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Anyone bumped into friend relative or workmate at swingers club
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never bumped into anyone, but an old workmate and his wife took me to my first club. I’d been moaning about my lack of sex life after a divorce amd the fact that having watched a TV show about a swingers club on Ch5 that I may give it a whirl. We chatted about it and he said he and his wife went to a club and if I wanted I could come along. They introduced me to friends of there and the rest is history (I never played with them, but did with a couple they were friends with) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason id not visit one in my own area. if everyone did that, surely you'd be more likely to meet someone who lives locally? "
Probably. But my point was if i randomly visited a club id prefer to just pop by one somewhere else in the country than one on my doorstep where theirs far higher risk of seeing someone i knew.. chances of meeting someone 150miles away i no is considerably less. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess the only good thing is hopefully yourself and the persom you know want to be discreet about it. So you either block before you feel you mah get seen by them, or carry on and keep fab on fab and say nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason id not visit one in my own area. if everyone did that, surely you'd be more likely to meet someone who lives locally?
Probably. But my point was if i randomly visited a club id prefer to just pop by one somewhere else in the country than one on my doorstep where theirs far higher risk of seeing someone i knew.. chances of meeting someone 150miles away i no is considerably less."
Trust me I've been to a few clubs up and down and I've still bumped into people I know. They all think the same aswell |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Not the same but...
Many years ago I (Mr) visited a strip club with some friends and spotted an older more senior work colleague (who did not see me).
The interesting thing was that he was an outspoken and devout Christian.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aye bumped into a good mate from work with his wife. Would never had thought they was into the swinging scene, very prim and proper but both sound. Was one of my first few times in a club as well, but turned out quite well, wife was lovely and introduced me to a friend in the club, and she was amazing, as a fantastic night.
Ironically when we was back in work, we acted like nothing happened, just chatting about football and the usual shite. Seen them a few times in different clubs as well, and all friendly and welcoming, and it’s great as she’s a great winglady and always introduces me to her female friends.
You have to remember you are both in a awkward situation, so just smile and embrace it. |
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My first trip to a BDSM club and in a room a woman was clearly enjoying herself. Eventually she came out and I realised she used to date my best friend at high school
We clocked each other straight away and simply smiled and then started chatting. Had a little fun since (long since broke up with my friend)
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I have bumped into two work colleagues, wife has played with one , same with wife , two couples from her company and one single guy .she has played with the single guy ,and one of the husbands (with both mine and his wife’s permission) were due to play mfmf but had to put off , had no issues as all very descrete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never bumped into anyone I know but I think that's because I only visit local clubs and most people seem to travel half way round the country to visit a club.
I'm looking forward to going further afield just to see if I do bump into anyone I know lol |
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By *amsiMan
over a year ago
Hanworth |
My wife and i went to Hellfire in Sunbury on a Friday and had a great time there, on the Sunday we went to church and recognised a couple that was also at the club, we said a polite hello and carried on as normal. |
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A neighbour who is the mother of daughter's basketball team mate. We acknowledged each other and carried on as before when collecting girls from training - polite chitchat with no mention that we'd seen her have sex with two women.
A couple we know met her niece. They agreed to keep it between themselves. Our friend's sister knows about her sister's swinging and condemns it. |
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"The reason id not visit one in my own area. if everyone did that, surely you'd be more likely to meet someone who lives locally? "
Bumped into a local guy from a couple we met at a club miles away from home. Yes it happens. |
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"The reason id not visit one in my own area. if everyone did that, surely you'd be more likely to meet someone who lives locally?
Bumped into a local guy from a couple we met at a club miles away from home. Yes it happens. "
Everyone says the same thing and ends up at the same places lol!
Specially if do events! |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"My wife and i went to Hellfire in Sunbury on a Friday and had a great time there, on the Sunday we went to church and recognised a couple that was also at the club, we said a polite hello and carried on as normal."
That just blows away any misconceptions about being Christian and being a swinger, which on the surface would seem to be incompatible? |
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"Years ago in the Aberdeen club we went to the hottub and the hubby's sister was in it
Ekkkk, what happened when you saw each other "
We were about to turn and go back to the bar area when she said come on in there is plenty room so we got in the tub |
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"The reason id not visit one in my own area. "
thing is most of your local people will think that... and all turn up somewhere else.
It's no big deal to see someone you know. They are all their for the same thing. Just don't worry |
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By *amsiMan
over a year ago
Hanworth |
"My wife and i went to Hellfire in Sunbury on a Friday and had a great time there, on the Sunday we went to church and recognised a couple that was also at the club, we said a polite hello and carried on as normal.
That just blows away any misconceptions about being Christian and being a swinger, which on the surface would seem to be incompatible?"
It is a catholic church, i myself am non practicing  |
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have bumped into people we know on here, nothing to traumatizing thank goodness 
