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over a year ago
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Not the ones that shit glitter and are magical. But the swinging kind. Single bi females that meet couples. Are they real, or like their namesake mythical ?  |
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Yes they do exist but they are to find as finding people that are compatible to all parties is difficult.
The unicorn often gets let down or treated poorly by the couples in my experience.
It takes a lot of work by all parties to achieve, but when everyone puts the work in it magical. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Bi Women (single or otherwise) who meet couples do exist, you just need to be able to entice/attract them.
Unicorns is becoming a bit of a tired label, as it appears that the interest is less about the person and more about the experience. But ymmv. |
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We have no doubt they exist, but have found impossible to find one.
Not sure if we are doing something wrong, or as a couple we don’t tick the boxes for the ladies. But we stopped looking many years ago, and except that a MFF isn’t going to happen. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I'm not keen on the unicorn label but over the last few years meeting couples has become my preference. It definitely relies on all 3 people being attracted to each other, & wanting similar things from the experience, & that can be quite tricky to find. |
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We have enjoyed the company of a number of bi women in the past, although they were usually in a very submissive role, which is a space we really enjoy
Have had some great experiences with younger women in particular, kittens, power play etc. with restrictions starting to come to an end, we would love to find some women who would love to be mentored and guided in the world of submission. Whilst always being safe and respected! Mrs is very bi, so any woman who joins us, gets to enjoy all elements, they are not there just for Mr |
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"We have enjoyed the company of a number of bi women in the past, although they were usually in a very submissive role, which is a space we really enjoy
Have had some great experiences with younger women in particular, kittens, power play etc. with restrictions starting to come to an end, we would love to find some women who would love to be mentored and guided in the world of submission. Whilst always being safe and respected! Mrs is very bi, so any woman who joins us, gets to enjoy all elements, they are not there just for Mr"
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I think if you see them as mythical creatures instead of actual human beings then it’s always going to be hard.
Single women also need to know that they aren’t going to just be a show for Mr. Instead, all sharing a fantastic experience together - all getting fun and enjoyment equally |
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"Yes they do exist but they are to find as finding people that are compatible to all parties is difficult.
The unicorn often gets let down or treated poorly by the couples in my experience.
It takes a lot of work by all parties to achieve, but when everyone puts the work in it magical. "
Hi Raven, perhaps we could explore compatibility? We can assure you that you would not get treated badly, quite tho opposite actually
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet. |
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"Yes they do exist but they are to find as finding people that are compatible to all parties is difficult.
The unicorn often gets let down or treated poorly by the couples in my experience.
It takes a lot of work by all parties to achieve, but when everyone puts the work in it magical.
Hi Raven, perhaps we could explore compatibility? We can assure you that you would not get treated badly, quite tho opposite actually
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Hi, Power couple -Norfolk
Thank you, I am only to happy to explore compatibility with you both. My inbox is open to you both.  |
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"Yes they do exist but they are to find as finding people that are compatible to all parties is difficult.
The unicorn often gets let down or treated poorly by the couples in my experience.
It takes a lot of work by all parties to achieve, but when everyone puts the work in it magical.
Hi Raven, perhaps we could explore compatibility? We can assure you that you would not get treated badly, quite tho opposite actually
Hi, Power couple -Norfolk
Thank you, I am only to happy to explore compatibility with you both. My inbox is open to you both. "
SQUEEE!!! This is adorable! |
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I’m bi (actually bi) and willing to meet couples. But I find it very difficult to find a married couple who are a good fit. I have more luck with FWB couples.
Obviously there’s the issue of being attracted to both of them, which isn’t always easy, and needing to get on with them both (as I don’t meet people I don’t like). But some other things that put me off are couples who expect me to put on a show for the man; couples who want me to be a cuckcake; couples where the woman is only bicurious (or even worse, straight), or “wanting to try a woman”, or expecting me to pleasure her but do nothing in return; couples where it seems to be the man pushing for a FFM and the woman isn’t keen; couples whose profiles are all about what they want and either don’t mention the woman they want to meet, or make it clear that they see her as an accessory and nothing more. I’m not an experiment or a sex toy, and if I get the slightest hint that that’s how they see me, or that there’ll be drama, I’m gone. |
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet."
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience. |
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet."
Be very clear and be specific and honest with them.
I hope you find what you seek and my inbox is open if would like to discuss what you seek. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience."
