Hubby would love it - I’m not so sure (thinking about it!) - as people said above the fun and enjoyment is doing it together and being able to watch and touch each other, feed off their enjoyment.

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By *ucelleCouple over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Only separate room fun. There’s no problem with any issues of jealousy. Plus is sexier

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By *ainbowCheesecakeCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Not for us at all. The appeal to us is enjoying others together and watching each other whilst we do. Somehow feels a bit more like we are actually cheating to do it separate.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

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By *uxuriantCouple over a year ago

Cornwall

The only time this worked for us was at house parties . We’d sometimes find ourselves in different rooms with different groups, and that was fine but not something we specifically set out to do. We enjoy watching each other play , so that’s a big part of the turn on for us. That said I did get off on listening to my wife in another room at one particularly horny party!

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

"I find it bit odd as idea of swinging is fun togather"

So don't do separate rooms then. What works for one person doesn't for another.

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By *ltra72Man over a year ago

edinburgh

"I find it bit odd as idea of swinging is fun togather"

For some it’s not just seeing their wife with someone else, it’s the reclaim sex

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By *ackandsashaCouple over a year ago

West Dublin

For us we always play together. Seeing, and even hearing each other is so good for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own but we get our pleasure from seeing each other giving and receiving pleasure. It’s why we do this. Sharing is definitely caring in our case.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My husband and I play together and separately. Each gives a different pleasure and dimension to the lifestyle. We only do it with people we know and we always know who the other person is with and where they are.

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By *ingerShortyMan over a year ago

Midlands

There are defo times when separate rooms feels like the best fit. The thrill of watching a guy lead my wife away to another room followed by the joy of leading his wife away to have her all to yourself for while if you really fancy her is special.

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By *randMrsJones69Couple over a year ago

Newcastle

The best meet we've had involved this. We naturally just ended up with the other partner, one in the living room one in the bedroom. It was incredibly horny hearing but not seeing and using our imagination. But also to be fully intimate with the other person 121 was amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same room only. Watching and sharing.

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s not for me. I prefer to share the experience with the person I’m with.

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

We have only done same room, but we might try separate rooms in Clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it bit odd as idea of swinging is fun together"

swinging is many things not just together many many couple do separate rooms.. do agree on the must be a strong together trusting loving couple ..also you dont have to be a couple to be a swinger

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple over a year ago

Darlington

"What are peoples thoughts on that "

It's ok with us. Not a "must" but not something we would say no to under certain circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's no fun on your own in a room ...

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