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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"A message from someone we find attractive.
I suppose that helps alot  "
If the attraction isn’t there, a ‘great’ message won’t make any difference, whereas a ‘poor’ message from someone we find attractive won’t necessarily mean no interest from us. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
I look at a profile & determine whether the person is of any interest before I decide whether to open a message.
As far as message content goes, I appreciate it when they demonstrate that they took the time to read my profile & refer to it in some way & when they make the effort to tell me a bit more about themselves. Humour also goes down well.
Anything along the lines of "Hi", "how you doing?" or similar is very unlikely to make me engage in conversation.
Copy and pasted messages are generally easy to spot and show that they aren't genuinely interested in me. |
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I always read their profile, if I don't match what they're looking for I don't message at all.
If we're looking for similar I'll comment on their profile, a photo I like or their status.
I ask a question too so they have something to reply too. Dislike getting a message that is just a statement with nothing to reply too & making it harder to strike up a conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would look at the sender's profile before we open the message,if they are clearly not what we are looking for,ie don't match what our profile requests,there's no point opening the message.
If they do match,then we expect a bit more than,how's you?,what you at?,what you looking for? etc |
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