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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

This is how I would take. What do you think peeps?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think that 100% of people here have their own reason for being here and as long as they’re not doing any harm, they’re each as valid as the next

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think that 100% of people here have their own reason for being here and as long as they’re not doing any harm, they’re each as valid as the next "

You don't need to be swinger to join this site

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple  over a year ago

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"I think that 100% of people here have their own reason for being here and as long as they’re not doing any harm, they’re each as valid as the next

You don't need to be swinger to join this site "

We agree, there even cheats on here, and swinging isn't cheating!!

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By *heel markMan  over a year ago

beside the sea

I'd say 50% fake, 30% only here for validation and the rest genuine.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

Show off? Nahhhhh, there's way more people here that are trying to find their confidence and build their self esteem, trying to find out who the fuck they are than there are "show offs"

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By *lice MaliceWoman  over a year ago

The Facility


"Show off? Nahhhhh, there's way more people here that are trying to find their confidence and build their self esteem, trying to find out who the fuck they are than there are "show offs""

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Because we find it hard to find people that we are *both* into. That makes us show offs? There are all types on here. Looking for different things. And many won’t meet or fuck just for the sake of it. Including us.

J

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple  over a year ago

midlands

What's the problem with exhibitionists?

What's the problem with the other users of this site?

Everyone has their own reason for being here and that is okay as long as they stick to the site (and if applicable forum) rules

Inclusivity

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's the problem with exhibitionists?

What's the problem with the other users of this site?

Everyone has their own reason for being here and that is okay as long as they stick to the site (and if applicable forum) rules

Inclusivity "

Exactly.... Enjoyment is what it's all about.... Whatever that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What's the problem with exhibitionists?

What's the problem with the other users of this site?

Everyone has their own reason for being here and that is okay as long as they stick to the site (and if applicable forum) rules

Inclusivity

Exactly.... Enjoyment is what it's all about.... Whatever that is "

Fabexhibitionists?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is how I would take. What do you think peeps? "

So because 9 out of 10 women don't want to meet you, they're not genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink it op,

I think we live too much in a world driven by better, everything has to be better, love is a word that's thrown about like tumble

Plus we are all bonkers and totally unmeetable

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As for show offs

An old saying goes

If you've got it flaunt it

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it."

spot on jo jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think that 100% of people here have their own reason for being here and as long as they’re not doing any harm, they’re each as valid as the next "

I will drink to that ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it."

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??"

I can guarantee they are using right

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??"

Looool this is true

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By *implynaughty1Couple  over a year ago

stockport


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right "

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right "

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx"

Spanners come in all different variety, combination, swan neck, obstruction etc etc they're all simple to use

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"As for show offs

An old saying goes

If you've got it flaunt it "

Well, where is it?

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx"

If they're using a spanner I'd rather they kept it to themselves

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As for show offs

An old saying goes

If you've got it flaunt it

Well, where is it?"

Where is what ?

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??"

The ones I've met knew where to put it.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"As for show offs

An old saying goes

If you've got it flaunt it

Well, where is it?

Where is what ? "

You know...it.

I can't see it on your profile.

Is he hiding?

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx

Spanners come in all different variety, combination, swan neck, obstruction etc etc they're all simple to use "

Swan neck looool they are simple use but its about technique

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By *implynaughty1Couple  over a year ago

stockport

Sorry but I have to jump in on this one this is a swinging sight if you are lucky to get a meet up happy days I don't really see the point of being on here if you are not wanting to meet up mrs m #

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan  over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Sorry but I have to jump in on this one this is a swinging sight if you are lucky to get a meet up happy days I don't really see the point of being on here if you are not wanting to meet up mrs m # "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx

Spanners come in all different variety, combination, swan neck, obstruction etc etc they're all simple to use

Swan neck looool they are simple use but its about technique "

Your right it is, takes decades of practice and swearing to be able to flip any type of spanner through your fingers whilst turn a bolt head

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

Looool I was calling the dick a spanner jojo cos some can hit different spots if they're at a certain angle when the hips turn. Spanners have to be turned for it to work

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx

If they're using a spanner I'd rather they kept it to themselves "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So what do we think enables a bloke to be able to use it ?

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx

Spanners come in all different variety, combination, swan neck, obstruction etc etc they're all simple to use

Swan neck looool they are simple use but its about technique

Your right it is, takes decades of practice and swearing to be able to flip any type of spanner through your fingers whilst turn a bolt head "

Hang on I'm a bit slow looool are you talking bj mr thrills at flipping a spanner whilst turning a bolt head.

I'm a bit lost now lool

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"So what do we think enables a bloke to be able to use it ? "

Hip movement firstly I would say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx

Spanners come in all different variety, combination, swan neck, obstruction etc etc they're all simple to use

Swan neck looool they are simple use but its about technique

Your right it is, takes decades of practice and swearing to be able to flip any type of spanner through your fingers whilst turn a bolt head

Hang on I'm a bit slow looool are you talking bj mr thrills at flipping a spanner whilst turning a bolt head.

I'm a bit lost now lool"

I think that he is either talking about an actual spanner now or he's on about a spanner attached to a bigger spanner ie himself ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So what do we think enables a bloke to be able to use it ?

Hip movement firstly I would say"

The old thrusting usually works but that could just be pot luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Show off? Nahhhhh, there's way more people here that are trying to find their confidence and build their self esteem, trying to find out who the fuck they are than there are "show offs""

100% this

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Sorry but I have to jump in on this one this is a swinging sight if you are lucky to get a meet up happy days I don't really see the point of being on here if you are not wanting to meet up mrs m # "

Leaving the sex behind because you've lost your mojo doesn't mean you should leave your mates and the banter behind.

