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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I offer it as a way to say hello that or fab a photo or two lol
Then I'll message a thank you and we can go from there 
Even if it's only to say thank you |
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"We ignore them. If people want to get inside our pants then a short email isn’t much to ask. If you saw someone in a bar you fancied you would go and say hi right?"
You may smile at them or raise your eyebrows and see if they smile back, or they may scowl and look away. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I use a wink rarely. Usually if I think I'm compatible, but not completely sure. I'd much rather message usually. If I'm winked at, I will usually message back, but nothing has ever come from it.
On a side issue it would be good if we were able to see who we had previously winked at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven’t recived any winks or messages that weren’t part forums think if you’re going to message someone at least introduce yourself make bit effort chat see if it’s right if not then hey if works good for you but my observations and opinion are don’t send a dick pick for introduction they don’t see that till we play adult games like let’s hide the sausage only a personal opinion though I might be wrong I usually am  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like them, they certainly have there part in the site.
Example ....
Profile One likes the look of profile two, maybe they're just an year or two out of their age range, or something else that makes them question whether or not they are what profile two are looking for.
They send a wink to save time of creating a message to fit accordingly.
Profile two notice the wink, they check out profile one, decide they like and so wink back.
Profile One then goes about creating that message and it leads from there.
Or, profile two don't like and so skip it by, saving the hassles of opening a message from an undesirable.
Saving everybody's time or making the first move.
Used correctly, it can be a positive experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send winks (J) if I'm interested in a profile, some people I know get so many messages so I think it's a great way to check out another profile without feeling the pressure to reply/ignore if it's not for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We ignore them. If people want to get inside our pants then a short email isn’t much to ask. If you saw someone in a bar you fancied you would go and say hi right?"
It's likely a smile, a nod or some gesture will happen before approaching you.
Kinda the idea here behind the winks. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I rarely look at mine anymore. I use to pay more attention to them in fact a couple of great meets I had started with one of us winking at the other. So ye they can be good if you take notice of them .  |
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