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Is it just me or do most women not reply
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here
No, a personality is the best feature "
. It's very hard to get a personality across when you can't get a reply, I reply to everyone and then decide if I want to take it any further |
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By *S2004Man
over a year ago
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"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here
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All single men feel your pain....and whilst frustrating that messages considering a persons profile go unread it is bordering on impossible for a single female to keep up with messages. My partner has one and there can be hundreds following a status update or a picture.x
A read message without a reply is not rude it just efficient for females and actually increases the amount of genuine replies they can send. I met my partner on here as a single male so you will never find me complaining.
All I can say is that a well thought out message is more likely to get a reply than the the vast majority sent by single males. |
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6 packs are irrelevant.
Make a bit more effort with your profile, variety of pics, say in your bio what it is you're looking for, what you enjoy, what you like in a woman.
And send well thought out first messages! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"6 packs are irrelevant.
Make a bit more effort with your profile, variety of pics, say in your bio what it is you're looking for, what you enjoy, what you like in a woman.
And send well thought out first messages!"
thank you for the advice, it's much appreciated and I realize I must do better |
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"6 packs are irrelevant.
Make a bit more effort with your profile, variety of pics, say in your bio what it is you're looking for, what you enjoy, what you like in a woman.
And send well thought out first messages! thank you for the advice, it's much appreciated and I realize I must do better"
That's a good start! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clear pics and politeness helps messages saying when we fucking will always b blocked by me"
I honestly have never started a message that way although asking how are you is a big no no to
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I'm not looking to meet men but if I was, I would be looking for the following.
Well written profile. This includes reasonable grammar, paragraphs and ideally no text language.
Positivity.
What you are looking for and can offer.
No clichés unless clearly in jest.
At least 3 clear photos that do not include or focus on your cock.
That is all assuming that the message was decent in the first place.
Bonus points for humour and obvious intelligence.
OP, the problem is that men far outnumber women, so you need to stand out... in a good way. |
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"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here
No, a personality is the best feature
 This!! x hopefully it works "
When clubs reopen, give one a try.
Not everyone is good at conveying their personality in text. |
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"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here
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Nope, I’ve got a six pack that’s covered with a dad belly, 80% of my messages go unread, 15% go unanswered. About 4% get a polite no thank you, which leaves 1% who start a proper conversation with.
I custom write every message. No copy and paste. And I post a face pic with every first message sent.
You have to remember, some girls can get literally 100’s of messages a day! There is no way they get to read them all. |
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Plus I’ve just checked your profile. 60% of your photos are dick pics, no face pic and a one sentence bio. What makes you stand out from the other 10,000 guys messaging her?
You have to put the effort in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don’t need a six pack to get a reply on here.
All that’s needed is a woman that’s interested in you, as that’s pretty much the only thing to guarantee a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow I haven’t read one of these threads in a long time.......
Op try this ....
Don’t send anymore messages and wait for a woman/couple to contact you....
This advice seems radical and crazy but it works.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you must need a six pack to get a reply on here
All single men feel your pain....and whilst frustrating that messages considering a persons profile go unread it is bordering on impossible for a single female to keep up with messages. My partner has one and there can be hundreds following a status update or a picture.x
A read message without a reply is not rude it just efficient for females and actually increases the amount of genuine replies they can send. I met my partner on here as a single male so you will never find me complaining.
All I can say is that a well thought out message is more likely to get a reply than the the vast majority sent by single males."
You're not kidding... "fancy a fuck babe" or "[insert things they would do to me]" haha.
Grim beyond belief. No grammar and badly arranged messages made up of short hand text speak from 30+ year olds, that should really know better.
And the shit you get back if you don't reply, wow.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with the above.
But if a message vanishes after 3 weeks, what does it mean?"
Maybe they have done a mass delete?
It usually says in your sent items whats happened to your message, if its been deleted or read etc.
If youre unlucky enough to be part of a mass delete, its not personal, its just clearing out the cobwebs and a diamond will have been missed etc. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh man ..... if we all had £1 for every time this thread came up....."
100%.......
When I see threads like this , I always wonder if the Op is looking for a magical formula to make people answer their emails... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could send several messages and not get a single reply is this because of my physical appearance.......nope! Is it because I've dropped a single line or a detailed epic spanning several messages......nope! Is it because women are only looking for a specific type?.......nope! It's because women get 100s of messages per hour and if you're not standing out as a shark in a puddle then you're one of a million plus minnows snagging the same bait in a massive ocean.
Be creative, be original, be you and don't be bitter that for every message you've sent, you've not had a reply or don't get a no thanks. It's not personal or a stereotype you don't fit into It's just quantity over quality and if you ARE the quality then take what little you might get and be happy with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do know women get an unreal amount of messages and it must be tedious going through them all. That being said most women (not all) but most do message back... One woman messaged me 6 months later!!..  |
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"I do know women get an unreal amount of messages and it must be tedious going through them all. That being said most women (not all) but most do message back... One woman messaged me 6 months later!!.. "
I had maybe 6 messages today. Didn’t reply to any of them, deleted all of them. Why? Because they were all from people who had completely ignored my profile. |
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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago
King's lynn |
Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol "
Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive |
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I get over 300 messages a day and can't possibly reply to all of them. Plus last time I actually said no to someone I got called a fat whore! So saying 'no' isn't an option for me anymore, I just ignore instead!
Sometimes it's not us girls making things difficult! |
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"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol "
Handy hint - comments like that aren't likely to get to replies. |
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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago
King's lynn |
"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol
Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive "
It’s hideous, unappealing but yet more and more of these pictures are being used!! Sure way to NOT getting a message from me! Block!!  |
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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago
King's lynn |
"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol
Handy hint - comments like that aren't likely to get to replies. "
Not me that’s looking for replies though! I do fine thanks. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol "
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"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol
Handy hint - comments like that aren't likely to get to replies.
Not me that’s looking for replies though! I do fine thanks. "
Good for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol
Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive
It’s hideous, unappealing but yet more and more of these pictures are being used!! Sure way to NOT getting a message from me! Block!! "
Don’t forget to throw a cream pie one in there.. that’s a sure fire winner. Same mate block and move on |
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"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol "
*Cringes*  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Get a picture of a gaping fanny, thrush ridden and held open by fingers fatter than yer arm, that’s what lots of ladies think is a nice attractive feature to have as a profile picture and seems to work for them!! Lol
Hahaha i out a post on here about those photos.. in my opinion not attractive
It’s hideous, unappealing but yet more and more of these pictures are being used!! Sure way to NOT getting a message from me! Block!!
Don’t forget to throw a cream pie one in there.. that’s a sure fire winner. Same mate block and move on"
Odd, I see very little these type of photos, still I’m not looking for them.
You guys appear to be experts.
I doff my cap. |
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