What really makes an ffm.
I get bored so easily
I've played with a few couples,
I've not yet got that pre play excitement, it's always been so planned thus taking out the spontaneous sexy build up
Is it just me . Do most people want the planed.. let's meet have a drink then go play
Put a show on for him .
Perhaps I've just not connected
I love the build up
The tease.
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Lust is built in the mind, nobody wants a play by play of what will happen. Just as variety is the key, we think its about a connection and a general understanding of what the 3 people are into or not, heat is built from tease and lust |
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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago
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"What really makes an ffm.
I get bored so easily
I've played with a few couples,
I've not yet got that pre play excitement, it's always been so planned thus taking out the spontaneous sexy build up
Is it just me . Do most people want the planed.. let's meet have a drink then go play
Put a show on for him .
Perhaps I've just not connected
I love the build up
The tease.
"
Could it be that's it so planed by the couple because it for fills there fantasy, and your needs and want gets bypassed, not saying this is the case but some food for thought |
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My only one was years ago when I was Running a Backpackers lodge in Africa..... With a lovely Parisian French couple. Flirted with one of them all night at a big party and we danced together fire poi on beach... When I invited her to my private hut she asked if her gf could join us.... being a gentleman I couldn't say no 
It was incredible and yet somehow still ever so slightly a let down? I can't describe it..... It was pretty much like being in a porno fantasy, and ridiculously hot at times, but something just felt missing I definitely enjoy the MMF dynamic a lot more! |
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The beauty of clubs is just bumping into new people and if the chemistry is right letting things just flow naturally. On the flip side you go with no expectations, no pressure or feelings of owing anyone anything. So if the chemistry isn't right you can cleanly walk away with the hopeful prospect of continuing to mingle and find something else. |
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And I think experience helps when getting a feel for other couples. Getting to know if you just an additional living sex toy or respected, valued and desired. Like others have said its your filament of desire too. You need to know that your desires are valued too. |
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"The beauty of clubs is just bumping into new people and if the chemistry is right letting things just flow naturally. On the flip side you go with no expectations, no pressure or feelings of owing anyone anything. So if the chemistry isn't right you can cleanly walk away with the hopeful prospect of continuing to mingle and find something else."
Totally agree on this
I can definitely say that one off meets on here ain't my thing . There's just no lust sexy build up |
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"What really makes an ffm.
I get bored so easily
I've played with a few couples,
I've not yet got that pre play excitement, it's always been so planned thus taking out the spontaneous sexy build up
Is it just me . Do most people want the planed.. let's meet have a drink then go play
Put a show on for him .
Perhaps I've just not connected
I love the build up
The tease.
"
We hate over planned meets, should work for everyone not just the couple. Doubt we would play if it felt staged or like a itinerary
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"What really makes an ffm.
I get bored so easily
I've played with a few couples,
I've not yet got that pre play excitement, it's always been so planned thus taking out the spontaneous sexy build up
Is it just me . Do most people want the planed.. let's meet have a drink then go play
Put a show on for him .
Perhaps I've just not connected
I love the build up
The tease.
We hate over planned meets, should work for everyone not just the couple. Doubt we would play if it felt staged or like a itinerary
Mr "
I played with a regular couple, that was best ever sometimes me and her, sometimes him . Then all if us . Every get together was different even the times we went to their villa
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Maybe some chat and “planning” before hand x but we always have the attitude that this a three. Not a 2 plus 1 x we think this outlook helps everyone to relax and just enjoy x with more repeat meets with the same friends this can only get better xx |
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"To be honest it's one if my fantasies but giving pleasure both of women ..but the foreplay and anxiety wen talking bout it really put things up.  "
It's such a challenge to find a genuine lady on here for me
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"To be honest it's one if my fantasies but giving pleasure both of women ..but the foreplay and anxiety wen talking bout it really put things up.
It's such a challenge to find a genuine lady on here for me
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Yea that’s difficult we must admit xx |
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