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Is finding a FWB on fab a realistic expectation ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?
I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing
So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?
And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ? |
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I've found fwbs on here and also found a best friend too.
Just because it's a swinging/sex site doesn't mean you can't find anything meaningful or fulfilling on here, its all about the person after all OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never say never.
people see different things they like in each other.
ive been lucky to have relationships from here, had friends ive met and stayed in contact with, it can take time but it does happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?
I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing
So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?
And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ? "
Yes!
I've been luck and meet a few fab from fab! Best site I know for finding someone  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?
I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing
So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?
And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ?
Yes!
I've been luck and meet a few fab from fab! Best site I know for finding someone "
Ahh nice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A fwb is exactly what I’m looking for - no luck so far though"
I Havant had a great deal of luck in my search either! But fingers crossed for you and hopefully you find something soon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only"
I'm thinking about it but it's me, I worry I get clingy. If I do, how easy is it going to be to break it off? Or, how do I stop getting clingy in the first place? Any answers on how to master this are welcome. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Had but since this pandemic seems like difficult to know where things are but I'm sure everything will be ok as people's lives can be turned upside down with a hectic life and putting family members as a priority which is only right in my book if any of them are ready this you know  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only
I'm thinking about it but it's me, I worry I get clingy. If I do, how easy is it going to be to break it off? Or, how do I stop getting clingy in the first place? Any answers on how to master this are welcome. "
You just have to emotionally switch off, I mean I’m at that stage in my life purely because I think I’ve just been hurt too many times in the past, something just switched and now I seem to be emotionally unavailable, which I’m hoping is just a temporary thing lol
I wouldn’t advise taking the route of getting hurt though! X |
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From my experience of having a fwb and not from fab just a lady friend that I was chatting with and she said something about sex so I asked her if she wanted a fwb she said yes and we both had amazing sex with each other BUT THEN SHE TURNED INTO A BUNNY BOILER and wanted more than just sex and it’s been very hard to let her down gently so a fwb from here would be the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking for the same , but it seems harder atm with all the covid shite going on , at least on here you get to know what the person is into rather than just guessing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only
I'm thinking about it but it's me, I worry I get clingy. If I do, how easy is it going to be to break it off? Or, how do I stop getting clingy in the first place? Any answers on how to master this are welcome.
You just have to emotionally switch off, I mean I’m at that stage in my life purely because I think I’ve just been hurt too many times in the past, something just switched and now I seem to be emotionally unavailable, which I’m hoping is just a temporary thing lol
I wouldn’t advise taking the route of getting hurt though! X"
That's what I wonder, if I do it enough times will I become insensitive to it, emotionally switched off? Is that better? Is that where I want to be?
Being hurt is the only way you learn? No? Or it is for me anyway, I like a hard lesson. Lol
Its only when you get hurt that you stop and think about your actions. |
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By *otsMan
over a year ago
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Always nice to find someone or a couple.
Unfortunately I'm in that age gap where some have moved away to sunnyer climbs or to the seaside.
Not at a loose end.
Not easy here but always been good in the past.
Nice to find anotger single or couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"had a quite few fwb over the years but they all end up getting clingy one way or another so for me now its fuck buddys only
I'm thinking about it but it's me, I worry I get clingy. If I do, how easy is it going to be to break it off? Or, how do I stop getting clingy in the first place? Any answers on how to master this are welcome.
You just have to emotionally switch off, I mean I’m at that stage in my life purely because I think I’ve just been hurt too many times in the past, something just switched and now I seem to be emotionally unavailable, which I’m hoping is just a temporary thing lol
I wouldn’t advise taking the route of getting hurt though! X
That's what I wonder, if I do it enough times will I become insensitive to it, emotionally switched off? Is that better? Is that where I want to be?
Being hurt is the only way you learn? No? Or it is for me anyway, I like a hard lesson. Lol
Its only when you get hurt that you stop and think about your actions. "
I mean me personally I hate the fact I’m currently emotionally switched off, purely because I don’t know if there ever switch back on (I hope they do!)
My best advice would be if you feel like your starting to cling or get feelings then step away for abit, save yourself from getting hurt x |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I've reached the point where I would now and again enjoy a "fb experience" for an occasional club night.
It is difficult, because I get in my own way.
I need a mental as well as physical connection, and these days I find it hard to find someone who even reads my profile before messaging, never mind anything else!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?
I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing
Yeah I have but it’s been hard work
So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?
