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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m curious to find out the pace of meets - ie, the first meet being a wham bam thank you ma’am or a dipping the toe in?
For me as a newbie to this, I’m looking to explore my bi side, and therefore want to take it slowly only exploring orally first (preferably with a couple)
However, when I find a suitable couple, it seems that they want someone who is comfortable and confident, experienced and will go the whole hog.
Do newbies find this an issue? Or are there actually people out there willing to just explore foreplay or a more subtle meet rather than always the whole hog? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies. But a type meet for me is to turn up, chat for and hour or two, sometimes more, maybe have something to eat or drink. Then 2-3 hours of sex.
But I've had social meets only, a also meets where he's inside me within 2 minutes. But generally it's more like the above. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It varies. But a type meet for me is to turn up, chat for and hour or two, sometimes more, maybe have something to eat or drink. Then 2-3 hours of sex.
But I've had social meets only, a also meets where he's inside me within 2 minutes. But generally it's more like the above. Xx"
I guess the 2 minute ones is dependent on attraction and tension - built up from messaging on here etc
For certain meets ie with a women, I’m confident as been with women before (maybe nerves due to swinging newbie) but would happily drink chat and then progress.
It’s the other aspect where you want to explore boundaries but most on here have already passed that stage and so want more from the meet
Ie, wanting to explore and slowly, so starting with oral curiosities with a bi couple but they want full sex and will know they can meet someone here experienced so no need to be welcoming to inexperienced members |
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"Put all what youve said here on your profile then you will attract like minded people"
Fair point! I did have a profile a while back with it included but struggled to find like minded - but appreciate the reminder I need to do my profile haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put all what youve said here on your profile then you will attract like minded people"
^ this, but also go with the flow, let things happen naturally n organically, but most of all enjoy the journey that fab has to offer good look on that journey |
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