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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello =)
As a single male I struggle on here to get anyone to reply to my emaails, let alone send me one in the first place.
What would you say you would like to see on a profile when you look at it before the message or even after? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"you look a really decent lad, good luck on here
i wish more people noticed this =("
join in with banter, keep positive and give off happy vibes... you will be amazed how quickly you will be noticed for ALL the right reasons
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello =)
As a single male I struggle on here to get anyone to reply to my emaails, let alone send me one in the first place.
What would you say you would like to see on a profile when you look at it before the message or even after? "
You are a single male so it will never be easy as they are by far the majority here. So you need to stand out. And your profile, while there is nothing particularly wrong with it, is pretty bland. Does it make you stand out from the masses? No. And that's your shop window.
Plus you can't accomodate, and rightly or wrongly single men are judged very harshly on that single fact.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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You are a single male so it will never be easy as they are by far the majority here. So you need to stand out. And your profile, while there is nothing particularly wrong with it, is pretty bland. Does it make you stand out from the masses? No. And that's your shop window.
Plus you can't accomodate, and rightly or wrongly single men are judged very harshly on that single fact.
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I do understand about the accomodation bit, but theres not much i can do about it haha.
I always struggle when it comes to writing a profile and never really know what to put, and i dont want to be looking at other profiles to nick ideas because thats cheating haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you look a really decent lad, good luck on here
i wish more people noticed this =(
pssst! stick around on the forums, it'll get ya meets ![](/icons/thumb_up.png)
Wolf
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wish i had known this b4 lol ive been hanging around the chat rooms |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"you look a really decent lad, good luck on here
i wish more people noticed this =(
pssst! stick around on the forums, it'll get ya meets ![](/icons/thumb_up.png)
Wolf
wish i had known this b4 lol ive been hanging around the chat rooms"
I bet your profile will have had more looks tonight, you are bantering well and giving off happy vibes
good luck on here |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"you look a really decent lad, good luck on here
i wish more people noticed this =(
pssst! stick around on the forums, it'll get ya meets ![](/icons/thumb_up.png)
Wolf
wish i had known this b4 lol ive been hanging around the chat rooms"
chat is also good for getting noticed but remember only to the ones in there at the time, forum posts have more stickability |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you look a really decent lad, good luck on here
i wish more people noticed this =(
pssst! stick around on the forums, it'll get ya meets ![](/icons/thumb_up.png)
Wolf
wish i had known this b4 lol ive been hanging around the chat rooms
I bet your profile will have had more looks tonight, you are bantering well and giving off happy vibes
good luck on here"
thanks dude truth be told i only found out about the forums 2days ago lol |
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Get yourself down to some clubs. Id suggest that's a better way to meet people. Once you've done that you can, with their approval, add them as friends. I don't think there is much more you can do otherwise. It's not personal to you. There are just so many. We blocked single men for a while but since unblocking them have found some really nice blokes. Guess its all down to luck! Hope lady luck brings you some fun soon!! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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