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By *avess OP Man
over a year ago
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I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! |
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By *avess OP Man
over a year ago
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "
THIS. The double standard that they still expect the world when then aren't prepared to do the same!
That's remarkable though to do a U Turn like that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it. "
You aren't alone!..I love to go down on a woman. Surprising how many women don't like it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it. "
Me too. Some seem obsessed by it like there is nothing else to do. |
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! " I can count on one hand the amount of meets that have asked if they could. I refuse mostly anyway... but its definitely not something guys do on a regular basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx"
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that |
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that"
I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx |
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx" I've never really had anyone get the arse when I've said I'd rather not... the funny thing is I adore it from my partner xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it. "
Exactly this ^^^ I avoid profiles that say they love it and do it for hours! Boring ... if I'm not in the mood then it's not going to happen |
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By *avess OP Man
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that
I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"
This annoys me though, that 90% of men will get pissy over it. If a woman turned around and said please don't I don't like that. I'd just ask what they do like and do that instead.
You shouldn't have to cater for mens weak egos! |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! " but still did both to please him
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that
I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"
Wow I'm surprised. I have no interest in doing something that the other person doesn't enjoy. Where's the fun in that? Lol |
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"I cannot belive i have read so many texts here from women saying they dont like men going down on them, OMG! I love it and always got them to orgasam and lap it up "
I guess it's a case of each to their own and every couple is different... we can't all be the same.
Plenty of mutual O going on with us and we both love it x |
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I find it odd how a lot of guys try to win us over by offering THE MOST AMAZING oral for hours on end. Don't mind it as a bit of a starter, but there's a lot more to it than oral. And after about 3 minutes I'll have had enough, because I really don't find it all that spectacular. |
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that
I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx
Wow I'm surprised. I have no interest in doing something that the other person doesn't enjoy. Where's the fun in that? Lol "
Same here.
Most of my own enjoyment comes from seeing the person I'm with really enjoying it. If she hated it, I would too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that
I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx
Wow I'm surprised. I have no interest in doing something that the other person doesn't enjoy. Where's the fun in that? Lol
Same here.
Most of my own enjoyment comes from seeing the person I'm with really enjoying it. If she hated it, I would too. "
Precisely mate
I like to please and be pleased. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It turns me on immensely licking a pussy especially starting off slowly and building it up teasing, caressing, stroking, finding the different eronorous zones and seeing how it reacts using different techniques then it’s can lead to mind blowing body shaking bed soaking explosive multiple orgasms and then it’s hammer time haha |
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Being brought up around people with a predominantly jamaican background it was highly frowned upon as something guys really shouldnt do and it had so much stigma, i dont think i went down on a woman until I was like 30 years old. I must admit I do enjoy it tho. |
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"I love it as long as the man knows what he is doing"
That! And they have to enjoy doing it too, if it’s just a box ticking exercise, I’ll know and it’s not enjoyable so no thanks!
But it also depends on the mood... like I don’t always feel like giving a bj I don’t expect men to go down on me either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
Me too. Some seem obsessed by it like there is nothing else to do. "
That’s why it’s best to find out what people are into and should take more note |
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!
but still did both to please him"
Not so much to please him more didn’t get a choice with the anal. Still older and wiser now and wouldn’t do it these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "
Trying hard to think if there’s anything I wouldn’t do with you |
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
Exactly this ^^^ I avoid profiles that say they love it and do it for hours! Boring ... if I'm not in the mood then it's not going to happen "
I find that to be code for their cock doesn’t work |
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!
Trying hard to think if there’s anything I wouldn’t do with you "
Aww that’s sweet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love giving oral but if a woman asked me not to do it, then obviously I wouldn't. I guess there is a tendency to assume that everybody likes it. Thinking of my three long-term partners, one loved it and came every time, one was OK with it but preferred penetration (but strangely was excelelnt in giving oral to me and very happy to), and the third doesn't understand why I like it and isn't keen on it. So quite mixed views which seems to reflect this thread. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! "
Not a problem, if they earn it. |
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"It’s my forte . Love going down on a woman. Can stay there for hours . In fact my ex told all her friends how good I was . But never strayed. But single now and alway available. Any size" I doubt any woman wants to be licked for hours.... |
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"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?"
