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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Points of view wanted!
Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?
If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?
I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?! |
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"Points of view wanted!
Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?
If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?
I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!"
Yes that would piss me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have different thought for fb as I do fwb.
Fb is just that, call up when you want to fuck, leave when done. No other real communication.
Fwb, also have the friends side and communicate as I do other friends.
The thing is different people have different expectations of fb and fwb, it's always best to clarify at the start imo. No one gets annoyed or upset then. |
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"Points of view wanted!
Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?
If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?
I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!"
A fuck buddy should be like a mate, just with added benefits.
Mates don't just ignore messages, so I would find that disrespectful. |
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"Points of view wanted!
Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?
If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?
I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!
A fuck buddy should be like a mate, just with added benefits.
Mates don't just ignore messages, so I would find that disrespectful. "
Actually, at explore.me said, maybe that's more of a FWB.
But still, I'd think a FB should reply to be polite. It's not like you are a random stranger messaging them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have minimal contact with a fuck buddy, if we are free we meet so no it wouldn't bother me
Now if it was a fwb I'd be very cross and call them out on it "
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wouldnt bother me in the least i tend to have ongoing conversations with people we just pick up when we want. Sometimes im not in the mood for chatting if someone expected me to reply straight away id think they where being needy |
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Would depend on the message I guess, for me I can be crap at replying why because I may be at work, and not able to answer the message at the time. I rather give my full attention so I often wait to reply.
More often than not I simply forget to reply to them. People do have lives at the end of the day.
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"I have regular friends who can take a few days to reply to a message. It doesn't mean they're playing games with me, just that they're not ready to reply. "
I am this friend
I can take days/weeks to get back to friends |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t bother me if the relationship was purely sex. I would message, if I don’t hear back in a week or so I might send them a pokey finger. Then I’d leave them to it. FB relationships are quite tricky I think. You have to be very clear on mutual expectations.
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If you’re checking if messages are read , that’s being a bit more involved than you’re letting yourself believe you are ..
Blows are totally different at the message etiquette.. my mates reply days later sometimes, I couldn’t care less when they read them |
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Wouldn't bother me, in fact I seek friendships (not just Fab) where this is OK. Feeling relaxed in someone's gaze, knowing you can be silent and that's ok. These things are important.
Obv if someone continuously ghosts and rises when suits, that's different. You have to feel there's mutual interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys, we are more fwb from reading your comments, it’s good having different opinions. I am a bit of a diva, not needy, but have expectations. 5 days for a reply is crap |
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"Thanks guys, we are more fwb from reading your comments, it’s good having different opinions. I am a bit of a diva, not needy, but have expectations. 5 days for a reply is crap"
Have you expressed those expectations to the other person? It may be a suitable time to have a conversation with other person what you expect from them. |
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"Points of view wanted!
Buddy’s should be open and honest with no head games as there’s no need, your just buddy’s, Right?
If you message them and they have seen it but don’t reply for days, would you be pissed?
I don’t think I’m being OTT, it’s down to respect?!"
That will really miffed ne off. Such a lack of consideration would drive me nuts! |
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