I am afraid you are very wrong. Maybe you should talk to people instead of jumping to conclusions.
Your statement couldn’t be further from the truth |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
Be very clear and be specific and honest with them.
I hope you find what you seek and my inbox is open if would like to discuss what you seek. "
Thank you and we will take you up on the offer of a discussion |
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"Not the ones that shit glitter and are magical. But the swinging kind. Single bi females that meet couples. Are they real, or like their namesake mythical ? "
They exist but very rare we been looking for few years and we’re still looking
We have decided we still want to but we’re at the point like if it happens then it will happen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not the ones that shit glitter and are magical. But the swinging kind. Single bi females that meet couples. Are they real, or like their namesake mythical ?
They exist but very rare we been looking for few years and we’re still looking
We have decided we still want to but we’re at the point like if it happens then it will happen "
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Oh, they are very real. I have met quite a number of them.
The are open to meeting the RIGHT couples though - you know, the ones:
1. Where the male half is not a pushy twit, who thinks he is the 21st century Spielberg.
2. Where they aren’t selfish and think another human being is purely an extension of their fantasy.
3. Who are actually interesting, engaging and actually have time to get to know the woman, build rapport and not clock-watch.
Some feedback I have received. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples care about each other's pleasure above all else so I can see why a third joining them may not get the experience they want or feel an equal part. If you've played outside of a couple as well as part of a couple it's possibly easier to understand the point of view of the person who joins. Couples who also play separately are a good option to explore.
Tabitha x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Couples care about each other's pleasure above all else so I can see why a third joining them may not get the experience they want or feel an equal part. If you've played outside of a couple as well as part of a couple it's possibly easier to understand the point of view of the person who joins. Couples who also play separately are a good option to explore.
Tabitha x"
Good advice. Thank you |
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We found our unicorn very easily (not that we would that term). In fact we weren't even looking. We just go out to make friends. We select our friends on who we like, not on who wants to have sex with us. We like our lady friend regardless of whether she wants to go to bed with us or not.
I think as a result she feels valued by us and not somebody who is there to tick a box on our list of fantasies. I personally think that making somebody feel valued just for being them is the most likely path to doors to be opened. Luke |
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience."
I can confirm this couple is actually seeking something that is of an mutual experience and not looking for a tick box experience at all. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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It’s an eternal question, any couple looking for a third to join them will no doubt understand how difficult it is to find a women who is comfortable with meeting a couple, then establish a three way attraction, then wrestle with geographical reality and diaries matching...we’ve been very lucky, but there is a gulf between the number of meets we’ve had and the number of meets we would have liked to have had. And we are mainly looking to meet a women who enjoys playing the submissive role in the third, which is even more rare. Or the dominant role, which is rarer still.
The thing that keeps us looking is that there is a very real explosion of shared passion and lust that we have experienced when meeting with women from Fab, because the desire was genuine between all three, and particularly exquisite.
So we’d encourage all couples who want to meet women and women who want to meet couples to keep looking - when you find the people who are right for you, you won’t regret it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We definitely know they exist, but everyone hitting it off with one another is the difficult thing we’ve found! it is something we’d love to be able to try x |
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience.
I can confirm this couple is actually seeking something that is of an mutual experience and not looking for a tick box experience at all. "
Cool. They may want to word it differently then, because “something very specific” sounds impersonal, slightly dehumanising, and like they have a checklist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience.
I can confirm this couple is actually seeking something that is of an mutual experience and not looking for a tick box experience at all.
Cool. They may want to word it differently then, because “something very specific” sounds impersonal, slightly dehumanising, and like they have a checklist."
I didn’t read it like that personally. It just made me wonder what they are looking for. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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And of course there’s nothing wrong with a couple or single looking for something very specific here - as long as those specifics are desired and communicated between all three, it’s really one of the keys to a successful meet. |
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience.
I can confirm this couple is actually seeking something that is of an mutual experience and not looking for a tick box experience at all.
Cool. They may want to word it differently then, because “something very specific” sounds impersonal, slightly dehumanising, and like they have a checklist."
