Yes for me it's about making new connections and living life. Life is too short! It's also the social and general fun aspect of it too. I also don't underestimate how privileged I am to have been invited into couples sex lives |
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For me it’s the liberation and sight of pleasure all around. It started when I was with my ex girlfriend. She had needs - to sleep with others and explore these after we both left long marriages. We both had the same thoughts.
Once in the life we were both hooked. Sadly no longer together but still both on the scene. It is liberating and fulfilling. Roll on clubs reopening. Meeting new people in the scene is brilliant and lots of fun. |
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By *scottMan
over a year ago
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"Serious question. For me it is to meet new people and experience and explore new bodies and feelings. It's not about life long partnerships but friendships."
My late wife and I dabbled a little. Once she was taken from me I missed sex. I had no desire to get into a relationship (Though I am now very happy in one) and I don't do "casual sex" in the real world. Mainly because I didn't want somebody thinking there was more to it than there was. In a swing environment that risk of confusion is greatly deminished. |
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So many reasons that I never thought about when we entered the lifestyle.
Fun, pleasure, meeting interesting people, stepping out of our comfort zone and pushing our boundaries.
We had also got bored watching Netflix every night 
Kx |
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We're both perves, both big sexual appetites, both love variety of people and connecting with people. And most of all we love sharing our adventures in life together, including all our depravity.
Having said that the sex is only an aspect of swinging for us. We've generally club swingers. We mainly in it to have a good night out together, some good company, a few drinks and a good laugh. Then with the option of some filthy with others should the right situation present its self. |
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over a year ago
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I was married for 12 years, and although I loved my wife very much, our sex life was pretty standard. so after getting divorced, and discovering swinging I realised that I had a hight hight sex drive and a very naughty mind. |
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Most of my mates would find it sometimes amusing as when out I tended to be the one who always went home alone. Or did i tend to be the only one who didn't go home pissed up to a random guys place, I didn't know where amd then wake up mostly regretting it amd not even knowing his name. I joined at first as wanted to get my kicks but at least know the person and like them first! Started on a different placeany years ago but since coming here a few years back I've come to value and appreciate the socal side so much more. |
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I'm divorced and I have absolutely no interest in a traditional relationship nor do I think I could do monogamy again, however I get horny and I have a decent sex drive
I also really like talking about sex, what people's likes and dislikes are sexually, how people got started etc.
There's an openness in this lifestyle that is hard to find elsewhere
I've been lucky enough to meet some great people and with things easing up I'm hoping for more! |
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over a year ago
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I'm actually thinking about giving up swinging maybe not clubs but considering leaving fab it doesn't seem quite the same anymore was great about 4 years ago but has steadily got less and less people that I'm interested in using it. |
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To meet like minded individuals, explore sexuality as a whole and discover and live out my fantasies. I love the social element of this lifestyle, not been here long (just over a year) but have made some really great friends and had some fun times along the way also. Long may it continue |
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Because in vanilla life, my friends regard me as average, run of the mill bloke - whereas in fab life, I take on a different persona and unleash the inner stud muffin!
Also - I find it funny on Monday morning being asked what i got up to oer weekend...and i reply "not much" - when in reality, have had a sweaty MFM session! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question. For me it is to meet new people and experience and explore new bodies and feelings. It's not about life long partnerships but friendships."
29 years is a long time to be with the same person, we needed a change. |
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"Serious question. For me it is to meet new people and experience and explore new bodies and feelings. It's not about life long partnerships but friendships.
29 years is a long time to be with the same person, we needed a change."
were in our 30th year. Luckily still enjoy each other’s company lol lol  |
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Had a very bad experience with first love which killed my already low self confidence!
As such withdrew from trying with women for years and thinking no one would want someone like me.
Always been horny as fuck and recently noticed I get a few looks, then a workmate mentioned fab and I joined to feed my hornyness of looking at naked people and them looking at my cock and now I’d like to get back out there and enjoy some of the sex I’ve been missing out on!
If any women want to that is lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex sex and more sex
Wish that was the case for me but I'm a male I a sea of males, ladies have the advantage here x sorry I guess we do "
Don't be sorry it's just statistics x |
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