I just don't particularly enjoy it. I don't hate it and I've tried it of course, several times, my partner is very good at it. There is just so much more to foreplay. If a guy really loves to give oral I am not the woman for him.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?"
I like it with the right person but only when I'm in the mood for it ... there is so very much more that can be done for foreplay! Also guys that like "to do oral for hours" it gets so very boring, literally mind can start thinking about other things! (Not sexual things ) Why limit yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "
Your first husband sounds rather selfish
No offense |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
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"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?
I just don't particularly enjoy it. I don't hate it and I've tried it of course, several times, my partner is very good at it. There is just so much more to foreplay. If a guy really loves to give oral I am not the woman for him.
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Ah right ok, so it’s along the lines of, “yes very nice, now move on to something else?”
Kind of like having your favourite meal every day, soon get sick of it? |
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"Genuine question - what is it than you ladies don’t enjoy about receiving oral? Is it you don’t feel anything, or too intimate to your most personal space?
I just don't particularly enjoy it. I don't hate it and I've tried it of course, several times, my partner is very good at it. There is just so much more to foreplay. If a guy really loves to give oral I am not the woman for him.
Ah right ok, so it’s along the lines of, “yes very nice, now move on to something else?”
Kind of like having your favourite meal every day, soon get sick of it?"
No it's a case of please don't do that . There are lots more things I'd rather do and I don't believe in doing something that I don't particularly enjoy unless I really have to. It's on our profile that I don't like it so nobody gets disappointed. |
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
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Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.
Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.
To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it! |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.
Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.
To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it!"
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that
I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"
I love giving oral but would never dream of it if she didn’t like it. |
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.
Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.
To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it!"
And of course your perfect, with a perfect body and gods gift to Women, with comments like that no wonder Women dont enjoy oral. |
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
Is it worth licking the pussy though? IMO, I love licking pussy; it's kind of one of those expected steps between the sock gap and full penetration. Foreplay isn't complete if you haven't gone down on her.
Having said that.......... there's some girls I wouldn't go down on or wished that I hadn't.
To be brutally, blunt: Good hygiene and being in shape makes it appealing. If it already smells bad and I haven't put my head down there, no matter what you put on your profile if the milk is sour, I ain't the pussy that's going to be lapping it up. Equally, if there's rolls of fat, a gut hanging down and I can't get in there, put how much you want to be licked out on your profile as much as you like, but if it's not going to be a good experience for me, I'm not doing it!
And of course your perfect, with a perfect body and gods gift to Women, with comments like that no wonder Women dont enjoy oral."
Isn't basic hygiene something that everyone would expect? If you flip it, would you have a smelly cock, nob cheese and a gut then by putting in your profile "If you don't deep throat my cock, don't bother"? Just because someone puts "I expect..." in their profile doesn't mean you're obliged to do it.
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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago
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I can't understand why more people don't love going down on a woman. I really like a 69 while she is taking a man doggy and i get to lick her clit as he fucks her. Just finding a couple who also enjoy that is difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "
Then don’t do it |
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For me the most important thing is for people to enjoy what they are doing or what they are having done to them, without any pressure.
I like going down on a woman but would be mortified if I was doing something she didn't like. |
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal!
Your first husband sounds rather selfish
No offense "
No offence taken - he was! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
Me too. Some seem obsessed by it like there is nothing else to do. "
Totally this!
We have has many messages from single guys obsessed with oral on a women and many saying that's all they want to do.
Experience has taught us quite often there's a reason SOME single male profiles veer to heavily on just going down on a women.
Some examples
There penis is significantly below average in size (i.e. below 5 1/2 inches).
They struggle to get an erection.
They have problems maintaining an erection to the level needed for penetrative sex and when using condoms.
