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All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.
I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.
Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? |
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over a year ago
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I know what you mean with the couples that turn out to just be chaps, it’s a persistent problem here in my experience but it is possible to find genuine couples/women too so please don’t give up hope, they are out there.
And as for women who are attracted to “bigger women”, it’s not an issue and can be a bonus for some of us 
Hope you have some better luck soon  |
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"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.
I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.
Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "
It’s the luck of the draw , till you have been with them your not going to know |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.
I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.
Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "
Women are as likely to be less attracted to bigger women as they are to be less likely attracted to any other aspect of you or your partner’s physicality.
And if it’s not that, it can be something in your profile, or the way you communicate. And all may seem agreeable up to the point you meet, and then any aspect of the initial meeting could be the cause of them deciding they don’t want to take things further with you - or you them.
In short, you are best off being honest about yourselves, and if someone finds that attractive it may lead to a meet. There’s no point agonising over things beyond your control. The number of women seeking threesomes with a couple as a single is relatively small, so it’s best to be realistic about your expectations.
Which is not to say you won’t find and meet someone who likes you both - it just takes a lot of looking.  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too  "
We’ve met a number of women on here, and only one had a male partner (who didn’t play). |
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "
I disagree with you on this . I know a fair few single females on fab that are single. I do know a few females from a couple that have their own account but not that many tbh |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Ditto 
Nice genuine sexy ladie.....reveal yourself
We’re looking too "
You may find it difficult because you are looking for such a narrow age range...on the other hand, you’re in East Midlands, which accounts for around 75% of Fab! |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"We are searching, but think we might look a little too kinky for fab ??. Which is annoying as we love vanilla too"
Well, you are in control of your profile - if you want to appear more vanilla, that’s in your hands to change. |
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too
I disagree with you on this . I know a fair few single females on fab that are single. I do know a few females from a couple that have their own account but not that many tbh "
We personally know couples where the Lady has a single profile that the Man actually runs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "
Well I have a female partner who doesn’t play at all (knows and approves of me being here) and I live playing with couples. Does that count as proving you wrong ?  |
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"I know what you mean with the couples that turn out to just be chaps, it’s a persistent problem here in my experience but it is possible to find genuine couples/women too so please don’t give up hope, they are out there.
And as for women who are attracted to “bigger women”, it’s not an issue and can be a bonus for some of us
Hope you have some better luck soon "
Thank you not one for giving up. We did think trying a club when they open maybe more of a chance xx |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
We do exist. My preference, in pre pandemic times, was to meet on a semi regular basis with carefully selected couples. It can be difficult to find though as all 3 people need to be attracted to each other. Unfortunately there are many 'couples' on here where the female half seems to work exceptionally long hours and is never available to chat  |
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I always try be honest and we're just us. I don't even mind a partner but I don't wanna have sex with them or soft swapping is an option .
Maybe I need to rethink my profile but a lot of people don't read half if it lol |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I know what you mean with the couples that turn out to just be chaps, it’s a persistent problem here in my experience but it is possible to find genuine couples/women too so please don’t give up hope, they are out there.
And as for women who are attracted to “bigger women”, it’s not an issue and can be a bonus for some of us
Hope you have some better luck soon
Thank you not one for giving up. We did think trying a club when they open maybe more of a chance xx"
Clubs & organised socials are a really good way to meet & get to know people. I find that a much better way to make connections |
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"It can be hard because most couples are seeking a bi fem to join them too.
Maybe try a club when they open up as I think people seem to have more success there. "
Yea I think that's the way to go. And imagine the fun looking for that unicorn |
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"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.
I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.
Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "
I personally am attracted to women who are bigger like me xx
Wish I didn't live so far away  |
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"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.
I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.
Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ?
I personally am attracted to women who are bigger like me xx
Wish I didn't live so far away "
We were literally just looking at you |
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Single ladies to play with couples are called unicorns for a reason. We guess is relatively easy for a lady to meet up with another lady but to become a threesome is more difficult since she will need to be attracted to both halves of the couple and of course works the other way around too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too
I disagree with you on this . I know a fair few single females on fab that are single. I do know a few females from a couple that have their own account but not that many tbh
We personally know couples where the Lady has a single profile that the Man actually runs!"
So do I. They are very far and few between though. There's plenty single females on fab that are actually single. All the single females on my veris are single apart from one |
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"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.
I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.
Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? "
youd be most welcome at our bi parties xxx |
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "
I don’t have a partner at all anymore. I had a couples profile when I did.
So unfortunately I come alone.  |
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too
I don’t have a partner at all anymore. I had a couples profile when I did.
So unfortunately I come alone. "
Oh dear, it's sad when couples are no longer a couple, it seems to happen a lot on Fab. To those who it does happen to, we hope they find happiness  |
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too "
I'm not a single lady but on fab I am. My boyfriend is in no way involved with my profile. He doesn't know my login, doesn't look at my profile or messages x |
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"All I want is a genuine woman who's up for fun, hot sex with my hubby and I.
I either get someone who can't hold a convo or a partner pops up and ends up that it's all for him wanting sex not her.
Is it possible or are women less likely to be attracted to Bigger women ? youd be most welcome at our bi parties xxx"
Sounds fun please keep us in mind when you have ur next one x |
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"I have a husband but he is not involved in any shape or form.....  "
Same. For the person saying it’s easier to find a woman to be one on one I disagree too. I’ve been on here like 14 years and I’ve only ever met two that genuinely turned up without asking for a man to come along.
GG xx |
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"I have a husband but he is not involved in any shape or form.....
Same. For the person saying it’s easier to find a woman to be one on one I disagree too. I’ve been on here like 14 years and I’ve only ever met two that genuinely turned up without asking for a man to come along.
GG xx"
Defo parties it is then lol x |
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"You'll find most (not all) single Ladies on here who play with couples actually have a Male partner who also will be playing. If any Ladies would like to prove us wrong they're welcome too
I don’t have a partner at all anymore. I had a couples profile when I did.
So unfortunately I come alone. Oh dear, it's sad when couples are no longer a couple, it seems to happen a lot on Fab. To those who it does happen to, we hope they find happiness "
It wasn’t a fab issue and I had a single profile previously and a couples one before that with my second husband. It’s been about 14 years here for me too on various profiles. I have had some good meets as a single fem with couples but prefer parties in reality for couple play. |
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