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We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? "
Its because your young and beautiful. Guys want to see your face in the friend pics. We had the same when we took our faces off public images, our friend requests shot up x |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? "
They usually just want to see your wanking material photos |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? "
I have no idea why single guys do this. It’s arrogant, lazy and the gives the good single guys a more difficult path. Make an effort guys to get to know people before asking to be a friend.  |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there?
Its because your young and beautiful. Guys want to see your face in the friend pics. We had the same when we took our faces off public images, our friend requests shot up x"
We only opened our filters around a week ago but didn’t think it would be as bad  |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there?
They usually just want to see your wanking material photos "
Haha there’s nothing really in there to be honest, we don’t put any real filth on here and prefer to save that for meets xx |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? "
I receive unsolicited friend requests from couples, usually blank, unverified profiles, but verified ones too. One way ticket to Block Street   |
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I don’t send them, but I get them from random people daily who I’ve never spoken to. I only have people I’ve met or going to in the future after speaking for awhile... |
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"We delete random friend requests without so much as a second glance. We don’t even look at the profile.
Winks stand more of a chance with us.
Or, you know, a well constructed message!"
Haha Yep a well constructed message is so rare on here although we are rubbish at sending the first message x |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there?
I receive unsolicited friend requests from couples, usually blank, unverified profiles, but verified ones too. One way ticket to Block Street "
We’ve kinda resorted to using the block button for this, we’ve found we’ve deleted the request and within the same day another has been sent from the same profile lol x |
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We have face pictures on our private pics so never accept random friend invites.
Just like to add that couples,females and TV’s are just as guilty of sending them.
V |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? "
Just a bunch of rude tossers, that's all.
Shame, they spoil it for decent people. |
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"I get loads every day, which I ignore unless I know the person.
I assume guys just wanna see naked pics for wanking. "
Fab is for meeting people. Xhamster (other free porn sites are available) is for wanking  |
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Yep get quite a few
I often wait til they're offline, accept and look at private pics then delete again.
I block repeat offenders cos it irritates me, I get some that send a message wink and friend request at same time and it's like steady on there! |
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Don’t delete friend requests. They can’t send another for 30 days then.
I used to get a lot of unsolicited friend requests. Usually couples and men wanting to see private pictures. I ignore them or hide the friends only pics. |
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"We have face pictures on our private pics so never accept random friend invites.
Just like to add that couples,females and TV’s are just as guilty of sending them.
V"
It’s probably down to the sheer number of guys on here, we’ve found it so much more noticeable over the last week. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn't respond to a random friends request.
A friend is usually someone I converse with regularly, someone I have met or intend to meet. Hence why I only have one friend at present. I've had a few requests from girls I've never chatted to, usually those hoping to bump up their photo fabs, something I rarely ever do anyway. They tend to be ignored. Same as my hotlist. Very small. Only populated by those I would like to meet, not a load of randoms from all over the country that I'm unlikely to meet or would want to meet me. Just the way I use fab. |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there?
I have no idea why single guys do this. It’s arrogant, lazy and the gives the good single guys a more difficult path. Make an effort guys to get to know people before asking to be a friend. "
I get loads from couples too and not even wanting to meet with couples. |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? "
Wait till they are offline accept it go perv then delete if not interested, it is rude though without any other contact and as has already been said prob just so they can look at your private pics for wank bank |
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Never sent a random request. We would never dream of it. We receive shed loads of them though. We jut leave them in the requests section so they can’t send another
J |
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"Never sent a random request. We would never dream of it. We receive shed loads of them though. We jut leave them in the requests section so they can’t send another
J "
We really need to do this instead of deleting! |
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"Never sent a random request. We would never dream of it. We receive shed loads of them though. We jut leave them in the requests section so they can’t send another
J
We really need to do this instead of deleting!"
Blocking stops them sending a new invite |
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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago
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They usually just want to see your wanking material photos
Haha there’s nothing really in there to be honest, we don’t put any real filth on here and prefer to save that for meets xx"
We find it’s face pictures their after.
In either case unsolicited friend invites are a one way to a block for us. |
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"Never sent a random request. We would never dream of it. We receive shed loads of them though. We jut leave them in the requests section so they can’t send another
J "
This. I stopped deleting them once I realised they couldn't send another.
However, I'm sure many people accept them so chancers will continue to chance x |
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"Yep get quite a few
I often wait til they're offline, accept and look at private pics then delete again.
I block repeat offenders cos it irritates me, I get some that send a message wink and friend request at same time and it's like steady on there! "
So this |
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I get dozens of random requests a day , I just leave them in the box but I am so curious as to their success rate ? ? ? So if you’re one of those people that send them on the off chance, feel free to share how often you get lucky
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"Never sent a random request. We would never dream of it. We receive shed loads of them though. We jut leave them in the requests section so they can’t send another
J
We really need to do this instead of deleting!
Blocking stops them sending a new invite"
Yep this is the way we deal with it now x |
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"We’ve been receiving loads of random friend requests over the last week or so mainly from single guys, just wondering why people do this? Do you send random invites? If you receive them what are your thoughts? We use our friends list wisely we think and only have on the people we have met or think we will potentially meet in the future, is this a common thing or do some just have anyone that requests on there? "
Random request are straight block .
You can't reason with them on this. |
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