I can see how that could be interpreted that way, I interpreted it as the op being honest that they felt what they seek is too specific for most people. That perhaps what they seek is unattainable. |
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We know quite a few, we always treat them with respect and try too meet there needs, nice food, nice wine and a dip in the hot tub then if everyone is happy we can move it up a notch, if not we just enjoy there company. Feel free to get in touch if that sounds like your sort of night xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like a lot on here some are real and others are just here for the attention,
You know the type you get them on facebook...."cant sleep"...well put your phone down
Then one liners like" is it all worth it " ...in other words ive no life someone talk to me ...lol
Then the endless quotes that seem to finding there way on fab
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience.
I can confirm this couple is actually seeking something that is of an mutual experience and not looking for a tick box experience at all. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The comments above indeed show they are real and this is music to our ears.
We are looks for something very specific with regards to a unicorn. so maybe that is why our search hasn’t been successful as of yet.
It does rather sound as if you just want to tick a box for yourselves, instead of a truly mutual experience.
I can confirm this couple is actually seeking something that is of an mutual experience and not looking for a tick box experience at all.
Cool. They may want to word it differently then, because “something very specific” sounds impersonal, slightly dehumanising, and like they have a checklist."
Sounds like ? Maybe it is the way you are reading it. Like I said don’t jump to conclusions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m approached all the time by couples.
The most frustrating thing is the assumption woman will play and the male may watch or join in later.
I play with couples but the male has to start it not the female - and rarely do I find females of couples that allow that. And jesus don’t get me started on the poor msg approaches! Instant delete.
I have my own couple - and I play with them and it’s wicked. The assumption a unicorn is fully bi - you lose the bi playful options! Which is just ridiculous to me! So is the term unicorn. |
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"I’m approached all the time by couples.
The most frustrating thing is the assumption woman will play and the male may watch or join in later.
I play with couples but the male has to start it not the female - and rarely do I find females of couples that allow that. And jesus don’t get me started on the poor msg approaches! Instant delete.
I have my own couple - and I play with them and it’s wicked. The assumption a unicorn is fully bi - you lose the bi playful options! Which is just ridiculous to me! So is the term unicorn. "
Yes so meany couples just don't understand it needs to be a mutual thing, and all three people need to be comfortable for it to work  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The whole unicorns thing was so 1999 we have move on ..."
And not for the better by the looks of this ...dont all jump down our throats ,message and we'll explain ...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The whole unicorns thing was so 1999 we have move on ..."
Was it?
I love being a unicorn and had one tattooed.
Then again my dresses are so 1950s and my goth stuff so 90/00s too so what do I know aye  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The whole unicorns thing was so 1999 we have move on ...
Was it?
I love being a unicorn and had one tattooed.
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i  being a unicorn too.. the term doesn't offend me. Px |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The whole unicorns thing was so 1999 we have move on ...
Was it?
I love being a unicorn and had one tattooed.
i being a unicorn too.. the term doesn't offend me. Px "
I had my tattoo the minute I became a single swinger (was previously on as a couple)
Its quite big on my inner bicep and get loads of comments from people "in the know"
When I am old I will be the d*unk granny at the xmas table
"Let your gran tell you a story about my tattoos"
I have a poisonivy thigh piece booked in for next month too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The whole unicorns thing was so 1999 we have move on ...
Was it?
I love being a unicorn and had one tattooed.
Then again my dresses are so 1950s and my goth stuff so 90/00s too so what do I know aye "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"From this thread alone we have found a very positive potential, for which we are really enjoying talking too
So thank you for the original post!
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Glad it was of help to someone as well as ourselves |
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Finding one person you click with, find attractive and get chance to meet is difficult multiply that search by 2 and its near impossible but does happen.
I want a friendship as well as the sexual side. I have been very lucky and chatting to a couple on here that i cant wait to meet.
I have also met in a club before and clicked with both straight away and had amazing fun and still friends and in touch years later.
But so many msgs on here from couples that feel entitled puts me off a little.
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"Finding one person you click with, find attractive and get chance to meet is difficult multiply that search by 2 and its near impossible but does happen.
I want a friendship as well as the sexual side. I have been very lucky and chatting to a couple on here that i cant wait to meet.
I have also met in a club before and clicked with both straight away and had amazing fun and still friends and in touch years later.
But so many msgs on here from couples that feel entitled puts me off a little.
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"Finding one person you click with, find attractive and get chance to meet is difficult multiply that search by 2 and its near impossible but does happen.
I want a friendship as well as the sexual side. I have been very lucky and chatting to a couple on here that i cant wait to meet.
I have also met in a club before and clicked with both straight away and had amazing fun and still friends and in touch years later.
