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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how men feel about blowjobs but more specifically if it’s important to have your cum swallowed / or to cum in a mouth? Or do you prefer just cum on a face?
Be honest as possible, I’m eager to know what would be best for yous when I’m sucking, and whether men in general feel disappointed when women pull off and don’t let you cum in my mouth / swallow it?
What’s your ideal scenario, wanking yourself on an open mouth, facefucking at the end until you cum down their throat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only ever had one spitter. I don't know why but I found it hilarious.
Becky gargles before swallowing, but doesn't mind it over other face/arse/tits. She's a good girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mostly cause it physically feels better ? Or is it more psychological knowing you’ve came in a mouth? "
Watching this thread with interest to gain a better understanding. I personally think facials, cim and swallowing are degrading and a tad gross. I acknowledge some people love it and always wonder why. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Mostly cause it physically feels better ? Or is it more psychological knowing you’ve came in a mouth?
Watching this thread with interest to gain a better understanding. I personally think facials, cim and swallowing are degrading and a tad gross. I acknowledge some people love it and always wonder why. "
Same ~ someone came in my mouth after removing the condom, oh my god I literally wretched. I was so embarrassed ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Mostly cause it physically feels better ? Or is it more psychological knowing you’ve came in a mouth? "
I find it extremely intense when a woman sucks me to completion. I love that loss of control and the feeling of someone taking it |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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I do enjoy the sensation of cumming in a woman's mouth, and like it when she swallows, but if she doesn't enjoy cum in her mouth/swallowing I'd prefer she just didn't suck me to orgasm in the first place rather than take it then jump up and rush off to the bathroom or whatever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I give lady’s oral to completion but would not let a lady suck me had bad experience when younger a lady bit instead of sucking trip to ae blood everywhere ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Mostly cause it physically feels better ? Or is it more psychological knowing you’ve came in a mouth? "
I like the psychological of wanting and letting a man cum in my mouth, an awful lot of it is in the head, no pun intended |
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I think the key is consistency. If you brought me to climax with say your mouth and then just as I am about to cum there is a change to yours or my hand, this really impacts the orgasm. So for me, I would rather just continue with however the climax has been built
To answer the other part of your question, to be made to cum by mouth is intense, and probably one of the best ways. To cum straight down the throat is a dominant thing and for me is a turn on (I am a dominant)
What specifically happens to the cum from your mouth is less important (swallow, dribble etc), as long as it is appreciated by the recipient. In the dominant space, my seed is considered a desirable thing, so to just run off and spit it down the toilet, would not go down well. However this is all down to the dynamic of the scene etc
Personally I will cum IN the mouth, pussy or arse, above cumming OVER face, breasts, pussy or arse
I hope that helps, but I guess that the reality is that there is no right or wrong answer, it is all down to your partner. For some, they will go wild if they can cum over a woman’s shoes etc, and therefore you are best to simply ask. If you give your partner the freedom to cum in their preferred way, they will no doubt soon show you!
Communication!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mostly cause it physically feels better ? Or is it more psychological knowing you’ve came in a mouth?
Watching this thread with interest to gain a better understanding. I personally think facials, cim and swallowing are degrading and a tad gross. I acknowledge some people love it and always wonder why. "
Cumming in a woman's mouth feels better, as someone has said before it's the loss of control as you shoot into her mouth. Only if that's what she wants of course.
The psychology of it is a factor too. There's an element of power in cim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some don’t even want to suck cock let alone swallow fabworld is going to blow my mind "
Had one who would not suck me after it had been up her vag. Had a few in my time who would not suck, and a few who would not take cum in their mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the lady is so kind to let me cum in her mouth then brilliant. But once I nutted I don’t care, spit it out, swallow it, seagull someone, it’s entirely up to her, it’s her property and problem now ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex would not swallow or have it over her face. Would still suck like a Hoover though.
Another loved it.
Personally I like to watch it dribble down her chin |
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Think that's down to the women's preference. My preference would be swallow though as it makes it alot more intense. Someone good at it and it can make it that bit too good and to hard to handle. One of the best irgasms i ever had was from someone sucking every last drop out and I genuinely couldn't handle it |
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"I’ve never been with anyone who doesn’t swallow... also I’ve been told my cum tastes like coffee multiple times "
Cappuccino??? .... makes me thin of the Scene from Blackadder Goes Forth - lol xx
R xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuming in someones mouth isnt important to me so they could spit or swallow. Makes no odds. I like to get to the moment and pull out and cum on there body. If she allows thow. I love watching myself cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's all down to the recipient of the cum. Of course it's fantastic to have the person gulp and gargle the load, as most men find it empowering, but I think a lot of men don't care what happens once the spunk has charged out of their balls. Personally, I am happy either way: there's one lady I have met several times on here' whose oral expertise is second to none, and has always gulped it down hungrily, and I adore her for it; though if she chose NOT to do so I would still be the shuddering mess she leaves me in. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Mostly cause it physically feels better ? Or is it more psychological knowing you’ve came in a mouth? " For me nothing beats the feeling of ejaculating while still in a person's mouth and being sucked. It's absolute heaven.
