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dont condone what shes done,cheating is never acceptable .but at least she had enough respect for you to be honest and the balls and nerve to tell you .
maybe a wake up call you both need to decide if you both wanna actually continue with this farce of a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well what does that say? Your on here looking for other people and she did the same when the chance came, think a long honest chat in order.... You might end up with couples profile if your lucky |
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Oh Mr Naughty29, you are a naughty boy !
Think you should be a man and tell your girlfriend she deserves better than you and let her go and have fun without feeling guilty. It's you who should feel guilty for the secret profile and living a promiscuous life during the relationship with someone who is not aware of your sexual desires and needs. It's not fair to either of you and the pain of having such a huge secret will cut you up before long....
You don't need to tell her your secret, just be a man and do the right thing, for both of you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I'm just ignoring it to be honest but if it makes them feel better then ok! I'm a believer of if u haven't got anything good to say then don't bother saying anything!
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Well I'm just ignoring it to be honest but if it makes them feel better then ok! I'm a believer of if u haven't got anything good to say then don't bother saying anything!
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Maybe this is the time to come clean as she has, it might be the making of you both....and who knows, she may end up playing on here with you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My gf has admitted that when she was in benidorm she had a play with a guy!
Good on her,you on here CHEATING so as they say alls fair in love n war"
totally agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Massive turn on to be honest! She didn't let him cum in her, just on her tiny pants! "
SO now be honest and tell her that you want to add further excitment into the relationship and maybe see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't made her feel guilty, I actively encourage it!
So do it together as a couple and then you can both enjoy it  "
I second and third that idea greatly |
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"Well I'm just ignoring it to be honest but if it makes them feel better then ok! I'm a believer of if u haven't got anything good to say then don't bother saying anything!
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Good for you.
I love the way all the perfect people pop up during these forum posts.
Most entertaining.
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Clearly some of you just don't how complex a relationship can be.
He may love his partner.
She may know of his desires.
She may choose not to part-take in the type of fun he enjoys.
This doesn't mean he has to rub it in her face by telling her he's on this site or playing around.
Nor does it mean he should give it up or give her up.
If she knows of his desires and chooses not to play he's still allowed to love her and fantasise about her playing around too.
It's his life after all.
Before you all go apoplectic... I know, I know, it's her life too... but it's her choice if she doesn't want to play.
It doesn't mean the relationship is a sham (as someone (probably perfect) said earlier).
It's easy for you to say this when you know so little about the OP.
Ohhhhhh how I wish I was perfect too...
We don't all live in a perfect bubble.
Some of us live in a place known as 'the real world'.
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"Well I'm just ignoring it to be honest but if it makes them feel better then ok! I'm a believer of if u haven't got anything good to say then don't bother saying anything!
Good for you.
I love the way all the perfect people pop up during these forum posts.
Most entertaining.
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Clearly some of you just don't how complex a relationship can be.
He may love his partner.
She may know of his desires.
She may choose not to part-take in the type of fun he enjoys.
This doesn't mean he has to rub it in her face by telling her he's on this site or playing around.
Nor does it mean he should give it up or give her up.
If she knows of his desires and chooses not to play he's still allowed to love her and fantasise about her playing around too.
It's his life after all.
Before you all go apoplectic... I know, I know, it's her life too... but it's her choice if she doesn't want to play.
It doesn't mean the relationship is a sham (as someone (probably perfect) said earlier).
It's easy for you to say this when you know so little about the OP.
Ohhhhhh how I wish I was perfect too...
We don't all live in a perfect bubble.
Some of us live in a place known as 'the real world'.
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And some of us who call ourselves swingers, respect the relationships we're in by being honest and open (which is what swinging is all about, otherwise it's just cheating) 
But each to their own eh?! |
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"...And some of us who call ourselves swingers, respect the relationships we're in by being honest and open (which is what swinging is all about, otherwise it's just cheating)
But each to their own eh?!"
Hook, line and sinker
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So she slept with someone else..he shot his load on her tiny panties..which she just happen to still be wearing...and then brought them home to show you the evidence just in case you didnt believe her. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see how making an honest observation that the OP is, and has been for some time, cheating on his girlfriend by being on Fabswingers is in any way snearing. The man is a cheat. Simples.
To call it that is to deny people's right to an opinion and other's right to disagree. Lord knows I get enough flack for my Tory _iews but as long as it doesn't get personal I am happy to debate and argue with anyone about politics.
His being a cheat doesn't stop anyone on here playing with him or his continuing on the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why the snearing? and some of you are surprised when people complain that people are not friendly on the forums 
To the OP....I am not sure if you are ok with it or pissed off ?"
He did say it was a turn on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"where does the guy say his girlfriend let the other guy shag her without a condom? come on people read facts before judging"
'She didnt let him cum inside her just on her tiny pants'
This is the girl that won't have sex with him hence him having to be on here. But give her Benidorm and she turns into a lil minx  |
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"where does the guy say his girlfriend let the other guy shag her without a condom? come on people read facts before judging
'She didnt let him cum inside her just on her tiny pants'
This is the girl that won't have sex with him hence him having to be on here. But give her Benidorm and she turns into a lil minx "
Really?
She wont have sex with him?
Is that a fact?
