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By *annah_88 OP Couple
over a year ago
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So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested? |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
if we didn't live so far apart id be more than happy to oblige with this sadly however we couldn't be any further apart. I'm 100% sure many many men would be more than willing for to take part in this  |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
Your PM’s are about to detonate  |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?
Your PM’s are about to detonate "
your not wrong |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
Its OK but not for me. My sexuall appetite is much bigger lol |
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The thing is that the only rule is whatever you’re happy to do. Do not feel pressurised into doing anything outside of your comfort zone. If you feel you’ll be pushed then you’re meeting the wrong person. We, at first did only very soft swap. It was only after numerous meets that we were happy to take things to full sex. At that point we were totally at ease with the couple and had become very good friends. |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
Everyone has their own rules and you have to be comfortable with what you are doing, so for those who don't like it they can always move on to someone else. Just do what makes you comfortable. |
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Yep, soft swap is a thing. So just oral and other non penetration play with the other parties before fucking your partner. Anyone worth meeting will be fine with that. They you can decide at a later stage what you’d be comfortable with.
We don’t promise anything when we meet, as our attraction is much more intangible. |
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"Yep, soft swap is a thing. So just oral and other non penetration play with the other parties before fucking your partner. Anyone worth meeting will be fine with that. They you can decide at a later stage what you’d be comfortable with.
We don’t promise anything when we meet, as our attraction is much more intangible. "
Well said |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
The beauty of Fab is that there are people on here that want all sorts of different experiences,so don't worry about "not enough".
You are in charge, so you advise what you want and your potential meets have to agree.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My question would be what are you getting out of this ? "
To me it sounds like she not ready to swing yet and I think it's best for her to wait until she us , if she's forced in anyway it won't end well for her relationship. |
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"Well hopefully my skills would be reciprocated lol
I do really enjoy giving oral and I think / hope the feelings will be heightened with hubby watching. X"
It's a shame you're not in London! This sounds ideal to me. As others have already said, communication is key and understand what others want... if I were to meet up and properly understand what you were looking for I'd have no problems whatsoever staying in that lane.
So... ever in London? Hehe  |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
That’s where we started at each stage, first club visit, first meet, first solo meets.
Just be sure expectations are set before hand. Both between yourselves as a couple and the other party. And if you set limits best to stick with them for your first time, things can develop quickly when the mood is hot and it’s not always easy to discuss changing limits between you and your party in those moments.
There will always be other meets to take next steps once you have time to assess and discuss
Hope it all works out for you, I still remember our first encounters and even with limits they were very hot
T x   |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
As long as it’s clear that’s all your ready for then any genuine guy would respect that and work with you .. good luck when it happens and the guy will be a lucky one |
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"So me and hubby have finally agreed that it’s time for a meet but not sure if we are ready for me to have full sex with a guy yet. Does anyone think that maybe me giving the guy a blowjob while hubby watches is ok or is that not enough for people to be interested?"
Just make sure that you set the boundaries; ie, no sex/kissing etc. |
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