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Have you told any of your friends you’re on fab?
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
Gleam Street |
"My best mate knows, she wasn't surprised in the slightest, if I go to meet anyone she knows exactly where I'm going and she will message me to make sure I got home ok  "
Exactly this. She has a tracker on my phone specifically for meets.. just in case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None that I’m on here but I’ve told a few colleagues about past experiences. We generally had that kind of friendship anyway so wasn’t really a surprise |
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"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response? "
We’ve told a few and all have been fine about it, we told one of our female friends and she said we’ve went up in her books  told another female friend and found out she was on here too so you can guess where that went  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response?
We’ve told a few and all have been fine about it, we told one of our female friends and she said we’ve went up in her books told another female friend and found out she was on here too so you can guess where that went "
Did your female friend who says that yous went up in her books not want to join x  |
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"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response?
We’ve told a few and all have been fine about it, we told one of our female friends and she said we’ve went up in her books told another female friend and found out she was on here too so you can guess where that went
Did your female friend who says that yous went up in her books not want to join x "
No she doesn’t want to join us, we all think it wouldn’t be a good idea however she would like to try clubs and see what it’s all about when it’s possible x |
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I have never told anyone outside this community. In some ways it’s private but also many of us are still in the closet. Maybe it helps us to think of it as forbidden fruit and therefore more tempting and riskier too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was introduced to Fab by a friend at work and I introduced a different workmate who is on T****r.
I haven't told any of my other friends outside of work as it is simply not the sort of subject we discuss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of my friends are already swingers. Some of us play some of us are just good friends. There's a few of my vanilla friends that know what I do it really didn't surprise them. They love to hear about my fab antics and always ask what joys I've been up to . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I don't care who knows, its just who I am. I only protect my identity on here to protect myself.
My best mate thinks its really interesting and helped her become more open minded  |
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
West Midlands |
Tan has told four of her friends, one was shocked, one at first couldn’t understand why but through her own relationship troubles now fully understands why, one is jealous and one knew what we were like as she has joined us before,
I told two friends, they’re both on here through my recommendation lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tan has told four of her friends, one was shocked, one at first couldn’t understand why but through her own relationship troubles now fully understands why, one is jealous and one knew what we were like as she has joined us before,
I told two friends, they’re both on here through my recommendation lol"
Nice to hear that x  |
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Someone I used to work with told me about FAB.
At first I joined up to look at naughty pics but eventually set up a propper profile.
I have told a few people (no details of meets/people. What goes on in fab stays in fab.) Most have been very shocked & would never have guessed.
1 male friend doesn't agree with this sort of thing but he is boring lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple of friends from daily life on here, but they moved away some years ago, so we really only chat now, and in the past year, it's been good to keep in contact with them.
Most of my social friends just think I'm "the odd one". Fuck 'em, if they only knew the shenanigans & fun to be had on here & fab guys. Most of them are probably on similar sites, but come across as prudes & would be shocked, but not surprised, lol.
It's none of their business what I do, we've only got one life and I'm enjoying getting older disgracefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A married guy next door,
All very strange,
We're all very close now,
His wife my wife,
Me and him,
And we're always swapping around xx
Wife's on there own are amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes my bestie's know and weren't surprised in the slightest as I really am very open minded in life even though they are very much straight and narrow. And my family all know but again not in the slightest bothered as I've always been alternative when compared to others.
Always intrigues me when people use the reason about sex life being private as an excuse not to be more open ... my sex life has, and always will be, absolutely private! Never ever discussed it ... just honest about being me isn't a problem I have! And this lifestyle is never actually brought up, I'm just happily me and it's never shied away from in conversation as honesty is the best policy!
The only way to make this all acceptable is when people here are open and honest and people realise it's just part of someone's normal! And we are all ok people rather than the seedy weirdos that they believe! |
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All my closest female friends are married so they love hearing what I get up to!! 
My family don't know and I'd be mortified if my ex husband found out.
There is still a perception, amongst some, of swinging that it's all sordid sex in laybys and that'll unfortunately never change.. |
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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago
West London |
No.. we have kept this side of our life totally private/ scared of being judged.
A question for others who have revealed this information to their friends .. where you or did they show interest in playing with you ?... I wish we get found out by some of friends and join us ( it’s a fantasy which may never come true). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope my friends know i like a bit of cock but i haven't told them we are on here "
You sound like the barmaid in the I’m the only gay in the village sketch, I bet you don’t half do it well with an accent
Well done
Made me smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My best mate knows, she wasn't surprised in the slightest, if I go to meet anyone she knows exactly where I'm going and she will message me to make sure I got home ok "
That's great to see. Safety first always. |
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Have a group of friends that now know we are swingers and on here, however we didn't tell them. Was having a meal with work colleagues/friends and one of the husbands works next door to a club and without thinking said "I have just realised where I have seen you before it was going into the club" I tried to deny it but then he came out with a distinctive feature of the car which all my friends know about so that was it. Had many questions and 1 female colleague told me it was wrong that I let Mrs CC do it and wouldn't leave it alone until my boss piped up with "me and Mr Boss enjoy watersports" which shut her up pretty damn quick.
Still get a few funny looks but most don't seem to care and a few even have questions now and again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve seen friends on here and we dropped them a polite message to ask them reconsider their identifying pictures because of their jobs 
Other than them I believe Mrs has told just one of her friends. |
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My dad my sister know about it ive very open person.
my best friend knows too, if I go on a meet she gets sent his picture and where I'm going when I'm due back, I also keep in contact throughout the meet. Like when I get there when I'm leaving. |
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We've been very open with a couple of our female friends and Hannah has told her sister about it I think. One of our friends thinks it's hilarious and loves hearing about our adventures. The other is kind of curious to dip her toe in the water with her man. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
We told a lovely vanilla female friend over dinner a while back that we were on Fab. Within an hour we were naked together for some fantastic girl on girl fun (photos on our profile). I would love a repeat, but Covid got in the way. |
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Not not really. One or two have guessed i think. But many of our friends we met through swinging or our kink side. We know people who have left swinging and we still chat to daily; some for the last 10-15 years! |
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"Have you told anyone you’re on fab friends etc, and what was the response? "
all my friends and most of my family know I'm a swinger... they don't know specifically which sites I use or what I use them for.
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"They are the ones who staged an intervention and got me to make an account. And 3 days later hijacked me and deposited me in my first swingers club.
They have a lot to answer for "
Sorry, not sorry ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've told a couple of mates as they are my safe calls should I need one.
Name and number of the guy and where I'm going and they check on me at a specific time.
We all used to go to TG and other fetish clubs as a group, so not really anything to hide about being on this site.
An ex once threaten to 'out' me to my children, I told him to go right ahead! They don't know the in's and out's but they do know I'm not vanilla! |
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