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What got you into swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As the subject says what go you into swinging
For me it was when I had a would dirty dancing up on me in a night club when I was in my early 20's having a good feel of what I had than having her husband come ask me if I wanted to fuck her as he watched in they hotel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Watching the guys openly flirt with the wife on holiday and seeing her reaction and how it transformed our sex life as she opened up about what she honestly wanted .....
Biting her lip as she thought about being had by other men and couples at a club.
Realising we both wanted the same thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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C wanted to go to a gay bar to find a girl. I suggested I'd come too but separately just to make sure she was safe.
The day before we went she said she had found a swingers club that did bi nights. That was Chameleons and we've never looked back. |
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When I was 20, an older client telling me how he could no longer keep up with his wife's demands and that she wanted to take me on me as a lover.... Started with just me fucking her, eventually ended up with me living with them, enjoying full bi 3sums 
Never looked back since  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t say I’m into swinging as such. I love sex, love discovering new people, and love anything a bit naughty.
I found a website back when I was at uni in 2003 with women and couples looking for sex with no real commitment. That weekend, I met a pair of fuck buddies from it and so it began. |
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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago
Bergerac, France |
Just a few days after we met, Becky told me about some of the other guys she was seeing. She’d just come out of a sexless long term relationship and was making up for lost time..!
Started sharing the details which led us onto into threesomes and moresomes...
And 20 years later, here we are.. |
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"Seeing my then GF sucking a guys cock without either of them knowing I was watching.
Found it so horny & so did she when I told her. That was 32 years ago. "
I'm curious, had you given consent for it or was it essentially cheating? |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Seeing my then GF sucking a guys cock without either of them knowing I was watching.
Found it so horny & so did she when I told her. That was 32 years ago.
I'm curious, had you given consent for it or was it essentially cheating? "
at that point it was cheating, but we were both young and not in that sort of relationship. |
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"Seeing my then GF sucking a guys cock without either of them knowing I was watching.
Found it so horny & so did she when I told her. That was 32 years ago.
I'm curious, had you given consent for it or was it essentially cheating? at that point it was cheating, but we were both young and not in that sort of relationship. "
Fair enough. I don't know if I could ever reconcile with someone after cheating? Feel like if you let it slide once, it's easy to normalise it. |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Seeing my then GF sucking a guys cock without either of them knowing I was watching.
Found it so horny & so did she when I told her. That was 32 years ago.
I'm curious, had you given consent for it or was it essentially cheating? at that point it was cheating, but we were both young and not in that sort of relationship.
Fair enough. I don't know if I could ever reconcile with someone after cheating? Feel like if you let it slide once, it's easy to normalise it. "
i told her in the drive home what I’d seen. Think she was expecting a row. When I told her how it made me feel, she sucked me hard and fucked me in the car on the side of the road. Never hid anything fir each other after and had 2 great tears together exploring |
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By *ickv1Man
over a year ago
Chatham |
An ex gf inviting me to fuck her with her bf after a night out. I turned her request down and then listening to them fuck and wish I said yes.
Also hearing in detail from a girl I was chatting to how much she enjoyed 2 men at once. |
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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
My husband used fab to cheat on me. I offered to join him to save our shit marriage, he refused and kept cheating.
He is now my ex husband and I've had way more fun than he could ever dream of and he stalks my account to wank over. |
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"My husband used fab to cheat on me. I offered to join him to save our shit marriage, he refused and kept cheating.
He is now my ex husband and I've had way more fun than he could ever dream of and he stalks my account to wank over. "
LOVE!! |
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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago
West London |
It’s all started with watching too much porn I guess .. we then started talking about previous relationships and the sex .. slowly started with role play of ex in the bed ( ie turning into ex in the bed).. which led to inviting another guy and visiting swingers clubs and never looked back after.. |
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I was approaching my 40th birthday & realised that the sex I’d had in previous relationships had never fulfilled me and I felt curious about trying so many different scenarios including playing with women. I matched with a younger guy on a normal dating app, told him about my curiosity, he then told me about Fab. I ended up meeting another fella off Fab & we had a blast together & individually for 3 years, exploring lots  |
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"My husband used fab to cheat on me. I offered to join him to save our shit marriage, he refused and kept cheating.
