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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx |
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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago
Newcastle-under-Lyme |
"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx"
I think it’s been quite fluid for me. I’ve
been married twice. First time to a man
Second and most recently to a
Female. Now I’m single I’m just seeing how things go. I’m definitely attracted to men and women but at the moment I’m
Just actively looking for men but that’s not to say I wouldn’t go with a woman if there was a mutual attraction and connection. For me, at the moment it’s more about that than gender.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty much equal I could enjoy the company of a single woman or a single guy with ease specially if having some very kinky fun. Again even in a mmf setting I try to attend to both in equal amounts......think I'm just greedy haha |
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In a heterosexual relationship my other self generally gets put to one side. So does the bi side of me as well. I will still attend Sparkle (Trans celebration in Manchester) or other events that are about being able to dress in a safe area but have no sex side to the event.
I know I’m more attracted to women than men, I enjoy being a family man and being romantically involved with a woman. So I know the minute I’m in another relationship I will leave the site as long as the relationship lasts. It’s only, like now that I’m single, do I express my feminine persona and indulge in fantasy and experimentation.
I am currently talking to a woman and something of a relationship has started to grow between us. Due to the Pandemic we’ve only met once for a coffee but there’s an obvious attraction between us. If it progresses I will most likely leave all of this behind me as I did in my marriage, just occasionally go out and about as Steph and happily settle in to my new life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like to say 50/50 but am probably more straight purely because I am very picky and won’t fuck for the sake of it. I love a convincing TS but not as many men as I would like actually tick all my boxes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I swing more on the side of straight. I find women so incredibly beautiful and sexy.
I think men can be very good looking but I’m not attracted to men however, I do like playing with a nice hard cock in the right setting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely in the middle, however I cannot do without cock so probably more straight.
I'm a sucker for beautiful women though and loveeee playing with a woman...
I probably look at more women than men when were out and about too.
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as a bisexual woman, im bang in the middle Px "
That's the best position to be in, in a threesome lol.
I'm more straight as I absolutely love women. Guys are my occasional bit of fun as I do like a nice cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt even know where to put myself tbh. I enjoy cock, but dont really find men as a whole that attractive. I prefer looking at women but then I dont know if I am attracted to them or just want to look like them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr: Im not attracted to men but am attracted to cock. Also, don't really care who is sucking my cock, as long as it's being sucked!
Mrs: I don't mind a little fiddle but it's cock that makes me happy.
M and N xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am probably 40/60 towards straight , I love playing with guys , but probably wouldn’t meet with one unless his wife / partner was there , whereas I will happily meet with a lady on her own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first sex was with an older man (I was 18 at the time) and I've always been open to either sex but haven't had the opportunity for many years until relatively recently. Now I really love cock, and the extra dimension of bi-sex in mmf 3somes. |
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Bang in the middle here. I’ve had relationships with both men and women. I find that if I’m with a woman I’m less submissive than with a man. I only play with one or the other at the same time because I think a couple would feel confusing, unless I was with someone else, but even then I’d probably stay to one sex or the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Predominantly a straight bloke who loves wearing female undies and having a wank with a guy but if I really had to choose - it would be pussy and tits all day long.
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I prefer to meet couples so I can enjoy the best of both worlds. Although I find women far more attractive than men I get a craving to suck cock if I haven’t had any for a while, but similarly if I’ve sucked a lot of cock then I crave pussy. Guess I’m just one horny greedy bastard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relationship wise definately women. Sexwise i am smack bang in the middle. But i will add sex with jenny is the most rewarding as we just have such a strong connection that Niether of us has experience with anyone else before. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx
I think it’s been quite fluid for me. I’ve
been married twice. First time to a man
Second and most recently to a
Female. Now I’m single I’m just seeing how things go. I’m definitely attracted to men and women but at the moment I’m
Just actively looking for men but that’s not to say I wouldn’t go with a woman if there was a mutual attraction and connection. For me, at the moment it’s more about that than gender.
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Above is correct in my humble view  |
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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago
the street of failed artists Liverpool |
"I wouldnt even know where to put myself tbh. I enjoy cock, but dont really find men as a whole that attractive. I prefer looking at women but then I dont know if I am attracted to them or just want to look like them "
This ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Her.. 20% bi..But 80% feeling male when I wield my strapon on hubbie.. he would identify as 50/50 and being a Crossdresser also he fits into other brackets between the genders probably..We make it work in our own little ways. |
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"Mr: Im not attracted to men but am attracted to cock. Also, don't really care who is sucking my cock, as long as it's being sucked!
Mrs: I don't mind a little fiddle but it's cock that makes me happy.
M and N xx"
Id have to say I am like the Mr. here.. I wish I started sucking earlier in life rather then 5 years ago.  |
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Totally depends on the individual or my current mood.
