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I’m changing mine ..
I limited how old or young I was looking for ..
But I’ve relieved, age doesn’t matter ..
I could miss out getting to know amazing people through age discrimination..
I do well on here anyway.. but time to change my way of thinking.. |
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"I don't care what age someone is on a social level, people are people but sexually I'm quite happy to stick within a range that I'm comfortable with"
Perhaps we should have 2 age preference, 1 for social engagement and the other for sexual  |
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"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me! 
Me too now ..
It’s about the person.."
Yup same. I just don’t see the logic in having age ranges.
Idiots of all ages on here and the whole maturity thing really is rubbish! Lol.
If you get on and like the same things sexually does it matter if they are 30 and you didn’t wanna meet over 25?
I just don’t understand it lol... I appreciate if you have adult kids though it can be strange! X |
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"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me!
Me too now ..
It’s about the person..
Yup same. I just don’t see the logic in having age ranges.
Idiots of all ages on here and the whole maturity thing really is rubbish! Lol.
If you get on and like the same things sexually does it matter if they are 30 and you didn’t wanna meet over 25?
I just don’t understand it lol... I appreciate if you have adult kids though it can be strange! X"
I never went younger..
Thought that younger people just lacked the experience and confidence.
I’m obviously very wrong  |
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"Yup, age is definitely irrelevant to me!
Me too now ..
It’s about the person..
Yup same. I just don’t see the logic in having age ranges.
Idiots of all ages on here and the whole maturity thing really is rubbish! Lol.
If you get on and like the same things sexually does it matter if they are 30 and you didn’t wanna meet over 25?
I just don’t understand it lol... I appreciate if you have adult kids though it can be strange! X
I never went younger..
Thought that younger people just lacked the experience and confidence.
I’m obviously very wrong "
Glad you’ve realised that lol!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In life it's always about the person and I have freinds/clients/family of every age imaginable
But for sex, then yes it does matter to me ... I have adult children and just don't find their age and younger sexually attractive! I've always preferred guys younger than me but on here actually found guys older than me to be the most entitled and rude to be honest so I'm definitely sticking with my age preferences.
Why parties/organised socials/clubs are an excellent way to meet all ages as it's face to face! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j 
But putting age preferences limits the people who can message or possibly meet you .."
Preferences stop no one messaging. Filters do.
We are highly unlikely to meet on site anyway. We prefer socials and clubs so we can chat face to face and Base our interest on that
J |
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"Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j
But putting age preferences limits the people who can message or possibly meet you ..
Preferences stop no one messaging. Filters do.
We are highly unlikely to meet on site anyway. We prefer socials and clubs so we can chat face to face and Base our interest on that
J "
I think that is definitely the way forward, alas I don’t like going to clubs as a single guy .. too many idiots have got us all a bad name unfortunately.. |
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"I don't care what age someone is on a social level, people are people but sexually I'm quite happy to stick within a range that I'm comfortable with
Perhaps we should have 2 age preference, 1 for social engagement and the other for sexual "
It's an idea but experience tells me that very few people use this site to meet purely socially |
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We all make choices based on our preferences. We have friends both a lot older and younger than us but that doesn't mean we'd want to have fun with people in their age range.
It all comes down to what you want out of this and part of that is often physically based even though age and physical appearance doesn't necessarily detract from sexual performance.
I imagine there's quite a few guys here who'd happily sleep with very elderly women but I doubt they have many in their close circle of friends. Isn't that just their choice from a different angle? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our set preferences are more of a guideline. They aren’t ridged. We fancy whomever we fancy.j
But putting age preferences limits the people who can message or possibly meet you .."
Only if they set mail filters.
Age range on my profile means nothing as I don't have any mail filters on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not a fan of younger... There is the odd exception to the rule when I have met somone a bit younger than myself but mostly I don't like the idea of it and I hate terms like toy boy.... Not my thing |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I prefer people around my own age. My age filters are not set in stone but they are on to stop getting a load of messages as are a lot of the other filters.
If I like someone outside my age range I'll make first contact. In saying that I won't go a lot younger tho that is just my personal preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As lover of younger men, my age limit is set as I don’t tend to find older men attractive sexually in the same way I do a younger guy.
However I have on numerous occasion got fed up with the attitude of a younger guys but just can’t help who I’m sexually attracted too |
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By *enksMan
over a year ago
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A really difficult one, for a partner I would be looking for someone within probably 10 years of my age, for swinging that range is extended and its more about the mind/attitude I like a mature attitude and have had great experiences with people from 25 to 65. Can be frustrating being one year outside of what appears to be a great match |
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I have no interest in anyone within 10 years of my kids ages so 38 and above only.
I don't engage in the forums with anyone outside my age limits either because from experience that engagement is misinterpreted as a willingness to meet. |
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