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Couples who invite a third person.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- Size of cock
- how attractive they are to L(and L to them)
- how they behave
- how good they are in bed
In that order - if you are ugly and act like an arsehole but your cock is big enough then you may get a pass 
So if the cock isn't there then at least two of the others need to be for us to consider meeting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"- Size of cock
- how attractive they are to L(and L to them)
- how they behave
- how good they are in bed
In that order - if you are ugly and act like an arsehole but your cock is big enough then you may get a pass
So if the cock isn't there then at least two of the others need to be for us to consider meeting "
A brilliantly honest answer! Sometimes you just need the big pink key to get lucky  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That a connection is there with both of you.
That they understand the dynamics.
They are comfortable.
K"
Nice to see a couple of those points raised. Understanding a couples dynamic and being comfortable in their company are massive indicators to whether a meet will work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They’re respectful, listen and are easy on the eye. That’s what we offer in return. "
Well 'two out of three ain't bad' and I only hit the small branches falling out of the ugly tree  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We both need to be attracted to someone firstly and for them not to be a dick. Men or ladies
J "
Ah, the old 'don't be a dick'! It's harder than you'd expect isn't it?! |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
I like my male friends to be
Physically attractive to me,
Polite, Not pushy, Intelligent enough to hold a conversation,
Not a chav (that is a big turn off), oh and not forgetting a nice big willy x
Mrs N
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like my male friends to be
Physically attractive to me,
Polite, Not pushy, Intelligent enough to hold a conversation,
Not a chav (that is a big turn off), oh and not forgetting a nice big willy x
Mrs N
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That seems an entirely reasonable shopping list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Respect for us both.
This.. This is important, they'll be joining us as a couple, no matter their sex. They must respect that we are a couple inviting them into our relationship.."
Important point when T and I are looking for a 3rd, and really hard at the moment. This is why we're looking for people with experience playing with 'swingers', the tinder crowd just don't get the chemistry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"- Size of cock
- how attractive they are to L(and L to them)
- how they behave
- how good they are in bed
In that order - if you are ugly and act like an arsehole but your cock is big enough then you may get a pass
So if the cock isn't there then at least two of the others need to be for us to consider meeting "
If they’re awful in bed, but had a massive cock, would you still have them hypothetically? Obviously you can’t tell how they’d be in bed until you meet and even then it’s a little to do with compatibility |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...into your play, what's the most important thing about them?"
A social meet first to see if they are a twat or not
Mrs need to see if she approves or not.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...into your play, what's the most important thing about them?
A social meet first to see if they are a twat or not
Mrs need to see if she approves or not.
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That should be on everyone's checklist before they walk into a meet:
Fresh breath- check
Smell gorgeous- check
Not being a twat- jury's out!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"- Size of cock
- how attractive they are to L(and L to them)
- how they behave
- how good they are in bed
In that order - if you are ugly and act like an arsehole but your cock is big enough then you may get a pass
So if the cock isn't there then at least two of the others need to be for us to consider meeting
If they’re awful in bed, but had a massive cock, would you still have them hypothetically? Obviously you can’t tell how they’d be in bed until you meet and even then it’s a little to do with compatibility"
if they turn out to be truly awful, you can always use them as a towel rail or coat hook while you carry on playing! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That there is chemistry between us all x "
I love that term when it comes to playmates, but it can be hard to explain.....
Sometimes it's not a specific quality or attribute, sometimes someone just feels.....fun! |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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That she finds us both attractive, that we both find her attractive, she’s friendly, open and honest, and that we share the same interests and we enjoy each other’s company out of the bedroom as well as in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intelligence
Depth
Respect
Not arrogant or judgemental
Ability to be sensual and attentive
And helps if attractive and in shape
...and the elusive chemistry of course! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me (Mrs) it's been able to gel with the other(s)
We don't have a big demanding list, as long as we get along and understand each others boundaries I'm a happy bunny |
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