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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are peoples thoughts and feelings about the term bi?
To me to be bi you have to be capable of dating or being in a relationship with someone of the same sex... I’m not capable of that but I have enjoyed same sex fun. I don’t consider myself bi.
Am I wrong? |
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"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.
See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity  "
That would make sense if it was a dating site, but as a swinging site a life-long relationship isn't the endgame.
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.
See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity "
So if you suck a guys dick but don’t feel any emotional attachment you’re still straight?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.
See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity
So if you suck a guys dick but don’t feel any emotional attachment you’re still straight? "
That’s pretty much how I see it yeah! Wouldn’t date or be in a relationship with but sex is sex right? No emotional attachment needed lol |
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Bi sexual it's in the name
If your having sex with the both genders then your are in my opinion bi sexual. It could just be orally bi of all you enjoy is sucking a cock and or being sucked by another man. |
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To me all this lets not give people labels blah blah blah is just trying to distract people from the fact that completely straight men do not suck cock and completely straight women do not lick pussy or indulge in sexual acts with the same sex.
Just be bi curious or bi, there are much worse things to be in the world, like living in denial. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Enjoying engaging in sexual activity with men and women.
See fir me being bi is more about emotion than sexual activity
So if you suck a guys dick but don’t feel any emotional attachment you’re still straight?
That’s pretty much how I see it yeah! Wouldn’t date or be in a relationship with but sex is sex right? No emotional attachment needed lol"
That’s Fab straight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a theory that a man can have sex with another man and still consider himself straight as there was no feelings of affection. Sorry but that's my definition of bisexual at the least |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a theory that a man can have sex with another man and still consider himself straight as there was no feelings of affection. Sorry but that's my definition of bisexual at the least"
Fully agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t find men attractive and have never considered being in a relationship with a man........
But, I do enjoy watching Bi porn and do enjoy cock fun. I’ve played with cocks and sucked cocks and have had guys suck my cock.
I consider myself as bi playful.
If I’m hard and horny, let’s just have fun and enjoy it, no matter what your sexuality  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t find men attractive and have never considered being in a relationship with a man........
But, I do enjoy watching Bi porn and do enjoy cock fun. I’ve played with cocks and sucked cocks and have had guys suck my cock.
I consider myself as bi playful.
If I’m hard and horny, let’s just have fun and enjoy it, no matter what your sexuality "
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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago
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"I don’t find men attractive and have never considered being in a relationship with a man........
But, I do enjoy watching Bi porn and do enjoy cock fun. I’ve played with cocks and sucked cocks and have had guys suck my cock.
I consider myself as bi playful.
You sound like my hubby.
If I’m hard and horny, let’s just have fun and enjoy it, no matter what your sexuality "
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"What are peoples thoughts and feelings about the term bi?
To me to be bi you have to be capable of dating or being in a relationship with someone of the same sex... I’m not capable of that but I have enjoyed same sex fun. I don’t consider myself bi.
Am I wrong?"
I agree with you. We both consider ourselves mostly straight. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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Bi simply mean two or twice. In the case of sexuality, twice being attracted to two sexes. Hoow attracted you are to thw two sexes can be variable. It doesn't have to be a 50/50 type of attraction to both sexes. |
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"In Fab we do need labels as it assists both parties in finding the right person. As long as there preferences are trueful! "
A label is only how someone defines themselves and how they interpret it to themselves, doesn’t make it untrue or wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As this is a swinging site and not a dating site - although one can lead to the other,it seems quite logical to me that if you engage in same sex activity, you can label yourself as bi-curious or bi-sexual. How else can you explain your preferences without writing a very long profile? |
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The definition is “a person who is sexually attracted not exclusively to people of one particular gender”. You have to feel sexual attraction to more than one gender. Not fall in love with; not have a relationship with; not enjoy sometimes touching the genitals of someone of your own gender.
But actually look at people of more than one gender and think “I fancy you”. You don’t even have to act on it, just feel it. That’s what makes you bisexual. |
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"Bi simply mean two or twice. In the case of sexuality, twice being attracted to two sexes. Hoow attracted you are to thw two sexes can be variable. It doesn't have to be a 50/50 type of attraction to both sexes."
It’s two or more genders actually. |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
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"It's surprising how many girls on here do not like bi guys,I've had a lot , oh just seen your bi,no thanks,wtf
Maybe they have a preference for straight guys?"
Which is fine we all have our preferences. However I do find it kinda insulting when it comes of as though I'm less manly cause I like to have sex with men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi man - likes all genders sexually
Bi woman - likes all genders sexually
Notice there's no difference?
There it is, doesn't matter whether you put a label on yourself or not , doesn't matter what others think of it , go for whatever feels right for you and whatever you enjoy and don't worry about anything thay others have to say about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bi man - likes all genders sexually
Bi woman - likes all genders sexually
Notice there's no difference?
There it is, doesn't matter whether you put a label on yourself or not , doesn't matter what others think of it , go for whatever feels right for you and whatever you enjoy and don't worry about anything thay others have to say about it "
Amen !!! |
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