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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why do so many guys on here whether single or as a couple state they are bi curious n yet have profile pictures of them sucking cock lol.i'd say thats way past curious in my book. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"why do so many guys on here whether single or as a couple state they are bi curious n yet have profile pictures of them sucking cock lol.i'd say thats way past curious in my book."
ahhh but thats in your book, other people may disagree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do so many guys on here whether single or as a couple state they are bi curious n yet have profile pictures of them sucking cock lol.i'd say thats way past curious in my book."
Sorry for being picky but was this exact same topic word for word posted last week ? |
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Maybe some people find the term 'bisexual' a bit too strong to describe how they see their sexuality?
Bi-playful is a nice middle-ish word but not a tick box option.
I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't get any labels, confuses me and way too deep for NSA fun.
We know lots of guys who list themselves as straight, I can see why.
Anything else is questioned and interpreted in a perceived way,
As far as we see it, boundaries and rules/likes are discussed prior to meets and anything that happens during a meet is at the discretion of the people involved.
As long as fun is had and is consensual then shouldn't matter or have a label. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My OH is listed as curious as he's only wanked n sucked 2 guys, and hasn't had penetrative sex with any yet, and is not sure if he wants to either does that make him a hypocrite??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My OH is listed as curious as he's only wanked n sucked 2 guys, and hasn't had penetrative sex with any yet, and is not sure if he wants to either does that make him a hypocrite?? "
BamBam is the same, he's wanked and sucked one or two but not got as far as penetration either giving or receiving and as much as he enjoys my strap-on, that's a lump of plastic with me on the other end, not a real cock on another bloke.
The same pretty much goes for me, I'm listed as bi-curious, I've kissed another fem, sucked nipples and licked pussy, but as there has not been any further play, ie, with pussies touching or mutual penetration with toys (yet), I can't say whether I will actually want to go that far or even, if I do, whether I will enjoy it.
Therefore, we are both of the opinion that until we have taken things further and decided whether we enjoy it and want to repeat these acts, we cannot say that we are fully bi, and as said by another poster, there isn't a tick box for orally-bi or playfully-bi, so our only option is to go with bi-curious.
Maybe, the powers that be at Fab might want to consider adding one or two more options to the orientation section of profiles.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"surely curiouis means you'd like to try something not already tried it lol"
Yep! 
"I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex."
Eh ?? 
"As long as fun is had and is consensual then shouldn't matter or have a label."
But surely "labels" are needed to help people decide who they want to meet, be it straight, bi, black, white, TV or whatever?  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, bisexual means I would have a relationship with either sex. I don't think I would have a relationship with a woman and so I don't see myself as bisexual. The only other option on here is bicurious as I do want to explore my sexuality, and there are limited tick boxes. Labels can help point us in the right direction, but they're all subjective - unless you're in Asda looking at the soup x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to be lots of threads similar to this....
I agree that there are not enough labels on here to encompass all that humans can be. I guess I'm a bisexual guy who can 'play it straight' very well, who can enjoy the intimacy and companionship of both sexes. As I've said before... I think a time will come when we can get rid of 'hetero' sexual, 'homo' sexual, 'bi' sexual, and just call ourselves SEXUAL! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems to be lots of threads similar to this....
I agree that there are not enough labels on here to encompass all that humans can be. I guess I'm a bisexual guy who can 'play it straight' very well, who can enjoy the intimacy and companionship of both sexes. As I've said before... I think a time will come when we can get rid of 'hetero' sexual, 'homo' sexual, 'bi' sexual, and just call ourselves SEXUAL! "
Best post ever...were all Sexual buggers, now who wants to get naked ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being sucked, and I return the favour. I've had sex both ways, but wouldn't have (strike that, have yet to have, (but don't reckon it'll happen)....) a relationship with another guy go beyond the matey stage.
Because of the experience I'd rather have it clear of the trees and out in the open as Bisexual, but in reality... part time MSM.
