No. This has been done to death. Where do you then draw the line? What about splitting CD's and TV's? And HPW's? What about F to M dressers? Soon you'll have an encyclopedia of gender options, and people still will put whatever they most identify with (there's a fair few dressers who are here as men)
As much as the broad strokes approach may not suit all, I think it's the easiest approach. Just means you have to dig a little deeper on your own to see if things match up, and that's half the fun! |
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"No. This has been done to death. Where do you then draw the line? What about splitting CD's and TV's? And HPW's? What about F to M dressers? Soon you'll have an encyclopedia of gender options, and people still will put whatever they most identify with (there's a fair few dressers who are here as men)
As much as the broad strokes approach may not suit all, I think it's the easiest approach. Just means you have to dig a little deeper on your own to see if things match up, and that's half the fun!"
in these days, of" gender neutral" and now well over 70 different identities you will certainly open up a can of worms here. Tom is different to Dick and Dick is different to Harry.Guys you really need to stop being lazy and just ask each person you speak to rather than bring this unnecessary topic up repeatedly. Apart from a few, who think they deserve to be on some sort of special pedastal most of us girls are ok with the way things are and have always been. |
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over a year ago
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"Admin really need to make TS and TV separate choices. Don't you agree?"
There’s no real need. If someone is ts and transitioning the chances are they change their account to their gender anyway. |
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We seem to be in an age where we just love to put labels on each other. There are too many and it just confuses a lot of people and then others get offended because someone has branded then under the wrong label.
We just accept that when we see a female they will either have a pussy or a cock. Either way, they are welcome to come and join us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes Op this old chestnut is quite insulting, although I accept you didn't mean to offend. May I suggest if you like the look of someone just read their profile and get to know them. It's not complicated.
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Read the profile of anyone you’re interested in. Plenty of TS women will just have woman as their gender identity.
So if you’re primarily looking for a pre or post op TS you’re going to have to look in both categories, women and TV/TS.
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No. Debated ad nauseum over the years - review the thousands of posts. As a protected characteristic by law, the trans community should not be forced for the convenience of others to have to disclose what may be uncomfortable and cause them distress. People may be on a journey that doesn't progress as they would wish to, is under the control of others and may suffer hardship. Inform others as you wish to. Labels are for products. |
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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago
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I am listed as a man because as that was what i considered that was i was when i joined. Started dressing for a bit of fun and it's blossomed  into a new journey. Now if i wanted to change my title to TV i would not know how to do it without deleting my account and starting again  which i am not going to do. Any you just have to look at my profile pick to see what i might be. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I agree! Read the profile! Some of us have them filled with useful information xxx"
Haha yes, the number of men who ask if I've "had the chop" (very eloquent!) and if I can meet on a Wednesday lunchtime.
I wish they'd just read my profile, I then get accused of being a time waster when I say no... |
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"We seem to be in an age where we just love to put labels on each other. There are too many and it just confuses a lot of people and then others get offended because someone has branded then under the wrong label.
We just accept that when we see a female they will either have a pussy or a cock. Either way, they are welcome to come and join us xx"
A fabulous attitude to have.
There are three ways gender Identity work;
Basic pigeon....
Ultra fancy pigeon....
Eat the pigeon.... |
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