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I'm finding myself more attracted to exploring my bi side but don't want to change my profile from straight to bi until I've seen whether its something I want to pursue.
This leads to problems as bi couples and guys won't chat as it says I'm straight and straight couples won't talk to bi guys.
I've only had one bi encounter where I was sucked a little, sucked another guy a little and then topped him.
I do want to try both top and bottom and maybe group fun eventually. A bi couple might be a good start.
Any advice about how I go about this and find encounters would be much appreciated. |
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Speaking as the male half of a bi couple I would recommend you change your profile to bi-curious as personally we have a tendency to just roll our eyes and delete messages from straight profiles professing to be bi.
Maybe we are a little hasty doing this but experience has thought us that doing anything other is nothing more than a waste of our time, due to the amount of dreamers that use it as a ploy to get to play with luna.
Hope this is helpful to you and good luck in all your future experiences.
Mr H. |
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"Speaking as the male half of a bi couple I would recommend you change your profile to bi-curious as personally we have a tendency to just roll our eyes and delete messages from straight profiles professing to be bi.
Maybe we are a little hasty doing this but experience has thought us that doing anything other is nothing more than a waste of our time, due to the amount of dreamers that use it as a ploy to get to play with luna.
Hope this is helpful to you and good luck in all your future experiences.
Mr H."
We mostly operate like this too. There have been a few exceptions in terms of who we talk to, but generally steer clear of straight chaps, for now. |
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"Speaking as the male half of a bi couple I would recommend you change your profile to bi-curious as personally we have a tendency to just roll our eyes and delete messages from straight profiles professing to be bi.
Maybe we are a little hasty doing this but experience has thought us that doing anything other is nothing more than a waste of our time, due to the amount of dreamers that use it as a ploy to get to play with luna.
Hope this is helpful to you and good luck in all your future experiences.
Mr H.
We mostly operate like this too. There have been a few exceptions in terms of who we talk to, but generally steer clear of straight chaps, for now. "
Sadly it's the typical few idiots that spoil it and make it hard work for genuine people who want to explore.
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I would state that you are bi curious and copy your paragraph into your bio . Stuff the bi-phobic people
If along the line you decide it’s not for you , you can revert to the straight status .
I did just that.
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Once clubs reopen I’d advise you to go to a club on a bi night. It’ll give others a chance to get meet you and hopefully you’ll find someone to play with. I would be honest with them about your experience as it’ll make the meet more enjoyable for you both. |
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