I'm not so sure. The hotlist feature is for people's own private use; who I choose to add is not really anyone else's business. If the change was made, I guarantee it wouldn't be 5 minutes before womens' profiles started saying things like "DON'T hotlist me without asking first"!
Women may also worry that they would be bombarded with messages from guys they'd chosen to add to their list.
Also, I believe some people also use their hotlist for the opposite purpose to which it is intended - a sort of "God no" list, in which case you might not want to know that you were on it! You couldn't draw any inferences unless you knew how the list was being used anyway. |
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"Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me. "
Maybe not to see who it is but just to be notified that you have been added to someone hotlist ?  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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No, it wouldn't.
A. I wouldn't be on any.
B. I have only one or two on mine. People I intend to message, rather than for any other reason.
Would rather message than do something that really has little value to me. |
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"Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me.
Luna was saying this to me yesterday.
Mr H."
We've hotlisted you  xx |
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"Would it not be great if you could see who has hot listed you ? I’m so curious to see who might have hot listed me.
Luna was saying this to me yesterday.
Mr H.
We've hotlisted you xx"
Behave you'll make us blush  x
Mr H & Luna. |
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U can kinda know who has u on hotlist as as soon as I've updated status or come online I get messages on kik etc commenting on what I've put I have only 2 on my hotlist one i am hoping to meet after june and the other i would avoid meeting completely x |
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Haha love the hotlist feature its like having followers without knowing lol
I imagine am on more single mens hotlists than womens as I get the same guys fabbing all my pics to get my attention, like am gunna be like James201 you liked the same pic 15 times come suck my cock haha |
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Equally, a notlist would be interesting 
