoming legal to meet and a lot of people are still nervous about doing so. Maybe it's nothing to do with you, just that you're expecting a bit much right now, especially when men outnumber females 100 to 1. |
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". I'm just wondering who would meet or should I give up and sign off "
Mate, you’ve been a member for 5 months and in the middle of a pandemic and lockdown.
If you want to meet someone then you need a shit ton more effort then just saying “nothing to say, I delivery stuff and want a quick fuck and go” which is basically what your profile is saying about you.
How is that different from the other 100,000 men on here? How do you stand out? Maybe if you brought them some appliances, but other than that, I can imagine your offer isn’t an attractive one for many. |
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You haven't specifically asked for profile advice, so I can't give it. However, it does need some effort and work putting into it, most of us look at a profile before deciding to reply or not.
Clubs may be better if you are getting your personality across there
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"You haven't specifically asked for profile advice, so I can't give it. However, it does need some effort and work putting into it, most of us look at a profile before deciding to reply or not.
Clubs may be better if you are getting your personality across there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on your current profile if you sent me a message it would probably remain unopened I'm afraid.... Low effort profiles inspire low effort responses from me |
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"Based on your current profile if you sent me a message it would probably remain unopened I'm afraid.... Low effort profiles inspire low effort responses from me "
This along with one word. Or straight out messeges just expecting sex... |
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We wouldn’t reply to a message off you only because there’s very little content on your profile. We look at a profile, especially the photos before looking at the message itself. If they’re just cock pics. we will delete the message. |
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I wouldn't for a few reasons.
Firstly I'm not looking to meet anyway.
Secondly, I'd not particularly want to be an added extra on one of your deliveries.
If I do decide to meet someone it'll be because they can bring something to the table that is different. It would need to entice me into making the effort coz right now I lack motivation or desire. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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There's not much to say. I'm here to browse and see what I've been missing out on.
This is your answer to your problem be adventurous, open, and if possible unique, be more than just you search deep within your soul. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for everyone's responses its been helpful and I'll be reviewing my profile in order to be better any advice on the profile editing please msg me
This has helped alot |
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