I'm sure there are plenty of people who have a healthy, active sex life and are on here too - for something extra/different/thrilling etc and, dare I say, enjoy it
I know at least one
(Did you know not all people have the same sexual appetites) |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I don't see how making an honest observation that the OP is, and has been for some time, cheating on his girlfriend by being on Fabswingers is in any way snearing. The man is a cheat. Simples.
To call it that is to deny people's right to an opinion and other's right to disagree. Lord knows I get enough flack for my Tory _iews but as long as it doesn't get personal I am happy to debate and argue with anyone about politics.
His being a cheat doesn't stop anyone on here playing with him or his continuing on the site."
You are wrongly assuming which posts I said were snearing.
But to the rest of your post....how is being personal about someones private life not being personal to that person? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Why the snearing? and some of you are surprised when people complain that people are not friendly on the forums
To the OP....I am not sure if you are ok with it or pissed off ?
He did say it was a turn on "
Not on his first post which I was answering |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why the snearing? and some of you are surprised when people complain that people are not friendly on the forums
To the OP....I am not sure if you are ok with it or pissed off ?
He did say it was a turn on
Not on his first post which I was answering "
Maybe it would have been better if he had told us the whole story and he wouldn't have got the comments he got, or am I just nit picking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Massive turn on to be honest! She didn't let him cum in her, just on her tiny pants! "
Maybe if it turned you on should ask how she feel about swinging and you could do it as a couple or apart be more fun maybe x
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Why the snearing? and some of you are surprised when people complain that people are not friendly on the forums
To the OP....I am not sure if you are ok with it or pissed off ?
He did say it was a turn on
Not on his first post which I was answering
Maybe it would have been better if he had told us the whole story and he wouldn't have got the comments he got, or am I just nit picking "
Or maybe people could have asked him his thoughts instead of reading the OP as a whinging post that his G/F has cheated? Then there might have been different comments too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why the snearing? and some of you are surprised when people complain that people are not friendly on the forums
To the OP....I am not sure if you are ok with it or pissed off ?
He did say it was a turn on
Not on his first post which I was answering
Maybe it would have been better if he had told us the whole story and he wouldn't have got the comments he got, or am I just nit picking
Or maybe people could have asked him his thoughts instead of reading the OP as a whinging post that his G/F has cheated? Then there might have been different comments too. "
True |
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"You are wrongly assuming which posts I said were snearing.
But to the rest of your post....how is being personal about someones private life not being personal to that person?"
Fair comment about which posts.
Well when the Thread is about his personal life and he makes personal statements from which we draw conclusions (right or wrong) then by definition it has to be personal. That is a mile away from being personally abusive which maybe I should have made clearer in my post. If a Thread is about mathematics then being personal about anyone is well out of order. When the OP raises a personal matter then it will always have personal comments.
This is his second Thread about his girlfriend 'playing away' so he knows how people have already reacted. Seems to me if one didn't like the 'heat' first time round one shouldn't come back in the 'kitchen' for another go ... |
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Twenty minutes I'll never get back. Who wears cum stained knickers home from holiday to show their boyfriend.
Pity the poor bastard sat beside her on the flight she must have been minging! Yuk!
...assuming "da plane! Da plane"! wasn't from Fantasy Island! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"You are wrongly assuming which posts I said were snearing.
But to the rest of your post....how is being personal about someones private life not being personal to that person?
Fair comment about which posts.
Well when the Thread is about his personal life and he makes personal statements from which we draw conclusions (right or wrong) then by definition it has to be personal. That is a mile away from being personally abusive which maybe I should have made clearer in my post. If a Thread is about mathematics then being personal about anyone is well out of order. When the OP raises a personal matter then it will always have personal comments.
This is his second Thread about his girlfriend 'playing away' so he knows how people have already reacted. Seems to me if one didn't like the 'heat' first time round one shouldn't come back in the 'kitchen' for another go ..."
Exactly....conclusions being made about the Poster rather than the subject he brought up and wrongly so it seemed.
His other thread about playing away was asking for advice on how to. We all need advice sometimes.
I think too many people on here like to put too much importance on checking out peoples profiles and previous posts before answering a persons posts, and a lot of the time just to find something to pull it apart.
It is a shame really as it does then look unfriendly to lurkers and newbies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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His other thread about playing away was asking for advice on how to. We all need advice sometimes.
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think they meant this one
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/111910 |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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His other thread about playing away was asking for advice on how to. We all need advice sometimes.
think they meant this one
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/111910"
I saw that one but didn't see any relevance in what the person I quoted was meaning.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did I miss the bit saying she wore spunky knickers on the flight home? Didn't she just tell the OP about it? that's how I understood it anyway, maybe I missed sommet
Mind you, I still dunno what the OP started the thread for, he didn't make it clear what his point was really.  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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on his original thread about his GF going away for the week, he took the ribbing in good spirit as most people hoped she would play with others.
he came back and updated.
all the best to them both. |
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" But give her Benidorm and she turns into a lil minx "
i honestly can see what women find attractive in johny vegas .............................................................................................. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if you both like the idea then good luck to you. Plenty of people on here play alone. So maybe time to ask her about setting up a couple account on her. You could delete yours first. Good luck |
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