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Mmm I would have to agree, if you have actually gone as far as sucking a guys cock, I think your maybe a little bit past the curious stage. I am sure all the guys out of curiosity take a little look at the TV pictures, I have but not seen one looking good enough to temped me into wonting to shag them ha ha, seen a few hot shemales on porn clips, but I guess thousands have been spent on plastic surgery to get that close to looking like a real women.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a bi-curious guy but i dont 'fancy' men nor would i 'date' a fellow male. I love women in all of there glory. However, with the right people, in the right enviromemt, there is nothing sexier than a bi mfm/mfmf etc. Ive played orally and gave anal. Had a gf experiment with strap ons etc but i still wouldnt class myself as bisexual. Im still on a learning curve in my eyes |
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By *ealfunCouple
over a year ago
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We totally agree with some of the opinions on here. We would not describe ourselves as fully bi but we do like any scenarios which are sexually exciting and this has included same sex play with guys girls and TVs......if its feels horny we will do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... I am sure all the guys out of curiosity take a little look at the TV pictures...
ermm, nope."
I do and have to say that some of the TS are better looking than some women on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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let people meet who they want to.
if its something they wish to try thats different it doesnt make them a bad person.
if you dont agree leave them alone and stop bullying or pointing the finger via the forums.
your not god, nor in control so if someone wants to call themselves straight,gay,bi or alien its is down to them.
not you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex.
If 100% str8 why have a bi guy in a MFM? |
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"I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex.
If 100% str8 why have a bi guy in a MFM?"
Because if you look up the definition the term bisexual that's not me. If you consider what most people seem to think bi-curious means that's not me either.
In the same context 'I'm tea total' and then you see me drinking a pint of beer and the world grinds to a standstill! The terms 'drinker' or 'non-drinker' or 'social drinker' don't fit me!
When you've worked out my sexuality for me maybe you can create a label for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex.
If 100% str8 why have a bi guy in a MFM?"
Maybe it's because it's only the Bi guy that's Bi... The straight guy isn't sucking another guys knob; ergo he cannot be Bi, even if he enjoys the blowjob...
Allegedly! 
Wolf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex.
If 100% str8 why have a bi guy in a MFM?
Maybe it's because it's only the Bi guy that's Bi... The straight guy isn't sucking another guys knob; ergo he cannot be Bi, even if he enjoys the blowjob...
Allegedly!
Wolf"
Makes total sense to me that. What is said straight guy, just receives and doesn't give, what then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm reclassifying myself as a bi-curious-bi-fem-lesbian-singlebutcanbepartofacoupleififindsomeoneelseforacouplecouplemeet!
Purely using the logic that I consider myself straight from a 'relationship' point of _iew, love women, enjoy playing with couples alone or with a 'friend' if needed and have also been known to wank/suck the odd cock if it takes my fancy in the right situation!
So feel free to 'label' yourselves as anything you want because at the end of the day only you really know your own sexuality and preferences and therefore whatever you choose will always be right and sod anyone else who tells you differently!! |
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"I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex.
If 100% str8 why have a bi guy in a MFM?
Maybe it's because it's only the Bi guy that's Bi... The straight guy isn't sucking another guys knob; ergo he cannot be Bi, even if he enjoys the blowjob...
Allegedly!
Wolf"
LOL actually I'll suck, and fuck, and be sucked and fucked. But I don't want to get kissy cuddly with a guy, I do not want a sexual 'relationship' with a guy and I dare say that's true of most of guys in the swinging hobby in respect of their bisexual interests.
I never have, and can't imagine that I ever would have one-to-one sex with a guy, therefore to say that I'm bisexual would not be accurate.
When when it comes to recreational sex play in a swinging type situation then subject to the limits of others we're pretty much game for anything with either sex.
So label that LOL actually I got one, we're both sluts PMSL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex.
If 100% str8 why have a bi guy in a MFM?
Maybe it's because it's only the Bi guy that's Bi... The straight guy isn't sucking another guys knob; ergo he cannot be Bi, even if he enjoys the blowjob...
Allegedly!
If I enjoy the same sex sucking my cock I would consider myself bi, if ONLY sucked by opposite sex I would be str8 in any game that is played. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, bisexual means I would have a relationship with either sex. I don't think I would have a relationship with a woman and so I don't see myself as bisexual. The only other option on here is bicurious as I do want to explore my sexuality, and there are limited tick boxes. Labels can help point us in the right direction, but they're all subjective - unless you're in Asda looking at the soup x"
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As a something to discuss....