He is now my ex husband and I've had way more fun than he could ever dream of and he stalks my account to wank over. "
I wonder how many other women have experienced that too - glad you’re having a lot of fun now |
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"A horny husband, a very handsome spanish club (with handsome spanish men) and a realisation that in my 40s it was now or never ... have not looked back. x Anne "
Oo! Where in Spain were you? I’ve checked Fab when I’ve been in the past few years & never saw many Fab profiles so maybe they just go clandestinely to clubs more x |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"A horny husband, a very handsome spanish club (with handsome spanish men) and a realisation that in my 40s it was now or never ... have not looked back. x Anne
Oo! Where in Spain were you? I’ve checked Fab when I’ve been in the past few years & never saw many Fab profiles so maybe they just go clandestinely to clubs more x"
We play at Cap Madrid Club in Prosperidad Madrid (think zone 1/2). Our story about the start of our swinging is available on Fab stories section - search Anne's hotwife journey |
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"A horny husband, a very handsome spanish club (with handsome spanish men) and a realisation that in my 40s it was now or never ... have not looked back. x Anne
Oo! Where in Spain were you? I’ve checked Fab when I’ve been in the past few years & never saw many Fab profiles so maybe they just go clandestinely to clubs more x We play at Cap Madrid Club in Prosperidad Madrid (think zone 1/2). Our story about the start of our swinging is available on Fab stories section - search Anne's hotwife journey"
Thanks for that, I’ll have a peek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we met and eventually married we had only been with each other. My husband had told me that if I ever wanted to sleep with another man that I could. We used is as a fantasy when having sex. I never planned to do so but I did end up sleeping with another. I wrote a full account of that only the other day
If you like a longer read and want the details you can read it here. That is how it all started for me.
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1150987 |
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Communication and openness from the get go. Understanding that my partner had a serious thing for bi women and embracing it. It’s been a long for filling journey for us. We took baby steps at first and didn’t push anything. Trust is key and we have always made sure that each other are completely comfortable with any new situation, experience or scenario that has crossed our paths. |
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I have always been genuinely fully bi, so swinging was a way that I could fulfill her needs, wants and desires. I also play with other guys too. Mr is more than happy to indulge in this lifestyle alongside me.
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My wife came home from a works party and asked why I was so horny. I said when you look so good with your rack on shoe I imagine all the guys wanting to hit on you.
She said would you want to know if anyone propositioned me?
(She’s very anti-cheating)
I said yes it turns me on...
She said two fit PE Teachers whispered in her ear at separate times that they “would if they could” and plainly wanted to fuck her. She declined.
We then had sex all night fir 5/6 hours while she called me by their names.
Afterwards we thought that was the best sex we’ve had.
I said what if you could do it for real?
With No guilt.
We talked for over a year about meeting then joined fab.
We agreed strangers only.
The eve and I have had threesomes with some exceptionally fit men who made my wife feel like a pornstar and 10 years younger, they adore her boobs and body.
It has benefitted our sex life.
Honesty and communication is the key.
It’s your fantasy life and it’s private.
Agreed? |
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By *reasyMan
over a year ago
Caerphilly |
I started after I found my ex was being tucked by another guy I hated her for cheating but wanked so much thinking about her being fucked. We split and a little later I started to wonder if there were couples who shared and invited extra guys to join them that was 1999 I’ve played ever since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was separated from my wife and came on here for a FB to make up for the years of limited sex. Ended up going to a club with my FB and it went from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my first 4 some when I was 16. At the age of 21 in the early 90's I became a male stripper and was on the circuit just over 5 years. I met some wonderful people and had my fair share of 3 somes with the ladies. Then about 11 years ago I went to my first swinging club. I only went the once and met a lovely couple who I'm still friends with to this day. They are no longer on the scene but love to hear about my fab antics. Fast forward a few years and I'm very much involved in the scene and have met some wonderful people on my fab journey. Loving every minute of it now . Can't wait to get back to the club's when they are back open |
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Going to a bar at 18 and immediately being approached and asked to go home with a 48 year old bbw.
We went to her place, and an hour later went back to the bar because she wanted to try and fuck three men that night.
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