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"Just wondering how men feel about blowjobs but more specifically if it’s important to have your cum swallowed / or to cum in a mouth? Or do you prefer just cum on a face?
Be honest as possible, I’m eager to know what would be best for yous when I’m sucking, and whether men in general feel disappointed when women pull off and don’t let you cum in my mouth / swallow it?
What’s your ideal scenario, wanking yourself on an open mouth, facefucking at the end until you cum down their throat?"
It's been so long since I received oral sex to completion, that I really wouldn't care what she did with my cum, I would just enjoy the novelty ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mostly cause it physically feels better ? Or is it more psychological knowing you’ve came in a mouth? "
A bit of both really, because if they swallow, they usually keep sucking as you're cumming.
But I'd say mainly psychological. It shouldn't make any difference really, but you are left with a bigger smile on your face if they have swallowed. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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Much prefer to cum in a mouth than over a face. I find over a face degrading for the women even if they like it. Doesn’t sit well with me.
I have had it before where I’ve cum in her mouth then see decided to kiss me unexpectedly with some still left in her mouth. It’s was a very hot moment.
Another lady used to like sucking then at the moment of me cumming jump on top and let me cum inside her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve never been with anyone who doesn’t swallow... also I’ve been told my cum tastes like coffee multiple times
Cappuccino??? .... makes me thin of the Scene from Blackadder Goes Forth - lol xx
R xx"
Haha hadn’t thought of that ?? |
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I don't mind if a lady doesn't want me to finish in her mouth - I can appreciate it's not for everyone! If I am though, I'd prefer to finish while I'm in her mouth and I'd prefer her to swallow.
I prefer facials, as I'm very visual, and most prior experience was with ladies who didn't like cum in her mouth. Mind you, I'm not upset when Mrs KC swallows
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I’m playing with guys then a requirement/preference for me is that they swallow. The feeling of swallowing is very different for me compared to when your partner stops as you being to orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some woman like it some don’t . At no point would I expect someone to do something they didn’t like . Generally if I say I’m going to cum and they keep going then there is the answer . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering how men feel about blowjobs but more specifically if it’s important to have your cum swallowed / or to cum in a mouth? Or do you prefer just cum on a face?
Be honest as possible, I’m eager to know what would be best for yous when I’m sucking, and whether men in general feel disappointed when women pull off and don’t let you cum in my mouth / swallow it?
What’s your ideal scenario, wanking yourself on an open mouth, facefucking at the end until you cum down their throat?"
Love wanking into an open mouth/face aswell as holding my cock in there shooting a big load. Very hot. Open to it being the other way around too. Wouldnt want to ask someone to do something I wouldn't lol |
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"Just wondering how men feel about blowjobs but more specifically if it’s important to have your cum swallowed / or to cum in a mouth? Or do you prefer just cum on a face?
Be honest as possible, I’m eager to know what would be best for yous when I’m sucking, and whether men in general feel disappointed when women pull off and don’t let you cum in my mouth / swallow it?
What’s your ideal scenario, wanking yourself on an open mouth, facefucking at the end until you cum down their throat?"
I’m fine with it if I know them well or am seeing them. If not, cum elsewhere or in the condom ha.
Don’t find it degrading at all in the vanilla world, but I love being degraded so....
I think it’s expected though! |
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"Just wondering how men feel about blowjobs but more specifically if it’s important to have your cum swallowed / or to cum in a mouth? Or do you prefer just cum on a face?
Be honest as possible, I’m eager to know what would be best for yous when I’m sucking, and whether men in general feel disappointed when women pull off and don’t let you cum in my mouth / swallow it?
What’s your ideal scenario, wanking yourself on an open mouth, facefucking at the end until you cum down their throat?"
Why would they feel disappointed? They should be bloody happy she was sucking their dick in the first place! |
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"Just wondering how men feel about blowjobs but more specifically if it’s important to have your cum swallowed / or to cum in a mouth? Or do you prefer just cum on a face?
Be honest as possible, I’m eager to know what would be best for yous when I’m sucking, and whether men in general feel disappointed when women pull off and don’t let you cum in my mouth / swallow it?
What’s your ideal scenario, wanking yourself on an open mouth, facefucking at the end until you cum down their throat?"
I tend to find all men swallow but not all women. Either way I get to empty ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why wank when you can be sucked/wanked? Why the open mouth when you could be feeling the warmth and softness of their mouth around you?
Surely it is always better to have the touch of your partner?
Similarly, I don’t care whether they spit, swallow, dribble or gargle with it; I’m just grateful for the bj ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Swallowers are a gift. When a woman swallows my cum, we are going again. I enjoy it more if she enjoys it and knowing she has it go down her throat is so hot.
I prefer a mouth finish to completion over outside but I wouldnt say no. Or best of both worlds and give her a facial to which she eats the cum after ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to swallow until one particular time - I don't know if it just hit me wrong or was a manky load, but I did a really loud burping retch and threw up in my mouth. Now I direct it onto my tits. |
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I'll happily swallow In that moment of a blow job, but I also enjoy the Interaction of asking him where he wants to cum this is a big as turn on as listening to him moan whilst I suck down on him
I love to pleasure and please |
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