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"Husband of the wives that I've had sex always seem to be full of pride, knowing that someone else finds the person they love sexy and wants them. I have some much respect for these men." | |||
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"Husband of the wives that I've had sex always seem to be full of pride, knowing that someone else finds the person they love sexy and wants them. I have some much respect for these men." always wondered this myself about to find out I suppose x | |||
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"Total respect takes a true man to share in our eyes" I total agree with this | |||
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"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" Respect and admiration for the both of you. | |||
"Isn't it the same for wives who share husbands? " I think you are quite right. Although some people seem to think that wives are controlled and made to take part to please their husbands. Thankfully those I have met have not been like that | |||
"Husband of the wives that I've had sex always seem to be full of pride, knowing that someone else finds the person they love sexy and wants them. I have some much respect for these men. always wondered this myself about to find out I suppose x" | |||
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"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality. " Yes in my opinion definitely not 'allow' and somewhat not 'share' a partner but definitely a share experience | |||
"Don't even consider what they think of you or your wife. What you two think of each other is all that matters. On here you will overwhelmingly get "respect". Some will be genuine, others will, unfortunately, just be hoping to get into your wife's pants. Keep fabbing, stop wondering."  | |||
"In my opinion and experience both as a single guy and one with a partner they simply don't understand. When I was a single guy and into the so called life style I met lots of couples and single wimen, being invited to lots of private party's as well as holding them myself too. Speaking to lots of single guys they were always of the opinion that the men were a bit sad and could never imagine doing the same if they were in a relationship. I feel that this arrives from the fact that they simply don't understand the denamicks of it all beings as they are in fact single themselves so don't have any emotional ties to anyone. It's a well known fact that most single guys will say anything to get the chance to fuck another man's partner but will never fully understand what it's like for a guy to watch his partner play with another man or men. Only when you have a partner can you fully understand how it feels so there views are based purely on ignorance. This is just my own point of view and based on personal experience. A few guys may well think it's great but they tend to be the ones that would be wishing they themselves had a partner of there own and feel that they would enjoy watching themselves.!!!!! " | |||
"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality. Yes in my opinion definitely not 'allow' and somewhat not 'share' a partner but definitely a share experience " Yes! A shared experience. If you understand that, you've got it. | |||
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"I think most couples who share have a very solid relationship & it does not matter too much what others think about them " You got that right  .
We've chatted with guys who tell us very proudly that they would never swing in a relationship (which of course is their choice) then expect us to meet them | |||
"I've tried not to say this but I can't help myself. Why are men congratulating each other because women are having sex?" we would be giving each other high fives but it's hard via a app | |||
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"I've tried not to say this but I can't help myself. Why are men congratulating each other because women are having sex? we would be giving each other high fives but it's hard via a app " I can't tell if you're serious  | |||
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"Total respect takes a true man to share in our eyes" Are men that don't enjoy sharing not true men too? | |||
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"This is a really nice thread. " | |||
"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" I’m not a huge fan of MFM but I’ve been in many situations where it’s me and the wife whilst the husband watched. I always remember the first time it happened. He was a big guy and I was terrified that he was going to beat me for fucking his wife. I was so naive and vanilla that after putting the condom and climbing on top of her, I asked him if he was joining in. They both laughed and told me she was all mine. He liked to watch. Afterwards, they loved how I tried to involve him. We still speak to this day. So in conclusion: I’d never look at you thinking you was a prick, I’d be grateful that you was willing to share her with others. | |||
"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" I have nothing but respect for the husband’s of the couples I’ve played with.... He is letting me enjoy the most important thing in his life.... His wife and mother of his children.... I never question his motives nor do I try to understand his mindset.... I just enjoy the time we have together...... | |||
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"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" Frankly it would be an overwhelming offer and experience that a couple were willing and comfortable with doing this but also deserve the respect that goes with it. | |||
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"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" I really wondered where the post was going when it referred to fathers !!!! However I think the answer lies somewhere in between. In a pub or workplace full of non swingers, the guys would probably think of you as weak. In the world of swinging then no doubt swingers would appreciate your wife and both of your open minded approaches. Certainly I would not think you were a prick for letting your wife get a facial. X | |||
"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" I'm sorry my good man. I'm going to agree with your wife on this. I fully respect and understand why you like to share your lady. I used to be the same with an ex of mine. You enjoy it, so why not do it. | |||
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"What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount... It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys. I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol. Loving the community spirit tho!" | |||
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"What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount... It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys. I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol. Loving the community spirit tho!" | |||