They have significant problems with premature ejaculation.
They are unable to perform in front of other men or groups of 3 people or more.
Before anyone thinks this is a bashing post I highlighted some men not all. Also as a guy myself I absolutely adored going down on a woman the scent, taste mmmm its incredible. I don't however like to "lick for hours" that's just ridiculous and if you ever find yourself in that position then I waver your doing it wrong. Not all women like oral the same way by a long shot. If you know how to read a women's responses then you should be able to adjust your technique to be able to ensure she enjoys it.
As much as I love going down on a woman after she has cum then I'm totally ready to move on to the next stage, including fucking. It's best when its an early course in a banquet.
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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! "
Why wud you not I love doing it so I can’t answer your question sadly but I guess like everything else not everything is for everyone and we shud never judge although I still don’t understand lol |
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
This!!!! Like it’s expected I let them even though I can’t stand it xx
Why? Just say that you don't enjoy it and tell them what you'd prefer... Nobody is going to mind that
I can assure you 90% of them mind lol. That’s why I said it’s expected. Xx"
I'm not keen I like a hard long pounding |
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"I've seen an increasingly large amount of womens profile stipulating if a man won't lick pussy then don't bother.
I find it remarkable that this has to be a thing as I love going down on women, and even more so if they ride my face. It's awesome! Why do guys not go down on a woman?! "
There's more than one reason a guy doesn't some I know of is due to selfish behaviour where they just want head but not give it back.
Some have come in contact with unclean pussy and it scars them and puts fear into them trying another woman orally.
Lastly there are some females that don't like oral done to them so if a guy comes across a few of those women its fair that he'll assume his luck is about crossing paths with that type but that doesn't make it right for him to just assume that. That is why communication is so important however communication won't really tell a man how clean a lady's kitty is till he meets it personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I received a message on fab from a local guy. He said that he doesn't like BBW, so he can fuck me, but he won't go down on me. I wasn't even bothered to reply. "
Really?? You mean you didn't ask for his address and run straight round there? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love a blow job and like to think I’m giving the same pleasure back,
I’ve only come across one lady that wasn’t into it and respected that,
I work with a number of black guys who all think it’s disgusting and refuse to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to go down on a woman x it's one of my favourite things x i would rather give oral than receive. But I love to receive too. I know that there are some guys who don't like to lick pussy can't understand why but each to their own x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The taste of a woman is something that sets my senses reeling
Cant describe it properly - very primeval - but just so horny
It’s not real sex without the taste xx |
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Communication. Be bold and tell people what you want.
I love going down on a woman, but I love seeing a woman enjoying herself far more. I'm sure most of us are here to experience new things, so by design I'd expect a bit of direction to be given when meeting new people.
None of us are here to just go through the motions surely. |
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By *avess OP Man
over a year ago
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"I received a message on fab from a local guy. He said that he doesn't like BBW, so he can fuck me, but he won't go down on me. I wasn't even bothered to reply. "
Weren't bothered to reply because you were so turned on by his offer that you went straight round?
Some guys really do have a special way of treating women! |
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Surely its only fun to do if the woman's enjoying it anyway, otherwise whats the point? I absolutely love going down and building her up to orgasm but if she was just lying there bored it wouldn't be the same! |
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By *AABMan
over a year ago
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"I've found the opposite. Men seem very keen to go down on me despite me saying I don't like it.
Exactly this ^^^ I avoid profiles that say they love it and do it for hours! Boring ... if I'm not in the mood then it's not going to happen
I find that to be code for their cock doesn’t work "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love giving oral to a lady, probably more than receiving it and more than sex, but the enjoyment comes from seeing the pleasure she gets out of it. So if she doesn't enjoy then it is pointless. I love looking up over a woman's pelvic bone and boobs and watching her face as she cums. That is a real turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My first husband did until we were married then said he wasn't doing it anymore as he didn't really like it! Funny how he still expected blow jobs and anal - I hate anal! "
What a waste of a good woman, guessing he's not hubby anymore then? Lol |
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