Predominantly if I’m in a particular rough/submissive mood I’ll fantasise about guys (although dominant women do it for me too) if I’m in a sensual teasing mood then women will be my go to (but then big rough hands gently caressing my skin )
Ugh I’m a mess I honestly don’t know, it changes from day to day ....actually probably hour to hour lol
Elle  xx |
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I'm unhappyily married. Sexless for the past 10+ years. So I go to bi dogging places and suck cocks. But not in the slightest bit interested in any sort of relationship with men. I suck cock, they spunk over my face, I film it. I go home . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx"
Definitely more gay  |
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"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx"
To be fair. Us men are ugly bastards at times, especially naked |
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I (Rocco) am definitely more attracted to women, but it’s undeniable that a nice cock is a thing to behold, plus I’m a big fan of giving sodomy I think for me ultimately the transgression side plays a big role - I find having sex with all genres liberating, and I very much detest labels/buckets.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry being lazy and jumping in straight at the end of the thread as the male half of the cpl I love sex with women but because that's what I get most I fantasise more about man on man or bi mmf encounters as its rarer if that makes sense |
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We are both Bi but we find despite what you see in the details of couples where the lady is listed as Bi when push comes to shove they are as straight as Heathrow runway
We would love to meet a mature couple with a confident lady who is genuinely Bi rather than having "cock bait" details on thier listing.
G&A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs loves playing with other woman although she doesnt consider herself bisexual because she wouldn't date another woman. She loves the sexual attraction/ play though & had for a long time fancied other women. At the moment though we role play her fucking another man so I'd say right now, if she had the choice of who to have fun with, it would be the Male. Tough choice though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm more straight but that is only because I've not had any bi experience yet, I'd love a mfm to start. I love bisexual porn and I know I enjoy a strap on but I really really love every part of the female body. |
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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago
Doncaster |
"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx"
Mrs prefers to play with women than men outside of us.
Mr is more for women too but has only started exploring recently. |
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"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx"
I'd say I'm more straight as I've not had many experiences with women and in my role I only really think of other men in scenarios but if I'm out and about I notice women on a regular basis but only once in a blue moon I've noticed men
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are both Bi but we find despite what you see in the details of couples where the lady is listed as Bi when push comes to shove they are as straight as Heathrow runway
We would love to meet a mature couple with a confident lady who is genuinely Bi rather than having "cock bait" details on thier listing.
G&A"
Shame you are far away as we are both fully bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Steve posting. Sex wise would say 60/40 in favour of women. Romantic wise 70/30 again in favour of women.
Would say Amie is similar but in favour of men."
Same percentages here. I would not have a relationship with a guy but sexwise i am up for pretty much anything with men and women. We are fully bi and not the fab bi
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I'm straight down the middle as with when I was with my partner, she liked to see me with men but was not attracted to women.
I'm happy to switch and be the sub or be the alpha (bull, shotgun or whatever you like to call it) in a cuckold couple. |
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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago
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"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Are others the same? Xx"
I know how you feel. I love playing with women and pleasuring them. But carve a cock to play with. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we have met with other couples (pre Covid) is say my playtime is split 60/40 in favour of the other female.
The longer we are in this lifestyle the stronger my desire becomes for them.
I have missed sexual contact with women so much.
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With me I used to watch bi porn but seem to watch more gay porn now, when I fantasise it’s more over gay sex, but when out I definitely look at women and not really into men when they are full dressed !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for most people its not one thing or the other. More like it changes over time, mood, desires. Thats very true of myself. Its always changing and morphing into different wants. Like a slow moving pendulum xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d say down the middle. I love men but do love the fee and touch of a woman. Lesbian porn is my go to
Yes I also watch lesbian porn a lot xx"
must admit that's how it is for me and usually I wank over gay porn and started doing things I never be Thought I would |
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I think the older we get the taboo of same sex play wears off (in my mind anyhow). I know there are alot of bi women out there from the clubs and partys I go too. I also found there are more ( alot more) curious guys out there. I was straight as an arrow till 5 years ago. Then a fwb wanted help with one of the guys we met for a mfm and the rest was history. I do enjoy giving oral to both sexs.. But only attracted to a nice cock on a nice guy.. If there are any couples or singles out there that need another experienced guy me a message. |
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"Would you say you're more straight or more gay, or bang in the middle?
I'm finding over time I'm definitely moving more towards the homosexual side. I love my husband and being fucked by men. But when I dream or fantasise, or seek out potential new partners I only think of women. I probably look at other women more than men while I'm out too.
I seem to have gone from slightly bi curious to preferring my own gender in a relatively short space of time.
Think I love cock more. I just love being fucked
Are others the same? Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think for most people its not one thing or the other. More like it changes over time, mood, desires. Thats very true of myself. Its always changing and morphing into different wants. Like a slow moving pendulum xx"
Totally agree with this, can shift from one day to the next.... |
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60/40 towards men. Love playing with couples and love pleasuring a woman with other guys. But I REALLY get off on watching a guy pleasuring a woman while I’m edging him. My favourite is a woman sitting on a guys face while we both suck him or just her watching me run him while she holds his legs back. Can never say no to a tasty pussy though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay. Interesting one. And something I've thought about for a while now. I would call myself sexually bi as opposed to bisexual. I find men and women equally as appealing but as with anything there has to be more than just a physical attraction.
That being said every time I picture my future it's always with a woman. I guess it's just my programing and need to reproduce. Odd that I find men and women equally exciting and stimulating but only ever picture a relationship with a woman. |
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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago
East Anglia |
"I'm pretty much full on gay now
I still find women much sexier than men though
I guess that makes me bi-curious, but the other way "
I think sexuality is really fluid but we can get hung up on labels. |
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I love the taste and touch of a female but need a man to be fully satisfied. I consider myself bi but have never dated a woman. I wouldn’t be against it but would miss the smell , taste, feel of a man. For me I think a woman will always be a fun addition and if I were in a situation where I was sleeping with a female I’d definitely try it on but then would be frustrated until I’d had a good cock fucking me hard. |
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