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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
A variation on a commonly seen thread... would love feedback on one of my recent messages... no profile details are shared in this message but for context it was to a bi curious couple yet to have their first mmf - fire away!!
Hi
Looks like exciting times for you guys!
How long have you been thinking about a 3some?
Having had a few more, I can tell you it’s a good decision. You’re going to have some fun (hopefully). I’d love to chat to you about this.
A bit about me... I’ve been on here for a while now, I’ve had a few (not loads) of meets with couples both bi curious and straight. I’ve only had two bi curious meets which were touching only which I’m comfortable with.
For me it’s about making sure everyone is comfortable and happy with the situation. And just to have a bit of fun!
Here’s a couple of pics. Would love to see what you guys look like too if you’re up for sharing.
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"A variation on a commonly seen thread... would love feedback on one of my recent messages... no profile details are shared in this message but for context it was to a bi curious couple yet to have their first mmf - fire away!!
Hi
Looks like exciting times for you guys!
How long have you been thinking about a 3some?
Having had a few more, I can tell you it’s a good decision. You’re going to have some fun (hopefully). I’d love to chat to you about this.
A bit about me... I’ve been on here for a while now, I’ve had a few (not loads) of meets with couples both bi curious and straight. I’ve only had two bi curious meets which were touching only which I’m comfortable with.
For me it’s about making sure everyone is comfortable and happy with the situation. And just to have a bit of fun!
Here’s a couple of pics. Would love to see what you guys look like too if you’re up for sharing.
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First message? Spelling is on point good 
Dunno, it's fine, end of the day its probably your pics that either cause chemistry or they dont.
I'd say its probably a bit long as an opener? I'd think of cutting the length down but being much more specific about something on their profile to catch their eye. |
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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
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First message? Spelling is on point good
Dunno, it's fine, end of the day its probably your pics that either cause chemistry or they dont.
I'd say its probably a bit long as an opener? I'd think of cutting the length down but being much more specific about something on their profile to catch their eye. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A variation on a commonly seen thread... would love feedback on one of my recent messages... no profile details are shared in this message but for context it was to a bi curious couple yet to have their first mmf - fire away!!
Hi
Looks like exciting times for you guys!
How long have you been thinking about a 3some?
Having had a few more, I can tell you it’s a good decision. You’re going to have some fun (hopefully). I’d love to chat to you about this.
A bit about me... I’ve been on here for a while now, I’ve had a few (not loads) of meets with couples both bi curious and straight. I’ve only had two bi curious meets which were touching only which I’m comfortable with.
For me it’s about making sure everyone is comfortable and happy with the situation. And just to have a bit of fun!
Here’s a couple of pics. Would love to see what you guys look like too if you’re up for sharing.
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Did u get a reply or not!!! if so its a great message... if not its a shit message, simples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did u get a reply or not!!! if so its a great message... if not its a shit message, simples
Haha, no reply "
There's your answer op, just send a dic pic next time |
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Feedback on a message seems a little petty, but as an introduction, you shoudl really be wanting to get their interest to direct them to your profile, rather than repeat it. the "CV" should be on your profile, not in the message.
But when we get messages as good as that, we're certainly interested in finding out more. |
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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
"Feedback on a message seems a little petty, but as an introduction, you shoudl really be wanting to get their interest to direct them to your profile, rather than repeat it. the "CV" should be on your profile, not in the message.
But when we get messages as good as that, we're certainly interested in finding out more."
I wouldn’t say petty... no point in sending anything if I’m writing terrible messages. Just interested that’s all.
But thanks for the feedback! |
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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
"It's a nice message but a bit ott for an opening message. You perhaps should of directed them to your profile and then left it for them to contact you if they liked what they saw/read. "
Thanks - always unsure if too short a message comes across as lazy  |
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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
"It's a nice message but a bit ott for an opening message. You perhaps should of directed them to your profile and then left it for them to contact you if they liked what they saw/read. "
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Sounds sincere, but this s is just my opinion and you have the right to tell me otherwise... my opening message doesn’t mention past experiences of any sex related .. I tend to compliment as offer the opportunity if they would be interested in chatting with a respectful polite guy... sex talk can develop
Just me - good luck buddy |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
Looks good here.
But then again we're probably not in the best place to judge what constitutes a good first message as 99% of the ones we get are a variation of "Hey, how you doing?" |
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"Looks good here.
But then again we're probably not in the best place to judge what constitutes a good first message as 99% of the ones we get are a variation of "Hey, how you doing?""
Or fancy a fuck now ? Some guys have no clue |
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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
"Looks good here.
But then again we're probably not in the best place to judge what constitutes a good first message as 99% of the ones we get are a variation of "Hey, how you doing?""
Insane given how good your profile is! |
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By *histler OP Man
over a year ago
Guildford |
"Looks good here.
But then again we're probably not in the best place to judge what constitutes a good first message as 99% of the ones we get are a variation of "Hey, how you doing?"
Or fancy a fuck now ? Some guys have no clue"
Unfortunately both seem to end in the same result |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Sounds sincere, but this s is just my opinion and you have the right to tell me otherwise... my opening message doesn’t mention past experiences of any sex related .. I tend to compliment as offer the opportunity if they would be interested in chatting with a respectful polite guy... sex talk can develop
Just me - good luck buddy "
Sex talk in a first message is cringe! |
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"Sounds sincere, but this s is just my opinion and you have the right to tell me otherwise... my opening message doesn’t mention past experiences of any sex related .. I tend to compliment as offer the opportunity if they would be interested in chatting with a respectful polite guy... sex talk can develop
Just me - good luck buddy
Sex talk in a first message is cringe! "
There you have it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to me the message is a little odd the persons receiving the message know why they are here and know what they want ..they dont need someone to repeat that in there first message ?? so id avoid it almost has a bit of im smug about it ?? thats my opinion anyway |
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"Looks good here.
But then again we're probably not in the best place to judge what constitutes a good first message as 99% of the ones we get are a variation of "Hey, how you doing?""
Variation as in without the punctuation... |
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