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Name and Shame Timewasters
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meets wise there should currently be no time wasters as no one is supposed to be meeting. |
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Doesn't that go against fabs rules? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around. |
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"I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around."
Shall I tell them about the time you wasted my time?
Of course this never happened but this is how it would be abused. You piss someone off and they blast your name all over the site as a time waster. |
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I can say why it’s not allowed without even checking the rules. Abusing the system. If you just don’t like someone and you’re an asshole, what’s to stop you posting someone’s name just to be a dick? It can’t be policed. So to make it easier, they say no, you can’t name and shame. Block people you don’t want anything to do with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around.
Shall I tell them about the time you wasted my time?
Of course this never happened but this is how it would be abused. You piss someone off and they blast your name all over the site as a time waster. "
Totally agree with this, there’s always one shut stirrer  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Ye cos that wouldn't be abused at all and wouldn't end up with people who being named and shamed even tho they did nothing wrong bar probably saying no to someone. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I can say why it’s not allowed without even checking the rules. Abusing the system. If you just don’t like someone and you’re an asshole, what’s to stop you posting someone’s name just to be a dick? It can’t be policed. So to make it easier, they say no, you can’t name and shame. Block people you don’t want anything to do with. "
Exactly this is why it's a bad idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If naming and shaming were used legitimately it would be great however I would imagine that being allowed to name and shame someone on here would open the floodgates for anyone with a grudge to ruin someone’s good name.
You can now report a profile for being fake, or not turning up to a meet ect.
It’s a shame this site is spoilt by idiots who never intended to meet in the first place though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe it should be allowed as it would deter said timewasters and hopefully leave the site to the genuine folk. As a part of a couples profile a few years ago the amount of times we drove to then get ghosted was crazy so nameing and shameing would have been helpful if it stopped others from getting messed around.
Shall I tell them about the time you wasted my time?
Of course this never happened but this is how it would be abused. You piss someone off and they blast your name all over the site as a time waster. "
Sadly i agree that some would abuse it to be spiteful but i think most folk would genuinly want to warn others about timewasters. Sadly the site is flooded with them and i cant see this changing anytime soon but it is really unfair on all the genuine singles and couples. |
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Naming and shaming anywhere on the site is against the rules.
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