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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We were talking to a couple yesterday who want to go to a club just to be watched.

It’s not something we have done but just puzzled as to what peoples opinions would be. We prefer everybody to join in when we have fun

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple  over a year ago

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We enjoy going and being watched if there are no people we’re interested in playing with. It’s enjoyable for us as we can see that people are getting off on what we’re doing. Why not

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands

If we haven't made a connection we love putting on a show, and watching the other action too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We enjoy going and being watched if there are no people we’re interested in playing with. It’s enjoyable for us as we can see that people are getting off on what we’re doing. Why not "

We like putting on a show but always seem to gravitate towards people. Also I don’t think they have been to a club before which may change once they’ve been in

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If we haven't made a connection we love putting on a show, and watching the other action too."
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I think they worried because they’ve not been to a club before we must take them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wouldn't go to a club purley just for that but we like being watched, turns us on more

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Wouldn't go to a club purley just for that but we like being watched, turns us on more

Her x"

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Totally totally agree.

We like to be seen and also watch as well which I think it’s all part of the fun just doing it to show off is and what we are after but who knows.

They want us to take asked them to a club in the summer. In the heat of the moment you never know what might happen.

C(f)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is what we plan on doing when clubs re open. Would love another couple into the same, so the 4 of us could have a bed together, watching each other, as others also watch us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We like being watched. But if it’s a case of being with another couple we aren’t into watching. It’s not a spectator sport for us we both want to be involved.

J

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By *hristopherd999Man  over a year ago

Brentwood

I'd love to watch a couple

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By *achheelCouple  over a year ago

Manchester

I love being watched. Probably the biggest reason I joined

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just putting it out there as had a few messages now.

We're not looking to be watched.

Her x

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By *rMrs84Couple  over a year ago

Doncaster

We all start somewhere. For us watching and being watched was a bit like dipping our toes in the water.

We’re a bit deeper bow.

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By *ovelaughliveCouple  over a year ago

Oldham

We have been to clubs and just played together putting on a show for others, we found we actually really enjoyed it, Especially if we have got to know the people watching and they want to play! X

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By *psidedown PineapplesCouple  over a year ago

Sussex


"We all start somewhere. For us watching and being watched was a bit like dipping our toes in the water.

We’re a bit deeper bow. "

Exactly our plans

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We been to TH and it was our first time. We enjoyed playing together and being watched. Couldn’t ask others to join in but will do next time

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By *andb69Couple  over a year ago

leeds

An appreciative crowd is always appreciated!

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple  over a year ago

Greater London


"We enjoy going and being watched if there are no people we’re interested in playing with. It’s enjoyable for us as we can see that people are getting off on what we’re doing. Why not "

This is the same for us, if we go to a club and we don’t click with anyone there then we still really enjoy watching others as well as preforming for others and seeing how it turns them on.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We enjoy going and being watched if there are no people we’re interested in playing with. It’s enjoyable for us as we can see that people are getting off on what we’re doing. Why not

This is the same for us, if we go to a club and we don’t click with anyone there then we still really enjoy watching others as well as preforming for others and seeing how it turns them on.

xx"

What a watch that would be,, stunning...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve always enjoyed watching as well as playing. I’m not into clubs but quite often I get axreauest from younger couples to watch them pleasure one another and have sex.

It’s all very relaxed and it seems to turn us all on.

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By *f579Man  over a year ago

Midlands

I would love to watch a couple and also be watched

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By *ourNextAddictionMan  over a year ago

Somerset

I’m not really fused - doesn’t effect the performance. Done it infront of 30/40 people in clubs but also 1-1.

I feel if I’m being watched I have to put on a better performance though - can’t have a bad reference

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By *arry monk40Man  over a year ago

Telford

I offer to watch rarely get a response

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By *lbinoGorillaMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"We were talking to a couple yesterday who want to go to a club just to be watched.

It’s not something we have done but just puzzled as to what peoples opinions would be. We prefer everybody to join in when we have fun"

It may well be that you prefer people to join in, but surely it's up to these other people what they do when they get there without any pressure to get involved in things they might not want?

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield

I feel like the watcher gets the better part of the deal, but maybe that’s my voyeurism raising its head.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel like the watcher gets the better part of the deal, but maybe that’s my voyeurism raising its head. "

As more of an exhibitionist, I get the pleasure of feeling whats happening to me and pleasuring the other person and get off on the thought of people watching

Her x

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I feel like the watcher gets the better part of the deal, but maybe that’s my voyeurism raising its head.

As more of an exhibitionist, I get the pleasure of feeling whats happening to me and pleasuring the other person and get off on the thought of people watching

Her x"

This sounds like a perfect combination

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By *ourNextAddictionMan  over a year ago

Somerset


"I feel like the watcher gets the better part of the deal, but maybe that’s my voyeurism raising its head.

