So, we’re excited about the prospect of meeting again, and having shared our fantasies throughout lockdown I (Mrs N) have decided that I’d like to meet single females alone.
The question is, should I set up a single profile for this, or approach single females through our couples account. My concern is that women will think we want to meet as a couple if I contact through this account, but I will be an unverified single account should I set a new one up. I’d love to hear people’s views on this. Thanks. |
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Blocking all male accounts is one thing but there's no sure way to stop them using a couples or female account if they so wish. To avoid any doubt, ask to chat to or see anyone you make contact with on camera briefly to ensure it is a real female you're dealing with. There's no need to show their face so no real reason why they should refuse if they're genuine. There are guys here who get off on dirty chat and will pretend to be anything to get their kicks. |
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It is sensible to start a new profile. A lot of people regardless of profile text on your couples profile will think that your man will want to be involved. Rightly or wrongly. As that is quite a common thing that people try and move the goalposts.
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"Set up a singles profile, but name your couples profile in the bio as it helps people see you're acting with consent"
Its been noted recently that admin? have changed profiles doing that.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1152641 |
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"Set up a singles profile, but name your couples profile in the bio as it helps people see you're acting with consent
Its been noted recently that admin? have changed profiles doing that.
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1152641"
That's a shame... I suppose maybe its misused |
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"So, we’re excited about the prospect of meeting again, and having shared our fantasies throughout lockdown I (Mrs N) have decided that I’d like to meet single females alone.
The question is, should I set up a single profile for this, or approach single females through our couples account. My concern is that women will think we want to meet as a couple if I contact through this account, but I will be an unverified single account should I set a new one up. I’d love to hear people’s views on this. Thanks. "
I would say set up a single female profile and do not state that you are part of a couple on it. Do however state that you are only interested in females who are happy with meeting alone. Keep it simple to avoid couples asking you to meet them with your partner. Once they know you got a partner, they will default to asking for a couples meet. The single profile is your adventure which your partner has visibility of and nothing more. He should also not be messaging on that profile |
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"So, we’re excited about the prospect of meeting again, and having shared our fantasies throughout lockdown I (Mrs N) have decided that I’d like to meet single females alone.
The question is, should I set up a single profile for this, or approach single females through our couples account. My concern is that women will think we want to meet as a couple if I contact through this account, but I will be an unverified single account should I set a new one up. I’d love to hear people’s views on this. Thanks. I would say set up a single female profile and do not state that you are part of a couple on it. Do however state that you are only interested in females who are happy with meeting alone. Keep it simple to avoid couples asking you to meet them with your partner. Once they know you got a partner, they will default to asking for a couples meet. The single profile is your adventure which your partner has visibility of and nothing more. He should also not be messaging on that profile "
I wouldn't ever suggest lying on a profile or pretending to be single. As a single woman if I were looking for a lady to meet 1/1 it makes no difference if she is married. Esp if the couples profile Is mentioned. God the fellas on here would get a bashing for that. |
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"So, we’re excited about the prospect of meeting again, and having shared our fantasies throughout lockdown I (Mrs N) have decided that I’d like to meet single females alone.
The question is, should I set up a single profile for this, or approach single females through our couples account. My concern is that women will think we want to meet as a couple if I contact through this account, but I will be an unverified single account should I set a new one up. I’d love to hear people’s views on this. Thanks. I would say set up a single female profile and do not state that you are part of a couple on it. Do however state that you are only interested in females who are happy with meeting alone. Keep it simple to avoid couples asking you to meet them with your partner. Once they know you got a partner, they will default to asking for a couples meet. The single profile is your adventure which your partner has visibility of and nothing more. He should also not be messaging on that profile
I wouldn't ever suggest lying on a profile or pretending to be single. As a single woman if I were looking for a lady to meet 1/1 it makes no difference if she is married. Esp if the couples profile Is mentioned. God the fellas on here would get a bashing for that. "
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Hello I’m definitely not saying lie or pretend. It will come up in conversation naturally. My suggestion is to merely keep the profile very focused and minimise the chances of getting couples constantly asking you to meet them with your partner |
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"So, we’re excited about the prospect of meeting again, and having shared our fantasies throughout lockdown I (Mrs N) have decided that I’d like to meet single females alone.
The question is, should I set up a single profile for this, or approach single females through our couples account. My concern is that women will think we want to meet as a couple if I contact through this account, but I will be an unverified single account should I set a new one up. I’d love to hear people’s views on this. Thanks. I would say set up a single female profile and do not state that you are part of a couple on it. Do however state that you are only interested in females who are happy with meeting alone. Keep it simple to avoid couples asking you to meet them with your partner. Once they know you got a partner, they will default to asking for a couples meet. The single profile is your adventure which your partner has visibility of and nothing more. He should also not be messaging on that profile
I wouldn't ever suggest lying on a profile or pretending to be single. As a single woman if I were looking for a lady to meet 1/1 it makes no difference if she is married. Esp if the couples profile Is mentioned. God the fellas on here would get a bashing for that. .
Hello I’m definitely not saying lie or pretend. It will come up in conversation naturally. My suggestion is to merely keep the profile very focused and minimise the chances of getting couples constantly asking you to meet them with your partner "
Or just block couples from messaging/not reply. Tjere are many many many single profiles on here who say they part of a couple amd state their couples profile.. and the other way round..plus if they have a couples profile amd say so then surly people would check that out and message thro there? |
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"So, we’re excited about the prospect of meeting again, and having shared our fantasies throughout lockdown I (Mrs N) have decided that I’d like to meet single females alone.
The question is, should I set up a single profile for this, or approach single females through our couples account. My concern is that women will think we want to meet as a couple if I contact through this account, but I will be an unverified single account should I set a new one up. I’d love to hear people’s views on this. Thanks. I would say set up a single female profile and do not state that you are part of a couple on it. Do however state that you are only interested in females who are happy with meeting alone. Keep it simple to avoid couples asking you to meet them with your partner. Once they know you got a partner, they will default to asking for a couples meet. The single profile is your adventure which your partner has visibility of and nothing more. He should also not be messaging on that profile
I wouldn't ever suggest lying on a profile or pretending to be single. As a single woman if I were looking for a lady to meet 1/1 it makes no difference if she is married. Esp if the couples profile Is mentioned. God the fellas on here would get a bashing for that. .
Hello I’m definitely not saying lie or pretend. It will come up in conversation naturally. My suggestion is to merely keep the profile very focused and minimise the chances of getting couples constantly asking you to meet them with your partner
Or just block couples from messaging/not reply. Tjere are many many many single profiles on here who say they part of a couple amd state their couples profile.. and the other way round..plus if they have a couples profile amd say so then surly people would check that out and message thro there? "
Yeah this could work also lol. Alternatively start your profile text saying “Only interested in meeting single females or the female half of the couple alone” |
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