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By *andycandy88Woman  over a year ago

Northolt


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it.

5 percent don't even use it right given the chance ??

I can guarantee they are using right

You would be surprised, some actually don't know how to use their spanner xx

Spanners come in all different variety, combination, swan neck, obstruction etc etc they're all simple to use

Swan neck looool they are simple use but its about technique

Your right it is, takes decades of practice and swearing to be able to flip any type of spanner through your fingers whilst turn a bolt head

Hang on I'm a bit slow looool are you talking bj mr thrills at flipping a spanner whilst turning a bolt head.

I'm a bit lost now lool

I think that he is either talking about an actual spanner now or he's on about a spanner attached to a bigger spanner ie himself ??"

Ohhh ok loool

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sorry but I have to jump in on this one this is a swinging sight if you are lucky to get a meet up happy days I don't really see the point of being on here if you are not wanting to meet up mrs m # "

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By *edantic SheilaWoman  over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I think 90% of men only get to show off their penis.

10% of men are lucky enough to use it."

True story

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think you're right OP, going by an awful lot of men's avatars, profiles and messages, I would agree that something like 90% are here to show off, because they don't conduct themselves in a way that makes a meet at all likely.

Going by your avatar I guess you include yourself in the 90%, as you clearly like to show off?

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Sorry but I have to jump in on this one this is a swinging sight if you are lucky to get a meet up happy days I don't really see the point of being on here if you are not wanting to meet up mrs m # "

But swinging isn't about meeting just anyone who asks, we are allowed to be selective & there's a huge social element to it as well.

I've been on here almost 10 years, first as half of a couple & now as a single, in that time I'd say less than a quarter of meets have been through fab, most were arranged through real life situations like clubs/parties/group socials. Fab for me is about keeping in touch with people and finding out about events etc & having a laugh in the forums with like minded people.

Plus at the moment we are still dealing with a pandemic so no one should be meeting, should everyone have left the site at the beginning of the first lockdown because meets weren't possible?

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By *irldnCouple  over a year ago

Brighton


"Sorry but I have to jump in on this one this is a swinging sight if you are lucky to get a meet up happy days I don't really see the point of being on here if you are not wanting to meet up mrs m #

But swinging isn't about meeting just anyone who asks, we are allowed to be selective & there's a huge social element to it as well.

I've been on here almost 10 years, first as half of a couple & now as a single, in that time I'd say less than a quarter of meets have been through fab, most were arranged through real life situations like clubs/parties/group socials. Fab for me is about keeping in touch with people and finding out about events etc & having a laugh in the forums with like minded people.

Plus at the moment we are still dealing with a pandemic so no one should be meeting, should everyone have left the site at the beginning of the first lockdown because meets weren't possible?

"

exactly this!

Some people (particularly men) seem to think that swinging basically means you are prostitutes without any money involved!

Although this thread is ostensibly about a slightly different topic it does still fit with the others where (mostly men) people moan about their lack of meets and how everyone is a timewaster.

Funny thing is, if you look at the men who genuinely understand swinging their profiles are just “different”. The tone, the information they provide. And guess what? They get meets and get verifications and are having a great time!

At a simple level this isn’t a casual sex hook up site (yes some are here for that) where you can simply swipe left or right. Generally swingers want a bit more (not all) and putting in some effort goes a long way!

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple  over a year ago

Broadstairs

We find couple singles that have verifications that show they actually do meet, it’s not that hard to do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is how I would take. What do you think peeps? "

It's Fab, not tinder where you swipe one side and meet on the other .

This a swingers community ,you need to know people ,try to find what works best for you. You need to impress and be impressed with profiles and see if you can find a suitable match.

Don't expect meets in few months.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple  over a year ago

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"I think you're right OP, going by an awful lot of men's avatars, profiles and messages, I would agree that something like 90% are here to show off, because they don't conduct themselves in a way that makes a meet at all likely.

Going by your avatar I guess you include yourself in the 90%, as you clearly like to show off?"

Having looked at OPs profile, there does seem to be a fair few cock photos.

Is there really any need for more than 1 or 2?

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By *ollycouple71Couple  over a year ago

manchester


"Sorry but I have to jump in on this one this is a swinging sight if you are lucky to get a meet up happy days I don't really see the point of being on here if you are not wanting to meet up mrs m #

But swinging isn't about meeting just anyone who asks, we are allowed to be selective & there's a huge social element to it as well.

I've been on here almost 10 years, first as half of a couple & now as a single, in that time I'd say less than a quarter of meets have been through fab, most were arranged through real life situations like clubs/parties/group socials. Fab for me is about keeping in touch with people and finding out about events etc & having a laugh in the forums with like minded people.

Plus at the moment we are still dealing with a pandemic so no one should be meeting, should everyone have left the site at the beginning of the first lockdown because meets weren't possible?

exactly this!

Some people (particularly men) seem to think that swinging basically means you are prostitutes without any money involved!

Although this thread is ostensibly about a slightly different topic it does still fit with the others where (mostly men) people moan about their lack of meets and how everyone is a timewaster.

Funny thing is, if you look at the men who genuinely understand swinging their profiles are just “different”. The tone, the information they provide. And guess what? They get meets and get verifications and are having a great time!

At a simple level this isn’t a casual sex hook up site (yes some are here for that) where you can simply swipe left or right. Generally swingers want a bit more (not all) and putting in some effort goes a long way!"

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

People can be on here for any reason they want as long as they are clear about that in their profile! But that is where the problem lies isn’t it?

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