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Older men and young women vs older woman and younger man
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I’ve always wondered, is there a bit of a double standard when it comes to age gaps in both swinging and relationship terms?
It seems as if younger men and older women getting together seems to be frowned upon or people are fully against it whereas in comparison to when the genders are reversed (older man, younger woman) nobody really bats an eyelid.
I’m not here to rant, rave or whinge, everyone has their preferences and reasons for those. I’m just curious to hear people’s thoughts on whether this is the case or not |
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"I’ve always wondered, is there a bit of a double standard when it comes to age gaps in both swinging and relationship terms?
It seems as if younger men and older women getting together seems to be frowned upon or people are fully against it whereas in comparison to when the genders are reversed (older man, younger woman) nobody really bats an eyelid.
I’m not here to rant, rave or whinge, everyone has their preferences and reasons for those. I’m just curious to hear people’s thoughts on whether this is the case or not "
I've never seen it like that.. |
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Thanks for both commenting... I didn’t think so either just wondered why more so these days there seems to be more older men getting with younger women as opposed to the opposite...
Maybe this is just how it’s always been, maybe a woman of a certain age feels a younger man cannot offer what she needs emotionally, financially and whatever other qualities older men possess that some of us young ones maybe cannot offer |
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I think there's definitely some double standards at play, I've heard this sort of thing said several times:
Older guy = good for his age
Older woman = must be desperate |
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My personal opinion is that people have an equally bad but different view of both *if they have a bad view of it*.
Older man and very young woman, he's manipulating her, she's a gold digger.
Older woman, younger man, he's just fucking her until a woman his own age comes along, she's desperately hanging on to her youth.
Nobody wins except the couples quietly enjoying each others company regardless of respective ages
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"My personal opinion is that people have an equally bad but different view of both *if they have a bad view of it*.
Older man and very young woman, he's manipulating her, she's a gold digger.
Older woman, younger man, he's just fucking her until a woman his own age comes along, she's desperately hanging on to her youth.
Nobody wins except the couples quietly enjoying each others company regardless of respective ages
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Summed it up perfectly!!! |
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I do prefer younger guys. I don't purposely seek them out but I always find that's where it goes lol Did use to even cringe internally at myself but then thought.. if anyone else were telling me they liked younger guys and having the sexy time I'd be telling them to go for it if that's what you want amd have fun...so took my own advice in the end.. lmao |
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I love a younger guy, I'm just drawn to them for some reason. Have met several over the years I've been on and off Fab and each time I return, I end up catching up with them again. Can't help what you like I guess.... |
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Men and women (I am generalising here) reach their sexual peak at different times. I think that sometimes this may have a part to play in the age gap scenario. Stamina v experience. Confidence v enthusiasm. Knowledge v physical strength.
I personally endeavour to take each play partner on their own merits. But I am somewhat drawn to a young innocent, ripped, laughing, giddy young buck. . . . |
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