"I tend to agree... What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount... It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys. I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol. Loving the community spirit tho!" This is a swingers site ... when couples play together the vast majority on this site I would guess, a guy will watch his wife with another guy... I would be amazed if many guys ,singles or as part of couples thought badly about someone sharing their wife In fact it would be pretty illogical being on here if you had that view I think... | |||
"I tend to agree... What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount... It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys. I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol. Loving the community spirit tho! This is a swingers site ... when couples play together the vast majority on this site I would guess, a guy will watch his wife with another guy... I would be amazed if many guys ,singles or as part of couples thought badly about someone sharing their wife In fact it would be pretty illogical being on here if you had that view I think..." the question was directed at single guys not couples as they were asking what single guys think of the male half of a couple in a mmf thresome!!! | |||
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"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality. " Couldn’t have said it better myself. Thank-you. Vixen x | |||
"I tend to agree... What is interesting is the private messages we've received on this topic which does suggest quite a different view on this topic...however I do agree that our opinions, enjoyment and shared experiences is what's paramount... It does strike me as being a little biased and predicable in the responce from single guys. I don't think for one minute that any single guy would have the balls to say that they think bad of any guy that likes to watch his partner play with other men as this would be classed as fab suiside and put any potenshal couples off from ever wanting to meet them, lol. Loving the community spirit tho! This is a swingers site ... when couples play together the vast majority on this site I would guess, a guy will watch his wife with another guy... I would be amazed if many guys ,singles or as part of couples thought badly about someone sharing their wife In fact it would be pretty illogical being on here if you had that view I think... the question was directed at single guys not couples as they were asking what single guys think of the male half of a couple in a mmf thresome!!! " I know but I'm just making the point it's all about sharing..and if any guys think negatively about that then it doesn't make sense as the purpose of the site is for the most part about sharing | |||
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" My idea of a fantasy woman is an insatiable whore who spends all day on her back with her legs spread taking cock after cock while I’m at work. In my fantasy she has 10+ men a day and then me in the evening." Take it she doesn't have a job? | |||
"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" You love it and the wife does so thats all that matters. I respect every individual in life so should everyone else | |||
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"Frankly speaking we give a shit about what other men think and we are in this to fulfil our desires and pleasures .. however I must admit few jerks who we refused to accept their friend’s invite or chat or meet - have been very harsh with their messages to us saying that I am not a man enough hence my mrs wants to fuck other men ( funny thing is those guys who called me “ that I am not man enough” - have smaller willies than me and I am sure would have fucked fewer women in their whole life than I get to fuck in a year).. " Well posted, except for your definition of a man. It has no correlation to the size of his cock and the number of women he has fucked. There are more important aspects than those. | |||
" My idea of a fantasy woman is an insatiable whore who spends all day on her back with her legs spread taking cock after cock while I’m at work. In my fantasy she has 10+ men a day and then me in the evening. Take it she doesn't have a job?" That was my FANTASY woman, not my actual one unfortunately! | |||
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"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach " Really admire your frank honesty buddy... | |||
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"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach " I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again | |||
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"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again " Someone said above, if they have a negative view, why not be big enough to post it on the forum instead of PM the OP. There's your answer, any guy who posted a negative view in public, would immediately be blocked by I'm guessing nearly every couple on here, FAB suicide. It was actually a great question, but unfortunately, never going to get honest responses in public. | |||
"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again Someone said above, if they have a negative view, why not be big enough to post it on the forum instead of PM the OP. There's your answer, any guy who posted a negative view in public, would immediately be blocked by I'm guessing nearly every couple on here, FAB suicide. It was actually a great question, but unfortunately, never going to get honest responses in public. " I tend to agree. I also think most of the responses on this thread show that men *still* think it's about them rather than it being a joint or shared experience. | |||
"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach I don't think you'll need to worry about beating some guy's mrs with your cock again Someone said above, if they have a negative view, why not be big enough to post it on the forum instead of PM the OP. There's your answer, any guy who posted a negative view in public, would immediately be blocked by I'm guessing nearly every couple on here, FAB suicide. It was actually a great question, but unfortunately, never going to get honest responses in public. " There are probably more tactful ways of expressing something that's not for someone | |||
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"Never understand what a guy gets from seeing me beat his Mrs with my cock. To watch him clean up my mess made me sick in my stomach " You don’t need to understand - you are not any more worthy than a Dildo .. couples use the Dildo’s for their own pleasure and neither they care about how a dildo feels about it ... so next time don’t try meeting a couple of you can’t understand why a man likes to watch his wife get fucked by other men. Perhaps the couple you met is conveying to you that she belongs to him and you are nothing more than a dildo to be used for her and his pleasure only . | |||