And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ? "
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Definitely realistic and I have found very long term fbs here. Be yourself and you will gravitate to the right people. Letting others know that they are important and valued, us a good bedrock for others to want more time with you. Remain clear that you don't want to date, as some will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do op. This website is a tool (somewhere to meet and talk to people).
It might take someone a long time to find what you want if your clear what you want, but the opportunity is here after you joined.
The trouble is, getting to talk to the people that might like you, it’s a busy place with people already doing their own thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s very rare I actually meet for a one-off, unless it’s arranged to be just that, so depending on your definition of FWB, most of my past encounter have been to some degree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s what I joined to ideally find, 1 person i can trust and connect with to share intense experiences with, also building a lasting worthwhile friendship. I’ve already made a wonderful friend through fab and that’s as far as things will go between us, I certainly didn’t expect to find that here but I’m extremely happy I did. |
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One offs or fuck and go meets do absolutely nothing for me so definitely believe it’s realistic to find a FWB via fab. Someone you click with both sexually and socially is great.
The “friend” element of an FWB is just as important to me than the “with benefits” element |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One offs or fuck and go meets do absolutely nothing for me so definitely believe it’s realistic to find a FWB via fab. Someone you click with both sexually and socially is great.
The “friend” element of an FWB is just as important to me than the “with benefits” element"
Exactly this. I can't just screw people food the sake of sex. I need to have a connection with them and build a friendship. I've made some wonderful friends from here, some with the bonus of amazing sex and some without. Either way, I'm grateful for all of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh the elusive fwb.... I’ve been seeking one of these during my last two times on here... and without any luck sadly.
As I say... I want the relations without the ship... all the perks without the works... but it seems everyone near me’s after notches with a fuck and go mentality.
Quality over quantity for me... I also need to want to rip their clothes off at regular intervals as well as like them as a person... getting a good physical and mental attraction.
I’m still an optimist at the moment .... before I give up and become a nun! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh the elusive fwb.... I’ve been seeking one of these during my last two times on here... and without any luck sadly.
As I say... I want the relations without the ship... all the perks without the works... but it seems everyone near me’s after notches with a fuck and go mentality.
Quality over quantity for me... I also need to want to rip their clothes off at regular intervals as well as like them as a person... getting a good physical and mental attraction.
I’m still an optimist at the moment .... before I give up and become a nun! Lol "
I’m in same boat I think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?
I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing
So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?
And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ? "
Keep hanging in there OP. Course it's possible . I have one or two regular ladies I see. All in my social bubble of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve made some great friends and found my fella.
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Awww bless Lexi. He's a lucky guy And you're a lovely lass . Happy for you. It's been ages since I've seen you .
In fact It's been ages since I've seen most people for that matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?
I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing
So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?
And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ?
Keep hanging in there OP. Course it's possible . I have one or two regular ladies I see. All in my social bubble of course "
Well you should really only have 1  |
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We have one or two guys we see semi regularly. It’s good in that we have more chats and laughs before and after the play and it’s more relaxed as time goes on. Although, we still like the thrill of meeting a new person! There’s nothing like it, doesn’t always end well but it’s that in the moment thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just out of curiosity has anyone found themselves a fwb directly through fab?
I’m at a point in my life we’re a full on committed relationship has no real interest to me, but at the same point I don’t just want a endless string of one night stands, something regular would be more my thing
So I suppose my question is mainly aimed at the lovely single woman on fab, is a regular fwb something you would actively seek or something that not much of interest ?
And of course to the couples that look for single males, is a regular male something you prefer ?
Keep hanging in there OP. Course it's possible . I have one or two regular ladies I see. All in my social bubble of course
Well you should really only have 1 "
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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We have found a fwb of nearly a year now without looking, from Initial fab message, it's tough at times, we in a long term relationship of over 20yrs, but this seems a great solution all round but takes effort and balance to keep us all happy and sane. Both guys very different, get on well for ems mutual pleasure as a three or as a two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are hoping to find a lady that there is a connection , as a couple it's a first for us , but finding it really hard to find someone not a million miles away that will fit and will become FWB.
Not going to go the just random sex route shall plug away and hope that round the corner we meet someone, any advice would be great, just want to meet a women not a man though |
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Ive been lucky to of had a few, all nice ladies who just noved onto better things, it suits me as work akot but do love great honest company not just for sex but for other things to share, its great ehen tou find a like mind |
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