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How honest are you with meets?
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By *aldybiMan
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"My profile is 100% honest so I tend to stay with that."
Same here. I have neither the stomach nor the memory to make up a decent lie and stick with it.
"Honesty is the best policy!", said Mr Fogg.  |
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As honest as necessary. If we're meeting for a one off I don't feel the need to discuss my work in more than basic detail, nor do I need to discuss my family.
My more regular playmates don't know that much - why would they need to? They know what turns me on and we chat small talk.
I don't demand an answer to questions I ask, if people prefer not to tell me then that's fine.
I have had occasions when I've said that I prefer not to talk about something and that choice has been greeted with huffiness. Guess how many more meets they get...    |
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I am always honest and possibly guilty of oversharing!
If others want to lie, that's up to them but then they have to face the consequences of their actions (I'm talking about the not-so-single guys here). You should always be honest if you expect honesty in return.
The truth will always come out - most of the time from your own mouth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have neither the energy or inclination to lie. I would trip myself up very quickly. Plus I do actually like who I am so don't really see the need to lie to enhance that. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I have no need to lie about anything (I don't have family, to worry about persay) So it is only me, and I'd hate a meet to lie to me, I just don't get it, I've had it done to me (more by omission, than an out right lie) but I really don't like it! Total turn off here if I were to find out  |
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"I am always honest and possibly guilty of oversharing!
If others want to lie, that's up to them but then they have to face the consequences of their actions (I'm talking about the not-so-single guys here). "
...not forgetting the not-so-single girls too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And taking safe sex, sexual health out of the issue how important is it to you?
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Well I dont drive my motorbike while standing on the seat with a bag on my head so I am not going to poke my cock in a hole that might not be safe without a welly on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally honest about all the things I need to be honest about! Some things are nothing to do with a meet so either hidden or fabricated, this part of my life is not part of my normal life
On the other hand if it's a regular meet, I am chatty Sally lol 
What can I say I'm fickle  |
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Do I believe that all these posts are true? Lol. No! Everyone lies or omits the truth. Ive met people regularly for months and they won't know where I live or work or any real details about me. They don't need to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And taking safe sex, sexual health out of the issue how important is it to you?
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 honesty and protectiong your own life dont always go hand in hand on sites like these
I was stalked by a female from another "chat" site; because i refused to have sex with her when we met (long storey); she made my life shit for 6 months; but with great support of mates there (UKCB), i got through it; however i am so glad i never gave her my place of work or other personal stuff - so honesty needs to be gauged with time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im a compulsive liar on mine...im really a male dart-playing lookalike from barnsley who cums in my pants before i even arrange a meet, never mind get to one, and all my verifications are from other profiles i have created |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im a compulsive liar on mine...im really a male dart-playing lookalike from barnsley who cums in my pants before i even arrange a meet, never mind get to one, and all my verifications are from other profiles i have created"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*recreational user of soft drugs.
I don't tell people unless they either bring it up or I see they do aswell.
I don't really drink, I don't smoke, I'm tested for all std's and clear, I'm also single by my own choice.
I'm proud of who I am and have no want or need to lie.
My recreational use does get a bad reaction sometimes, I'm not compulsive with it and won't take with me unless discussed before X |
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"And taking safe sex, sexual health out of the issue how important is it to you?
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Try not to give away details which might come back to bite me, like where I work or frequent...just in case.
The questions I find harder to be honest about are the 'did you enjoy that?' Because sometimes there is room for improvement, but as is often said 'I've never had any complaints' well, who has, honestly??
Post shag guys with their happy faces don't really wanna hear m'eh, was ok I suppose! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are 100% honest in what we tell people...we are just careful what we do tell people...there is no need for people to know everything and frankly we often feel uncomfortable with what people seem to feel the need to share...all we need is enough information to decide if we want to swing with you...we treat every first meet as though it was a one off because that is how they often end up but are always happy when they don't...so share more when we know people better |
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"i treat everything on a need to know basis, if i dont feel someone needs to know i dont tell them"
Same here. I don't lie, I just don't tell people things if I don't need to (unless they're regular in which case I'm also rather chatty) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we dont lie about anything on our file and we both do sex safe when it comes to meeting other people you get a few on fabs who lie whats that all about about  .... doesnt get you any where and you get found out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of all these who are "100% honest"
A.) do you give your real name?
B.) for the guys, where dya measure your cocks from??
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I am honest and don't see what name has to do with it. I use my nick name and people know its not the one on my birth cert so im not lying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only tell them what they need to know.
Which isn't much.
I do like an air of mystique."
im like that, to be honest i find people who ask to many questions off putting, i dont see why they need to know where i live as i dont accommodate, where i work or how many kids i have, some people just want to know everything about you, dont get me wrong i dont want to just turn up, fuck and go, i do like to talk to people but about every day things theres no need to know the ins and outs of your arse hole to know if you want to fuck someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only tell them what they need to know.
Which isn't much.
I do like an air of mystique.
im like that, to be honest i find people who ask to many questions off putting, i dont see why they need to know where i live as i dont accommodate, where i work or how many kids i have, some people just want to know everything about you, dont get me wrong i dont want to just turn up, fuck and go, i do like to talk to people but about every day things theres no need to know the ins and outs of your arse hole to know if you want to fuck someone "
Same here. I don't give much away at all. All they need to know is I'm female. Can't think of anything else I'd need to say.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was brought up to tell the truth and shame the devil and anyway too ditsy to remember if I tell a lie I know some people have names they use just for this site I couldn't even fo that cos I would forget lol xx |
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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago
Croydon |
We cover off the 'rules' etc before we meet so when we do we can just get on with enjoying.
Lucky we dont have any rules!
One thing we do mention is that we (me and my partner) play together without condoms, and but if thats an issue for the F were meeting then not a problem for us to use condoms with each other during the meet.
And I always uses condoms with any F were meeting.
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