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"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality. " Interesting thought we play with both couples and singles we have always considered this as sharing our partners. Whether that is the female sharing the male or visa versa not a matter if ownership more a case of allowing others to enjoy our partnership. Interested to what you call it and why. | |||
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"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality. Interesting thought we play with both couples and singles we have always considered this as sharing our partners. Whether that is the female sharing the male or visa versa not a matter if ownership more a case of allowing others to enjoy our partnership. Interested to what you call it and why." Unfortunately, discussion type threads are discouraged on here because of the easily offended. I'm happy to share my wife and she's happy to share me, there is no ownership there, quite the opposite | |||
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" My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" Too many guys too narrow minded and "macho" of them believe "how could you share your wife" you can't be a man. Complete opposite takes trust and confidence to share your wife. Something we both have. | |||
"I think the use of the words "share" and "allow" denote ownership. We don't think of each other in this way but know others do and I think their perceptions of the men in swinging couples stems from the assumption that men somehow own their partner's sexuality. Interesting thought we play with both couples and singles we have always considered this as sharing our partners. Whether that is the female sharing the male or visa versa not a matter if ownership more a case of allowing others to enjoy our partnership. Interested to what you call it and why." I think my opinions are formed mainly from the number of people who talk about men happy to share their wives rather than couples, three or four people sharing an experience. To me (and I stress this is a personal opinion) you can't share a person but people can share an experience. We don't actually call it anything | |||
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"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" Sorry to say it but your wife is right.... the trust between you two is great, the sex is fun, and should be enjoyed. We arent a cuck couple just a couple that enjoy having fun with others.... | |||
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"Let’s be honest no single male is going to put ‘ I think of you guys that share wives of gf as total losers’ are they? They will say anything to get a chance. " Beginning to think this is fairly accurate...a shame but accurate... | |||
"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" Have a great time with people sharing and understanding your interest, and just don't care about whatever the others think. | |||
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"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!! I’m not a huge fan of MFM but I’ve been in many situations where it’s me and the wife whilst the husband watched. I always remember the first time it happened. He was a big guy and I was terrified that he was going to beat me for fucking his wife. I was so naive and vanilla that after putting the condom and climbing on top of her, I asked him if he was joining in. They both laughed and told me she was all mine. He liked to watch. Afterwards, they loved how I tried to involve him. We still speak to this day. So in conclusion: I’d never look at you thinking you was a prick, I’d be grateful that you was willing to share her with others. " Hahaha although I think really you fancied a bit of the big guy  | |||
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"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" I think you have to be confident and sexually secure to be willing to share your wife with other guys so I have a lot of respect. | |||
"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!! I’m not a huge fan of MFM but I’ve been in many situations where it’s me and the wife whilst the husband watched. I always remember the first time it happened. He was a big guy and I was terrified that he was going to beat me for fucking his wife. I was so naive and vanilla that after putting the condom and climbing on top of her, I asked him if he was joining in. They both laughed and told me she was all mine. He liked to watch. Afterwards, they loved how I tried to involve him. We still speak to this day. So in conclusion: I’d never look at you thinking you was a prick, I’d be grateful that you was willing to share her with others. Hahaha although I think really you fancied a bit of the big guy "Yes, I fancied seeing him wait on me hand and foot if that’s what you meant. | |||
" My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)..." I'm sure some guys do think like that but they usually can't help making it obvious and I'm just as sure most couples avoid them like the plague. You see it on here all the time. They post things like "I'd never share any woman I was involved with" and things like that. I'm also sure that a lot of guys don't think like that and they are the ones we look for. Attitude is the the thing we look for above looks etc. | |||
" My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)... I'm sure some guys do think like that but they usually can't help making it obvious and I'm just as sure most couples avoid them like the plague. You see it on here all the time. They post things like "I'd never share any woman I was involved with" and things like that. I'm also sure that a lot of guys don't think like that and they are the ones we look for. Attitude is the the thing we look for above looks etc." Agree with this 100%. Probably the kind of guys that “think” they are a bull. | |||
"Hullo fellow Father's...My wife and I were discussing how the guys we've met might think about us following our fun...or more specifically how they'd think about me. My opinion is that they'd more than likely consider me a little bit of a prick for allowing another guy to enjoy my wife and cum in her face right in front of me (something that sits quite well with me)...however, my wife's opinion was totally the opposite and that the guys would actually respect me for doing this. Anyone got an opinion to maybe settle this argument!!" Let this be solely a link, each to their own. It's not for everyone, the Kinksters would appreciate | |||
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"We have a very strong bond and marriage - fucking and being pleasured in front of him by others (one or group) is part of our eroticism. He joins in when either of us wants this ... otherwise he is the viewer and the person who reclaims me at the end of the session. x Anne " completely agree,x | |||
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