As more of an exhibitionist, I get the pleasure of feeling whats happening to me and pleasuring the other person and get off on the thought of people watching

Her x"

So do you find sex becomes more enjoyable for you when you’re being watched? Does it turn you on that little bit more than 1-1?

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By *678Man  over a year ago

Surrey

Sat watching a couple play, whilst I’m cock in hand and open to interference

Sounds perfect

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple  over a year ago

Redditch

We love to be watched and watch when in club,making us so horny then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel like the watcher gets the better part of the deal, but maybe that’s my voyeurism raising its head.

As more of an exhibitionist, I get the pleasure of feeling whats happening to me and pleasuring the other person and get off on the thought of people watching

Her x

So do you find sex becomes more enjoyable for you when you’re being watched? Does it turn you on that little bit more than 1-1? "

No you can't beat 1-1 personally, that's different.

However we do like to put on a show, for example we have on the cams on here a few times and we like being "told" what to do to each other and it turns us on that other people get turned on from watching us

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel like the watcher gets the better part of the deal, but maybe that’s my voyeurism raising its head.

As more of an exhibitionist, I get the pleasure of feeling whats happening to me and pleasuring the other person and get off on the thought of people watching

Her x

So do you find sex becomes more enjoyable for you when you’re being watched? Does it turn you on that little bit more than 1-1?

No you can't beat 1-1 personally, that's different.

However we do like to put on a show, for example we have on the cams on here a few times and we like being "told" what to do to each other and it turns us on that other people get turned on from watching us

Her x"

Sounds very sexy, love the thought of watching and being watched. Or just all playing in the play room at a club x

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By *orkspoonMan  over a year ago

nearby

Part of the thrill of going to a club is having people watch you play - especially in chams when guys can watch you in the couples room but not join

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By *irty desireWoman  over a year ago

newcatle

Love too watch and being watched.. defo the norm in a club x

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By *igfun911Man  over a year ago

East Lancashire


"I love being watched. Probably the biggest reason I joined "

Yeah I totally understand that, I love both watching and being watched.

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By *icky and MandyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm............... being watched

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We enjoy going and being watched if there are no people we’re interested in playing with. It’s enjoyable for us as we can see that people are getting off on what we’re doing. Why not

This is the same for us, if we go to a club and we don’t click with anyone there then we still really enjoy watching others as well as preforming for others and seeing how it turns them on.

xx"

This

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By *2troubleCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

Prefer watching over being watched

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like being watched although not too fussed on watching.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We love being watched its our main way we play

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By * Lexi xWoman  over a year ago

stockport

Me and my fella don’t play with others. We love being watched and being in the environment.

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By *ecretescapeCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire

Adore being watched. More so than watching.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I often prefer to watch!

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By *andDeeCouple  over a year ago

Ashford

Someone has to get the party started.

We find it horny being watched and if it leads to more that is hot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We love to put on show and being watched and if find others we like then to join us xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We love to put on show and being watched and if find others we like then to join us xx"

Perhaps we should put on a show together make it memorable for people ha ha

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple  over a year ago

Coventry

Sometime we like to be watched, sometimes we like to watch and sometimes you get to be watched while also watching. That is the beauty of clubs.

As to joining in and being joined (or not joining in or being joined) thats an issue of reading the situation, making your intentions clear and etiquette. For example if you wanted to be watched and left alone a room with lockable door and viewing window or stable door or chain across the doorway could be ideal.

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By *eegh0stsMan  over a year ago


"I love being watched. Probably the biggest reason I joined "

Same, I love an audience. More the merrier!

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By * Lexi xWoman  over a year ago

stockport

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By * Lexi xWoman  over a year ago

stockport

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple  over a year ago

Lincoln

We haven't really tried going out of our way to be watched but we found we really enjoyed watching another couple while we were playing at a club. Like the hottest kind of porn

LvM

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By *eachrunner1Man  over a year ago

Farnham

Love it.

On balance I'd say watching is more erotic for me personally than being watched but totally into either.

Different vibe entirely depending on whether you are the watcher or the watchee.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is what we plan on doing when clubs re open. Would love another couple into the same, so the 4 of us could have a bed together, watching each other, as others also watch us"

Thats us to a T

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love being watched and enjoy putting on a show whilst on cam or at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is what we plan on doing when clubs re open. Would love another couple into the same, so the 4 of us could have a bed together, watching each other, as others also watch us

Thats us to a T"

Same here but as usual everyone we find who likes the same thing live miles away from us.

I guess it don't help living in the corner of the country

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By *ikiLoverMan  over a year ago

Brighton

Love being watched, in any circumstances really!

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By *tarburst babydollMan  over a year ago

Dingwall

If we are at a club and don't make a connection with anyone we would like to play with we love being watched. But we wouldn't go to a club solely to be watched

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We were talking to a couple yesterday who want to go to a club just to be watched.

