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What’s the point in sending a apperception email?
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"Just curious as to why people send a email complimenting you on your pics/profile, knowing they are not what you are looking for..... " Hoping to get a response | |||
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"I sometimes message people to complement them, to ask a question (for example where they took a photo as it looks a lovely spot to visit) or to comment on their status (especially if they sound like they need cheering up or are looking for someone to talk to) . There is no ulterior motive, and if they reply, I'll not drag the conversation towards meets our sex, as that wasn't the point of it. If they want to go that way, that's fine but most of the time I wouldn't as it's not why I contacted them. I just like chatting to like minded people." Which is also why I don't filter anyone from messaging me, even if they aren't my type. | |||
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"Just curious as to why people send a email complimenting you on your pics/profile, knowing they are not what you are looking for..... " Simply because something brings pleasure and it's lovely to have that acknowledged. It's a friendly social interaction and a sign of appreciation. No more, no less. | |||
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"Don't get it either. And I'm an up my arse bitch for not responding!!" Yeah turns out they aren't lovely people complimenting to make someone feel nice | |||
"A simple fab would be sufficient...... I’m not a sharpest pencil in the box , but it just seems like a waste of time....." Following that train of thought though, so many things in life are a waste of time. | |||
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"Some will be hoping for a response but many like myself are simply being nice with no hidden agenda. You must know what it feels like to receive a compliment op." Compliments when well intended are lovely. But if I get a “you are beautiful” message I don’t feel the same way. They don’t know if I’m beautiful or not. It’s a ruse to get a response. It’s kinda sad that it makes us hardened, but to hear it from people we love is just the best. V x | |||
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If a particularly well thought out profile which has obviously taken some effort catches my eye, I like to drop a little compliment as I know I like it when it happens to me x | |||
"To be nice ? X" I agree It’s nice to be nice and give someone a compliment !! It’s a refreshing change from hearing about the horrible stuff people get sent !!! | |||
"Just curious as to why people send a email complimenting you on your pics/profile, knowing they are not what you are looking for..... " It's called paying a compliment with no ulterior motive...that's all... I chat to peeps here and they know they're not my type... It's just an online platonic relationship and they know it will never go any further...but yet they're content to continue chatting which is nice... they're not just trying to get into my nicks  | |||
"I sometimes message people to complement them, to ask a question (for example where they took a photo as it looks a lovely spot to visit) or to comment on their status (especially if they sound like they need cheering up or are looking for someone to talk to) . There is no ulterior motive, and if they reply, I'll not drag the conversation towards meets our sex, as that wasn't the point of it. If they want to go that way, that's fine but most of the time I wouldn't as it's not why I contacted them. I just like chatting to like minded people. Which is also why I don't filter anyone from messaging me, even if they aren't my type. " We are the same. Sometimes it's just nice to chat. And, let's be honest, we all enjoy a compliment | |||
"Some will be hoping for a response but many like myself are simply being nice with no hidden agenda. You must know what it feels like to receive a compliment op. Compliments when well intended are lovely. But if I get a “you are beautiful” message I don’t feel the same way. They don’t know if I’m beautiful or not. It’s a ruse to get a response. It’s kinda sad that it makes us hardened, but to hear it from people we love is just the best. V x " I completely get that, especially if that's all they say. I personally don't do it often, it has to be the whole profile that shines out for me. Not just pics. Unless it's a forum game of course. | |||
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"Just curious as to why people send a email complimenting you on your pics/profile, knowing they are not what you are looking for..... It's called paying a compliment with no ulterior motive...that's all... I chat to peeps here and they know they're not my type... It's just an online platonic relationship and they know it will never go any further...but yet they're content to continue chatting which is nice... they're not just trying to get into my nicks "Same here, its all part of being in the swinging lifestyle for me.  | |||
"It’s a random act of kindness, of which there should be more. It’s the same reason I randomly sent out jelly babies to loads of people during the first lockdown. It gives me a warm fluffy feeling! "Please can I request jelly tots next time you wanting a fluffy feeling | |||
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"Just curious as to why people send a email complimenting you on your pics/profile, knowing they are not what you are looking for..... " Mmm are you hoping for views/response | |||
"Just curious as to why people send a email complimenting you on your pics/profile, knowing they are not what you are looking for..... " Because fundamentally people want to feel they have a chance. Seeing the mail icon light up yellow gets you excited so people try their luck. | |||
"Just curious as to why people send a email complimenting you on your pics/profile, knowing they are not what you are looking for..... Mmm are you hoping for views/response " No , I actually come to the forums to discuss topics.... I’m in America so views on my profile are not my goal.... I’m looking for kinky sex | |||
"This is a interesting thread..... I didn’t know random guys emailing....telling me I have a beautiful cock was a act of kindness.... Maybe I’ve lost the true ethos of swinging because I actually like to receive emails from people I’m compatible with that want to meet..." Exactly. It’s not a random act of kindness. To say you liked my pictures or profile is a compliment because that’s on public view. To say something about me personally that isn’t known.... well that isn’t !!! | |||
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