But so many msgs on here from couples that feel entitled puts me off a little.
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There are many people on here that seem to feel entitled
We have been off the scene now for over a year (as we feel everyone should have). So it seems odd to us to look for anything other than friendship first. After all you need to seduce the mind before the body
As wel love the bdsm side of things as well, this is not a space you can just jump straight back into, there is an element of regaining some of those lost skills so that everyone can be safe and enjoy a great time
If anyone reading this would like to talk and build a friendship that will hopefully lead to fun in the bedroom where kink can be explored, feel free to message. We are a very respectful couple who are in no rush for good people
We certainly hope that everyone finds what they are looking for!
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"Finding one person you click with, find attractive and get chance to meet is difficult multiply that search by 2 and its near impossible but does happen.
I want a friendship as well as the sexual side. I have been very lucky and chatting to a couple on here that i cant wait to meet.
I have also met in a club before and clicked with both straight away and had amazing fun and still friends and in touch years later.
But so many msgs on here from couples that feel entitled puts me off a little.
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For me I see it like building a house , lay the foundations right the house will stand the test of time.
So yes building a friendship is the foundations to what maybe a fruitful and delightful not to delicious experience for all whether it be a one time only or an ongoing experience/relationship.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was before i met husband, not looking for a woman to play alone with me and that seems just as tricky to find "
Yes same I've given up trying to find a woman for a threesome now just trying to find a nice woman on my own just us girls to have fun is just as tough they always want their man involved or want a settle down relationship really tricky. Shame you live so far away x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd quite happily meet a couple alone but find it's really hard to. A semi regular set up where I'm friends with the couple would be great.
Depends on what everyone is looking for though. I wouldn't want to be just a toy. |
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From my understanding ya need to rope a couple of sea turtles together with a rope made of human hair and then ride them to just off the coast of diggi boots then head due east for a day and then you will find a fabled island of the unicorns. Oo sorry wrong thread |
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We are finding the 3 way attraction a problem (also 4 way with couples, but different convo).
Either only one of us is attracted to the lady, so we don't even bother messaging at all.
Or the lady is only attracted to one of us!
And that makes the unicorns even more rare to us 
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As a couple, and new to the scene, we came on quite naively. We thought it wouldn’t take long to find a woman to have some fun with but it turns out it’s much more complex than that. I’ve seen women say they get treated badly etc, which I know we would not do as a couple. Some want something more long term, others don’t. But the biggest thing is attraction. At the end of the day you’re doing something intimidate with them and if there’s no attraction then nothing will be good for any party involved. We are still hopeful but turns out it’s a marathon and not a sprint. |
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"We are finding the 3 way attraction a problem (also 4 way with couples, but different convo).
Either only one of us is attracted to the lady, so we don't even bother messaging at all.
Or the lady is only attracted to one of us!
And that makes the unicorns even more rare to us
Life ey "
Agreed! Definitely the hardest thing to get right |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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weve had several 3 way relationships over the yearsdating back to before we were "swingers"
one of the nicest compliments we got from another swinging couple was
"Your one of the few couples who can really do the threesome thing sucessfully" |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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"We are finding the 3 way attraction a problem (also 4 way with couples, but different convo).
Either only one of us is attracted to the lady, so we don't even bother messaging at all.
Or the lady is only attracted to one of us!
And that makes the unicorns even more rare to us
Life ey
Agreed! Definitely the hardest thing to get right "
we've always found even numbers the most difficult to swing with especially four
its so rare your both going to be equally attracted to two other people |
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"Not the ones that shit glitter and are magical. But the swinging kind. Single bi females that meet couples. Are they real, or like their namesake mythical ? "
There are loads of hot single bi females on the scene, we’ve found it far easier to find single females we are compatible with than we have single guys x |
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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago
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"Not met one yet. Got more chance of finding gold at the end of a rainbow."
I think we have had the same amount of unicorn meets as couple meets play wise maybe we have just been lucky though |
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"Not the ones that shit glitter and are magical. But the swinging kind. Single bi females that meet couples. Are they real, or like their namesake mythical ? "
I though the swinging kind also were magical a pooped glitter. Have I been miss led all this time!?!!!  |
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" There are loads of hot single bi females on the scene, we’ve found it far easier to find single females we are compatible with than we have single guys x
Send them our way "
oohh, and ours pretty please.. |
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