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How to get past the eye-candy barrier.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, looks aren't everything goes the tired old saying.
Then how else can we sell our personalities, as there is no other ranking system here on FAB?
Anyone any ideas?"
For me personally I am extremely attractive and my personality comes through on my profile and my fantastic forum threads... |
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"At the risk of sounding shallow, looks are everything. We swing to satisfy our fantasies, which don't involve having sex with people we find unattractive."
Just out of interest, does personality not matter at all if they look right? Only curious!  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"At the risk of sounding shallow, looks are everything. We swing to satisfy our fantasies, which don't involve having sex with people we find unattractive.
Just out of interest, does personality not matter at all if they look right? Only curious! "
We play almost entirely in clubs and there personality isn't very much of an issue, as long as they're polite and respectful. Having said that we have played with people who have turned out to have great personalities, and we have stayed friends with them, playing outside the club scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the risk of sounding shallow, looks are everything. We swing to satisfy our fantasies, which don't involve having sex with people we find unattractive.
Just out of interest, does personality not matter at all if they look right? Only curious!
We play almost entirely in clubs and there personality isn't very much of an issue, as long as they're polite and respectful. Having said that we have played with people who have turned out to have great personalities, and we have stayed friends with them, playing outside the club scene."
So as long as they are attractive they could have no personality???? I find that a turn off...so for that reason I'm out lol x |
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"At the risk of sounding shallow, looks are everything. We swing to satisfy our fantasies, which don't involve having sex with people we find unattractive.
Just out of interest, does personality not matter at all if they look right? Only curious!
We play almost entirely in clubs and there personality isn't very much of an issue, as long as they're polite and respectful. Having said that we have played with people who have turned out to have great personalities, and we have stayed friends with them, playing outside the club scene.
So as long as they are attractive they could have no personality???? I find that a turn off...so for that reason I'm out lol x"
Polite and respectful which is fair enough. Personally we're in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the risk of sounding shallow, looks are everything. We swing to satisfy our fantasies, which don't involve having sex with people we find unattractive."
100% this ... the first hurdle is always going to be attraction and that is how you look im not going to shag someone i dont fancy ...simple as
and i would not want it the other way around either ie if i guy didnt fancy me i can see thru most of those who want just a hole |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the risk of sounding shallow, looks are everything. We swing to satisfy our fantasies, which don't involve having sex with people we find unattractive.
Just out of interest, does personality not matter at all if they look right? Only curious!
We play almost entirely in clubs and there personality isn't very much of an issue, as long as they're polite and respectful. Having said that we have played with people who have turned out to have great personalities, and we have stayed friends with them, playing outside the club scene.
So as long as they are attractive they could have no personality???? I find that a turn off...so for that reason I'm out lol x"
no no no attraction is the first step after that its personalty and wanting the same and all the other stuff attractive can be dull if the rest aint there so there be not meeting just based on attraction.. |
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For us personality is the single most important thing if not the only important thing.
If you want to get personality across it can't be done in a one line message, an empty profile or a collection of cock shots. It takes much more and engaging in the forums is a good place to start. Being able to have a laugh and discuss different viewpoints intelligently rather than indulging in cliquey bullying or becoming abusive is another good sign for those of us who're looking for a bit more than a six pack and 8 inches. |
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By *orny PT OP Man
over a year ago
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"At the risk of sounding shallow, looks are everything. We swing to satisfy our fantasies, which don't involve having sex with people we find unattractive.
Just out of interest, does personality not matter at all if they look right? Only curious!
We play almost entirely in clubs and there personality isn't very much of an issue, as long as they're polite and respectful. Having said that we have played with people who have turned out to have great personalities, and we have stayed friends with them, playing outside the club scene."
Clubs? Ah yes! I think I remember them. |
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