Two guys are living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a gay relationship.
Two women living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a lesbian relationship.
Now all 4 have sex with each other, what is the label? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I am bi sexual and that is because I have sex with both men and women.
I don't have relationships with either..... just SEX.
I lick a ladies's foo foo and nosh on a man's knob
I don't think it is that difficult to grasp
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"As a something to discuss....
Two guys are living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a gay relationship.
Two women living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a lesbian relationship.
Now all 4 have sex with each other, what is the label?"
Lucky! |
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"For me, bisexual means I would have a relationship with either sex. I don't think I would have a relationship with a woman and so I don't see myself as bisexual. The only other option on here is bicurious as I do want to explore my sexuality, and there are limited tick boxes. Labels can help point us in the right direction, but they're all subjective - unless you're in Asda looking at the soup x"
totally agree! I wouldn't have a relationship with a female but I will play with females in MFF or MMFF situations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am bi sexual and that is because I have sex with both men and women.
I don't have relationships with either..... just SEX.
I lick a ladies's foo foo and nosh on a man's knob
I don't think it is that difficult to grasp
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Exactly, and that's because your honest and at ease with your sexuality and don't feel guilty, ashamed or whatever else about it and nor should you.
As you say, its all about sex not about whether your willing to have a relationship or not.
It all comes down to whether you enjoy oral, masturbation or penetration with the same sex, simple as that.
The word is biSEXUAL not biRELATIONAL! 
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"As a something to discuss....
Two guys are living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a gay relationship.
Two women living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a lesbian relationship.
Now all 4 have sex with each other, what is the label?"
An orgy. |
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I think the giveaway is in the name - biSEXUAL (and heteroSEXUAL and homoSEXUAL). It is not about relationships, not even about fancying someone.
If you even fantasise about sex with both genders, that makes you bi. If you have sex with both genders and enjoy it, even if only oral or kissing, or whatever, it certainly confirms it.
However, I do agree that such labels are pretty old hat and no longer perfectly fit most people. We are just sexual beings, each with our own specific preferences, desires, fantasies, etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After all someone's sexuality only affects the choice of the person they go to bed with. It shouldn't make any difference out in the big wide world, the only reason it makes a difference is because of peoples ignorance and fears and also because somehow some like to change the behaviour of others when they don't have the same beliefs as their own by pointing out how others 'differ' to the pack of 'sameys' in order to make them conform or ostracise them as different - hence why a lot of Bi males have their profiles set to Straight, then get lambasted for being 'dishonest' where in fact it is a truth economy.
People can be what they like as far as I'm concerned. To jump my bones though, or to jump someone else's bones for me in just the same way requires permission regardless of who they are, and we all hopefully have an informed choice
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went through years of frustration inside knowing that I was bi-curious. It came to a point where I was invited to an MMF threesome, no man on man but I was itching to suck the guys cock etc, they were friends of mine and they asked if I was bi as she caught me looking a few times, I was a tad embarrassed but relieved to tell them at the same time. I'd never have a relationship with a guy but on the fun side especially where bi MMF is concerned I'd go all the way safely. I'm happy with my sexuality and love the swinging lifestyle. |
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
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As a widower with grown up kids ,I find myself tacking stock as it where and finding I am missing something.for years I have hidden and represt my bi curious side .now I am ,60, and feel like a dirty old man for wanting to try the bi swinging scene.this is wrong on so meny levels!!! my advice to my kids and to all free thinkers is be yourself and be happy .life is too short for any compromise. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"As a something to discuss....
Two guys are living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a gay relationship.
Two women living together and having a sexual relationship with each other. We call that a lesbian relationship.
Far too much fun for their own good lol
Now all 4 have sex with each other, what is the label?"
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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"Maybe some people find the term 'bisexual' a bit too strong to describe how they see their sexuality?
Bi-playful is a nice middle-ish word but not a tick box option.
I would say that I'm 100% heterosexual but I wouldn't let a silly thing like that get in the way of male-male sex play I've never 'fancied' a bloke in my life and I don't expect I ever will but in a MFM situation with a bi-guy, well that's different... its just sex."
Bi playful is spot on ..... |
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