It’s not something we have done but just puzzled as to what peoples opinions would be. We prefer everybody to join in when we have fun"

Its on our list, have also started a naked cleaning business where we fuck during, we love being watched haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We were talking to a couple yesterday who want to go to a club just to be watched.

It’s not something we have done but just puzzled as to what peoples opinions would be. We prefer everybody to join in when we have fun

Its on our list, have also started a naked cleaning business where we fuck during, we love being watched haha"

Now, if only our cleaner did that. Don’t suppose you’ve got any spaces.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thats what i enjoy, when me and 'Z' joined this scene it was purely to pursue the love for being watched. We weren't swingers or into sharing ect it was having people watch with drove us

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"have also started a naked cleaning business where we fuck during"

Impressive multi tasking

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By *arkhelgaCouple  over a year ago

leeds

What can we say we love being watched Xx

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By *arly StagesCouple  over a year ago

Penwortham

We are still in the earliest stages of our swinging discoveries together and have certainly found that being watched and watching others is something that really gets us going.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s what we would like to do when we feel it’s a bit safer to do so, preferably on same bed with a few wandering hands etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We were talking to a couple yesterday who want to go to a club just to be watched.

It’s not something we have done but just puzzled as to what peoples opinions would be. We prefer everybody to join in when we have fun

Its on our list, have also started a naked cleaning business where we fuck during, we love being watched haha

Now, if only our cleaner did that. Don’t suppose you’ve got any spaces."

Haha there is some availability x

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By *ravellerukMan  over a year ago

Burnham

First time we went to a club (our first swinging experience) our intention was just to watch and be watched.

We both love it, especially when it’s another couple while they have fun too

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By *arly StagesCouple  over a year ago

Penwortham


"It’s what we would like to do when we feel it’s a bit safer to do so, preferably on same bed with a few wandering hands etc "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When my wife and I go to a club, we enjoy seeing a few men wanking and watching while we play.

It adds to the excitement. Will they just stand watching? or will they make a move? or maybe the wife will reach out a hand and beckon them closer.

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By *reakyandcheekyCouple  over a year ago

derby

We love being watched it’s a big turn on for us. X

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By *andl76Couple  over a year ago

north east

We enjoy just watching on occasion, very hot just like enhanced porn

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By *ill Hill FunseekersCouple  over a year ago

london

Something that we really want to do. C.

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick

I went to my first club with play (Pandora's in Leeds) yesterday with my FWB and was watched.

Obviously at the moment it's meant to be bubbles only so should only be watching, but we didn't want to share last night anyway.

It was odd at first, but soon got used to everyone was watching and then it felt like they were spurring me on a bit like I had people cheering for me at a sporting event .

There was only one guy who went to reach out and touch her without asking, but a stern glare and a "No mate!" made him fuck off.

Heading back to have more fun tonight

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By *andSCouple  over a year ago

Old London Town

People wanting to watch is definitely a thing.

We were at a club once and decided to go and play on our own for a bit. There was one other couple in the room when we started.

By the time we'd finished there were 8 couples watching us.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That is our purpose for being on here. We're not interested in swapping side but love the idea of being watched.

We've done cams before and now want to take it to the next level being watched in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d love to come and watch, can travel

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By *urulovesnylonMan  over a year ago

Harrow

I’d love to be watched but not sure if the fella below will perform under pressure

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By *andDeeCouple  over a year ago

Ashford


"People wanting to watch is definitely a thing.

We were at a club once and decided to go and play on our own for a bit. There was one other couple in the room when we started.

By the time we'd finished there were 8 couples watching us. "

We’ve had the same happen with us. I was taking my missus from behind so she was unaware of couples entering the room on hearing and then finding us, fucking with the door open and watching.

Wife was unaware she was cumming in front of an audience until she turned her head.

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By *ow are you ABCMan  over a year ago

Chester

Love being watched

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By *andSCouple  over a year ago

Old London Town


"People wanting to watch is definitely a thing.

We were at a club once and decided to go and play on our own for a bit. There was one other couple in the room when we started.

By the time we'd finished there were 8 couples watching us.

We’ve had the same happen with us. I was taking my missus from behind so she was unaware of couples entering the room on hearing and then finding us, fucking with the door open and watching.

Wife was unaware she was cumming in front of an audience until she turned her head. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Me and my fella don’t play with others. We love being watched and being in the environment. "

I would love to watch you play

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We love being watched and putting on a show.

Been playing and other couple who much older came in and she asked if they could play with her. As a foursome was so good and seeing my Mrs and the lady kissing and fondling as her pussy on show as he licked and fingered her as we all then played and swapped wives to fuck xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We were talking to a couple yesterday who want to go to a club just to be watched.

It’s not something we have done but just puzzled as to what peoples opinions would be. We prefer everybody to join in when we have fun"

I'm sure there are people who go to clubs just to watch.

For a voyeur it would be a good thrill just to see people dressed sexily or naked, plus the added bonus of watching people playing.

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